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Most of what people know about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) comes from movies and short videos, and those media portrayals often have little to do with what DID is actually like. To get the real picture, today I'm joined by Dr. Milissa Kaufman and Dr. Lauren Lebois, experts in dissociative disorders and trauma research. Dr. Kaufman had DID herself, went through treatment, and made a full recovery.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro and Dr. Kaufman's personal experience with DID
7:37 The spectrum of dissociation: Depersonalization, Derealization, and Dissociative Identity Disorder
18:42 Dr. Kaufman's experience of DID
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26:16 The paradoxes and shame involved with DID
30:20 History of skepticism around DID, and the role of modern neuroscience
47:30 Treatment for DID and trauma-informed treatment
1:07:31 What healing and recovery looks like
1:18:28 Recap
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Most of what people know about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) comes from movies and short videos, and those media portrayals often have little to do with what DID is actually like. To get the real picture, today I'm joined by Dr. Milissa Kaufman and Dr. Lauren Lebois, experts in dissociative disorders and trauma research. Dr. Kaufman had DID herself, went through treatment, and made a full recovery.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro and Dr. Kaufman's personal experience with DID
7:37 The spectrum of dissociation: Depersonalization, Derealization, and Dissociative Identity Disorder
18:42 Dr. Kaufman's experience of DID
24:45 [Sponsor] Zocdoc
26:16 The paradoxes and shame involved with DID
30:20 History of skepticism around DID, and the role of modern neuroscience
47:30 Treatment for DID and trauma-informed treatment
1:07:31 What healing and recovery looks like
1:18:28 Recap
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![Reparenting Yourself: How to Heal Emotional Immaturity | Dr. Lindsay Gibson, Being Well
Dr. Lindsay Gibson joins me to explore how we can reparent ourselves, recover from emotionally immature parenting, and develop greater emotional maturity. We discuss what emotional maturity actually is, the good enough parent, the voices we internalize, and how adults can begin to give themselves the internal security and emotional attunement they missed in childhood. Other topics include why feeling misunderstood is so painful, the lifelong dance between connection and autonomy, and the hidden costs of authoritarian parenting.ย
About our guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of a number of books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and her new book, How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro & what emotional maturity looks like
7:45 Why our culture undervalues emotional maturityย
13:13 The โgood enoughโ parent
20:28 What happens to children with emotionally immature parents
27:42 [Sponsor] Shopify
28:57 Repair in adulthood
38:09 The importance of feeling understood
45:52 Mirroring: why itโs important and how to get better at it
51:16 Balancing connection and autonomy
55:52 The appropriate level of parental authority
1:07:00 Parenting mistakes to avoid
1:18:13 Recap
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![Treating BPD with Mentalization-Based Therapy | Robert Drozek, Being Well
Have you ever had a friend not text you back, and youโre certain that theyโre mad at you? This is often a disruption in the process of mentalization: the ability to recognize that our thoughts and feelings might not be facts. Mentalization is a process we can all struggle with, but itโs particularly important for people who have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
In this episode, Im joined by psychotherapist and author Robert Drozek to discuss mentalization-based treatment (MBT) and the tools that can help us develop more flexibility and curiosity around our assumptions. Bob outlines the three common modes of mentalizing, explains how childhood experiences shape mentalization, and offers a map for building healthier ways of relating to our thoughts and feelings.ย
About our Guest: Robert Drozak is a clinical social worker, the clinical director of the Mentalization-Based Treatment Clinic at McLean Hospital, and a teaching associate in the Department of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. His new book, Mentalization: Utilizing Reflection to Heal from Borderline Personality Disorder, is the first book about Mentalization-Based Treatment aimed at a general audience.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro: what is mentalization?
5:12 Ways mentalization can go wrong
13:25 Borderline Personality Disorder as a deficit in mentalization
22:13 How mentalization is shaped in childhood
27:15 [Sponsor] Sleep Reset
28:54 The alien self
32:23 Developing an MBT formulation
42:03 MBT in the therapy room
54:40 Challenging your beliefs and assumptions
1:11:21 How to get out of pretend mode
1:21:37 Addressing problems with interoception
1:30:00 Recap
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