Uploaded March 2020 | Updated September 2026, 3 days ago
During a long Quaker business meeting, Laura Boles stood up and said, “I don’t want to hide behind Quaker process… I want to do something and I want to do something now.” And so she did.
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Music: "Here and Now" by Caleb Etheridge
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Transcript:
Laura Boles: I'm really big on Quakers announcing themselves to the world and owning the glory that is Quakers and all of the greatness that we have and labeling that and not just being like "Oh, I'm a humble person in the world. I'm at my 20th protest, you know, this week but I'm just going to wear black and sit in the corner and just, you know, have my little sign." I want people to say, "I am a Quaker and I believe this is right, and I am here at this protest as a Quaker."
The Power of Being Quaker in Public
My name is Laura Boles. I live in Mill Valley, California, and my meeting is Strawberry Creek Meeting in Berkley. I had really a vision in my meeting. It was pretty powerful. I just felt like... I was listening to business meeting droning on about something or other and I just kind of lost it and just stood up and was like, "I -- I don't want to hide behind Quaker process. I don't want to hide behind endless committee meetings talking on and on. I don't want to hide behind consensus. I want to do something and I want to do something now. I don't want to wait, and we cannot wait." So, I started a group in my meeting called Quaker Action Worship Group, and I said, you know, we are going to concentrate on action. We are going to go out with Quaker banners, Quaker t-shirts. We have got to label ourselves Quaker and be present in the most vocal way, and it's very un-Quaker. It's not what Quakers like to do. They don't want to be, you know, showboating or saying, you know, how we got the answer, but I am saying we got the answer and I want people to see what we're all about and I want to offer us up to the world. We started just showing up at events and saying "We're here, we're standing up!"
The Value of Public Silent Worship
Any kind of march or public witness of any kind, we start with silent witness and that can be great and beautiful because you're in the middle of this, you know, march or this rally. We're this island of silence in all the-- all the protestors, you know, everyone's running around trying to find their friends or the police are usually everywhere and there's, you know, helicopters and squad cars and firetrucks going, you know, and we're there silently. For me, the power is bringing that silent, loving holding presence to a group of people who are angry and who are so disturbed and so frantic, and it can really bring another level.
Building Community with Quaker Tools
Quakers have a good reputation. We have good PR, we have good-- we have good marketing value, you know? I think we have a reputation as a group with integrity. I think we have a reputation as people who say what they're going to do and do it. So, I think we should use that reputation, we should use that power we have, I mean, and flex it. For us, it's a practice and a way of life, but I also look at it in a very utilitarian way also in that it's a tool. What I mean when I'm saying it, what I mean is Quaker listening, and by that I mean listening for that of God within someone. When someone's talking to me, I am listening actively for the light within them. The challenge is to see beyond and see in and pick out the parts that are of the light and fortify and concentrate those pieces, and that is just the time consuming and kind of rather disturbing, ya know, it's just like, "oh God, I have to slog through another, you know, meeting and greet. More people, more people. But I think that's what Quakers, the strength of them is and the power of them is, and I would like to see more of it in the world.
Rebecca Hamilton-Levi: Thanks for watching this QuakerSpeak video. We release a new video every Thursday. You can watch all our videos in this playlist. You can subscribe to our channel by clicking this button here. You can support us through our Patreon here. Thanks again for watching, and have a happy Thursday!
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During a long Quaker business meeting, Laura Boles stood up and said, “I don’t want to hide behind Quaker process… I want to do something and I want to do something now.” And so she did.
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Filming by Jon Watts
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Editing by Rebecca Hamilton-Levi
Music: "Here and Now" by Caleb Etheridge
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Transcript:
Laura Boles: I'm really big on Quakers announcing themselves to the world and owning the glory that is Quakers and all of the greatness that we have and labeling that and not just being like "Oh, I'm a humble person in the world. I'm at my 20th protest, you know, this week but I'm just going to wear black and sit in the corner and just, you know, have my little sign." I want people to say, "I am a Quaker and I believe this is right, and I am here at this protest as a Quaker."
The Power of Being Quaker in Public
My name is Laura Boles. I live in Mill Valley, California, and my meeting is Strawberry Creek Meeting in Berkley. I had really a vision in my meeting. It was pretty powerful. I just felt like... I was listening to business meeting droning on about something or other and I just kind of lost it and just stood up and was like, "I -- I don't want to hide behind Quaker process. I don't want to hide behind endless committee meetings talking on and on. I don't want to hide behind consensus. I want to do something and I want to do something now. I don't want to wait, and we cannot wait." So, I started a group in my meeting called Quaker Action Worship Group, and I said, you know, we are going to concentrate on action. We are going to go out with Quaker banners, Quaker t-shirts. We have got to label ourselves Quaker and be present in the most vocal way, and it's very un-Quaker. It's not what Quakers like to do. They don't want to be, you know, showboating or saying, you know, how we got the answer, but I am saying we got the answer and I want people to see what we're all about and I want to offer us up to the world. We started just showing up at events and saying "We're here, we're standing up!"
The Value of Public Silent Worship
Any kind of march or public witness of any kind, we start with silent witness and that can be great and beautiful because you're in the middle of this, you know, march or this rally. We're this island of silence in all the-- all the protestors, you know, everyone's running around trying to find their friends or the police are usually everywhere and there's, you know, helicopters and squad cars and firetrucks going, you know, and we're there silently. For me, the power is bringing that silent, loving holding presence to a group of people who are angry and who are so disturbed and so frantic, and it can really bring another level.
Building Community with Quaker Tools
Quakers have a good reputation. We have good PR, we have good-- we have good marketing value, you know? I think we have a reputation as a group with integrity. I think we have a reputation as people who say what they're going to do and do it. So, I think we should use that reputation, we should use that power we have, I mean, and flex it. For us, it's a practice and a way of life, but I also look at it in a very utilitarian way also in that it's a tool. What I mean when I'm saying it, what I mean is Quaker listening, and by that I mean listening for that of God within someone. When someone's talking to me, I am listening actively for the light within them. The challenge is to see beyond and see in and pick out the parts that are of the light and fortify and concentrate those pieces, and that is just the time consuming and kind of rather disturbing, ya know, it's just like, "oh God, I have to slog through another, you know, meeting and greet. More people, more people. But I think that's what Quakers, the strength of them is and the power of them is, and I would like to see more of it in the world.
Rebecca Hamilton-Levi: Thanks for watching this QuakerSpeak video. We release a new video every Thursday. You can watch all our videos in this playlist. You can subscribe to our channel by clicking this button here. You can support us through our Patreon here. Thanks again for watching, and have a happy Thursday!
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![Understanding the Quaker Peace Testimony
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JOSEPH IZZO
For me, the peace testimony is essential. The peace and equality testimonies go together. If were all equal within the Divine Spirit, then we dont kill. We support each other for full life. Because I believed, even before I was a Quaker, that the Divine and Spirit lives in everyone, that killing another human being is wrong. I opposed the death penalty, I certainly opposed war, and all we have to have is evidence. Look whats going on in Gaza. Look whats going on in Lebanon and in the West Bank. Look at whats going on in Ukraine. Innocent lives of men, women and children being destroyed. For what? Thats really what led me to Quakerism
In my life, the peace testimony oscillates from the micro to the macro.
DAQUANNA HARRISON
An example of where the peace testimony is individually bound for me is my mindfulness work. Different ways to engage and interact with myself in positive ways. Making sure that I am with in myself peaceful. Shutting down negative thoughts, finding lessons instead of feeling like a failure. Thats peace within me.
PRADIP LAMICHHANE
If you feel peace within yourself, thats the great thing [that] I am experiencing currently, whether there is an issue in family, issue in church, issue in meeting, issue in office. But within myself, I feel peace. So from that power, I will try to fix the issues outside of me. Sometimes I fail. Thats okay! Being fail okay. You do the mistake? Thats okay. You can do a mistake. You can fail. But you need to talk to God again. He will help you to overcome that fail and this will be going until we die. Sometimes it is very difficult. Very difficult.
RASHID DARDEN
I apply the peace testimony with great difficulty and challenge every day. And the reason for that is because I was born into a capitalist nation based upon slave economies from which the nation still has a problem extricating itself from. The peace testimony is also something I grapple with because I am descended from people who were victimized by the transatlantic slave trade, by racism, by Jim Crow laws. I am descended from rapists. I am descended from lots of people who committed various atrocities in their own names, in the name of God and in the name of this nation.
WINDY COOLER
I feel like the more I tried to deny the violence inside of me and the violence around me, the more stuck I got and the less peaceful I actually was To be peaceful, to me, does not mean to be placid. It doesnt mean to be still or quiet. It means to feel contentment and satisfaction in my heart, to feel in my relationship with other people.
ABEL SIBONIO
I do apply the peace testimony in my all activity works. Sometimes, even if I get a phone call from someone who is harassed, I will stop what Im doing and I said, “I needed to go into support and to comfort that person.” That is the way we bring peace. If someone, just young people, just use rude words, I dont have to wait. I said, “You dont have to fight. Lets talk quietly and sort out the issue.” So we try to help to avoid all of those conflicts wherever we are.
RASHID DARDEN
I would also say that there are ways in which friends grapple with the peace testimony in and of themselves because theres an idea that conflict is violent. Conflict is often necessary to our understanding, and just because two people have a disagreement doesnt mean that they are at war. I think that if friends learned how to disagree with one another in love and in peace, that you can have moments of disharmony that come back to harmony. You can have moments where friends dont agree, but are able to convince one another of their viewpoints.
WINDY COOLER
To be in right relationship with other people is never a peaceful enterprise. When I think about being in right relationship with my family, that requires constant negotiation, constant introspection. Peace is not a peaceful thing
PRADIP LAMICHHANE
So even in the family, you cant accept things every time in your family. There is no one in the world whose couple has not fighted. The husband and wife, the son and father. Thats natural. Thats normal. That has to be there. Otherwise, you are not family...
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