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Music: We are Home by Four Trees
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There's an old Quaker story, probably apocryphal (probably never happened) about a meeting between William Penn and George Fox. William Penn, at that day, was wearing the clothes and customs of the day, including wearing a sword, and it occurred to him to ask George Fox about this wearing of the sword. And he asked him, "How long should I keep wearing-- should I keep wearing this sword?" or whatever and the answer was, "You should wear it as long as you can," and after a while William Penn got rid of his sword. And the point was that Fox didn't say, "Yeah, I'm telling you as an authority that you shouldn't have that sword because we're trying to eliminate violence, not carry around obvious tools of violence." Instead it was, "the power of that decision needs to come from your heart," and I love that, and that sort of powers some of my approaches to this.
A Quaker Way Toward Ending Gun Violence
Hi, my name is Peter Murchison. I live in Ridgefield, CT, and I'm a member of the Wilton Quaker Meeting in Wilton, CT.
Gun violence prevention I think of as a big umbrella and "gun control" is a very small element in there. Gun violence prevention can mean that people have a change in heart and decide that they don't want to have a gun, that a gun doesn't make them safer, and to me that's the ultimate way to get there. If magically everyone decided they didn't need a gun anymore in the United States then the Second Amendment could still be there gathering dust on the shelf and it wouldn't matter because people decided how they want to behave.
A Personal Connection to Gun Violence
Well when Sandy Hook happened that's where we lost my nephew who's name was Daniel Barden, and that was the start of everything. It probably took four or five years before I actually started to get active about it, it was really after Parkland. In my head I write headlines for op-eds that I don't get around to writing and one of them is that Sandy Hook knocked us off our feet but the Parkland kids got us up off our asses, and I really think that the students from Parkland really showed the activism that could come out of those experiences and for me that was sort of the motivational inspiration to get started on something, so I did.
Is There a Quaker Responsibility to Ending Gun Violence?
Being a Quaker naturally leads to this kind of work in the sense that one of the fundamentals that we're trying to do is to eliminate violence, is to-- in recognizing and respecting that of God in every person, how can you take a person's life? How can you try to get along with someone in a way that is just coercive, with weapons to get your way? There is so much overlap between advocacy for gun violence prevention and what Quakers believe in. It's easy to make that connection and sometimes hard to do the work.
In this country, we have the privilege to say we're Quakers, we're pacifists, etc. and with that comes responsibility. In other words, there's hard work that follows. Being pacifist isn't easy (I'm not even very good at it) but with it comes the responsibility to take actions that make our society less violent and I just think we all need to get off the bench a little bit.
Getting Involved with Gun Violence Prevention Work
So if people want to be involved in gun violence prevention, again I would say just get started. The first thing to do is just to show up, the first thing to do is to look for where people are needed, but it just starts with participating. Every state also has groups that are working on gun violence and to go online and educate yourself on what's going on, and then from there try meeting with your legislators perhaps. Try meeting with other faith communities, and again just try to use your stories. Everyone has a story-- it doesn't have to be as tragic as the one that I came from, but stories move people and to get communication among folks that generally don't agree on things I think we have to move each other.
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Transcript:
There's an old Quaker story, probably apocryphal (probably never happened) about a meeting between William Penn and George Fox. William Penn, at that day, was wearing the clothes and customs of the day, including wearing a sword, and it occurred to him to ask George Fox about this wearing of the sword. And he asked him, "How long should I keep wearing-- should I keep wearing this sword?" or whatever and the answer was, "You should wear it as long as you can," and after a while William Penn got rid of his sword. And the point was that Fox didn't say, "Yeah, I'm telling you as an authority that you shouldn't have that sword because we're trying to eliminate violence, not carry around obvious tools of violence." Instead it was, "the power of that decision needs to come from your heart," and I love that, and that sort of powers some of my approaches to this.
A Quaker Way Toward Ending Gun Violence
Hi, my name is Peter Murchison. I live in Ridgefield, CT, and I'm a member of the Wilton Quaker Meeting in Wilton, CT.
Gun violence prevention I think of as a big umbrella and "gun control" is a very small element in there. Gun violence prevention can mean that people have a change in heart and decide that they don't want to have a gun, that a gun doesn't make them safer, and to me that's the ultimate way to get there. If magically everyone decided they didn't need a gun anymore in the United States then the Second Amendment could still be there gathering dust on the shelf and it wouldn't matter because people decided how they want to behave.
A Personal Connection to Gun Violence
Well when Sandy Hook happened that's where we lost my nephew who's name was Daniel Barden, and that was the start of everything. It probably took four or five years before I actually started to get active about it, it was really after Parkland. In my head I write headlines for op-eds that I don't get around to writing and one of them is that Sandy Hook knocked us off our feet but the Parkland kids got us up off our asses, and I really think that the students from Parkland really showed the activism that could come out of those experiences and for me that was sort of the motivational inspiration to get started on something, so I did.
Is There a Quaker Responsibility to Ending Gun Violence?
Being a Quaker naturally leads to this kind of work in the sense that one of the fundamentals that we're trying to do is to eliminate violence, is to-- in recognizing and respecting that of God in every person, how can you take a person's life? How can you try to get along with someone in a way that is just coercive, with weapons to get your way? There is so much overlap between advocacy for gun violence prevention and what Quakers believe in. It's easy to make that connection and sometimes hard to do the work.
In this country, we have the privilege to say we're Quakers, we're pacifists, etc. and with that comes responsibility. In other words, there's hard work that follows. Being pacifist isn't easy (I'm not even very good at it) but with it comes the responsibility to take actions that make our society less violent and I just think we all need to get off the bench a little bit.
Getting Involved with Gun Violence Prevention Work
So if people want to be involved in gun violence prevention, again I would say just get started. The first thing to do is just to show up, the first thing to do is to look for where people are needed, but it just starts with participating. Every state also has groups that are working on gun violence and to go online and educate yourself on what's going on, and then from there try meeting with your legislators perhaps. Try meeting with other faith communities, and again just try to use your stories. Everyone has a story-- it doesn't have to be as tragic as the one that I came from, but stories move people and to get communication among folks that generally don't agree on things I think we have to move each other.
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.



![The Key to Spirit-Led Pastoral Care
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I worked as a pastor cause I was ordained in 1987. Several times I experienced nice dreams that were conducting me to the leadership of a chior. So I could hear the good song, I could hear the voice and the words and write them and the next day I would have to teach the song to the choir. It was marvelous. One song which I used, and which was spread in the whole Friends church in Burundi at that time, it talks about the love of God. God is love, we should love one another. I will sing just one chorus for you.
My name is pastor Abel Siibonio. I grew up in Evangelical Friends Chursh, in Burundi. It’s now seventeen years I’m living in Australia, and I’m attending Queensland Regional Meeting of Friends. I was able to recognize some of my gifts through the holy spirit showing me the way. Sometimes when I was on the mountain looking after sheeps, I could hear some good and kind voice often requesting me to consecrate my life to Christ. I spent like four years in the bible school from 1974, and I returned to my village and was able to go through and work for Evangelical Friends Church. So it was not easy for me at that time to enter that field, but it was the holy spirit who guided me. Strength comes from the peace, love, simplicity testimonies. Love one another; that really helped me a lot to make sure we are bringing everybody on board.
Pastoral skills needed in this field are so many. Be able to listen. Be able to listen to other people. be able to discern what is good [from] what is bad. If you dont have the spirit of discernment, someone may come and bring a bad teacher and the whole church will fall! You need to be able to listen to the friends around you, elders around you, and be able to listen to the holy spirit because the spirit will go beyond you as a human being.
Another skill, of course you ned to be able to talk. In Africa, we dont have always have the microphone. You need your voice to be able to reach 500 people who are there. I was not able to have the kind of voice when I was young. So often, when I was just outside in the mountains, I would try to practice the voice e. I would just shout, I could say, “Now, if I can hear the echo, that means the voice reached that mountain and came back”. Not only talking, but you need to discern what to talk [about] at the right time.
Sometimes we need, also, to have some skills on medical issues. Be able to recognize ‘this is that spiritual issues, this is malaria’. In my village, we had this bloody diarrhea, and people didn’t think it was a curable disease. Because I was able to know, I did support all of the people in the village. None of them died! So you need the skill to recognize what is the spiritual and what is physical.
Yes, another skill you need as a pastor, you need a social skill. You can interact with other neighbors, people from different angles because you will need them. You need to visit prisoners, and if you dont have the skill to approach the leadership of our social places, you wont reach to anything. For newcomers, it’s good to have elders to help you to identify. You empower them to go beyond just understanding the newcomer and be able to identify some of their needs. Sometimes they may come to church because of the domestic violence issues they are facing in the families, or any kind of abuse. So we have trained an elder woman to talk to them. I did that even in the [Tanzania] refugee camp, where I became the first woman group leader in the the whole camp, so that I could serve them.
You have to be brave because of the authorities, sometimes they are not Christians. Sometimes with the police, who were taking advantage of, you know, young girls who were just working for them, and cooking for them, or washing their clothes they started sexually abusing them. I said, “No. You have been brought here to protect my people, you cannot take advantage of them”. So one night, they surrounded my house, like fifteen police, at night to kill me. If it was not [for] the community who had protected me that night I could have died! Six refugees were killed the same night. So the next morning the camp commander came to office and said, “I want to view! I want to see what you are writing! What do you report?” So my immediate supervisor came to visit me with a sexual gender based violence program evaluator from England...
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