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Daniel Joseph Parker: I think doing service and doing activism is a thing that is at the core of what it means to be a Quaker—or what it means to be a person who has a spiritual practice or a person who has faith. Because if our spirituality is just internal or it’s just within the community that we practice the spirituality in, we can be in this cocoon of our own privilege and divorced from the experiences that people are having in the world.
7 Millennials Share How a Year of Service Changed Their Lives
Sara Dean: A lot of people I knew graduated from college and went out into the world in an unstructured way and got a job in a city and just felt really lonely.
Damon Motz-Storey: For me, when I left college and was starting to come into the real world, I didn’t really know where to go for exploring career and home life in a spiritual context.
Carol Anne Ferlauto: I had been working at a big bank for five years and felt that the work I was doing was in conflict with my ethics. I was a recently convinced Friend when I heard about QVS and it seemed like a great opportunity to be able to try something different and to find work that was more in line with my values, and it ended up being so much more than that.
The Value of Community
Zenaida Peterson: I mean, it was epic: you’re moving into a house with six other people, seven other people who you’ve never met before, and all I knew about them was that they were also interested in deepening their spirituality and doing social justice work.
Sara Dean: My housemates and I got very lucky in that we absolutely adore each other. We made sure that we were looking at community as an action, as both the work and the stuff you put into it, but also the play and the fun.
Zenaida Peterson: I’ve never been in a space where I was with other young people focused on spirituality, and it just felt so radical in so many ways. We weren’t roommates—we were people who moved in with each other and said, “I’m committed to your transformation for this year. I’m committed to you deepening your spirituality. I’m committed to your wellness. And I don’t know your middle name.”
Service and Faith
Lili Baldwin: For me, a lot of what faith is is being open to transformation and being open to knowledge and good and truth and beauty being beyond what you can rationally know. Service is really the best tool for getting outside of what is comfortable and known for you.
Damon Motz-Storey: I think the two are very inextricably linked—faith and action, faith and service. So to me that’s fundamentally what service is about: it’s about listening deeply to yourself and for that of God in others to tell you, “What is my place in creating the beloved community?”
Re-Defining Service
Liz Nicholson: Before I did Quaker Voluntary Service, I conceptualized service as a very outward giving of myself. My idea of service has become much broader and much more complicated, in that service is both and outward and an inward process.
Daniel Joseph Parker: There are ways of thinking about service further back in history that are patronizing or are really not about equal power between people. What I was looking for was an idea of service that was not about being a savior who jumps in to make things better, but about showing up to be there and do the work with people who are in the community that you’re serving.
Lili Baldwin: Service is not just about helping people or putting a band-aid on a problem. The best service is service that–I don’t even want to say it helps, but it is a mutual spark of human connection.
An Opportunity for Transformation
Sara Dean: I think for many people, your early twenties is the first time that you might not know what your next step is. Because of that, it can be pretty frightening. For many people, it’s one of the least structured times in their life that they’ve ever had.
More: https://fdsj.nl/service
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.
Find out how to support Quaker Voluntary Service or become a Fellow: https://fdsj.nl/qvs
Young adulthood is a time of great opportunity, challenge, and change. Listen to how this Quaker program is helping young adults find community, purpose, and spirit.
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WATCH all our videos: http://fdsj.nl/qs-all-videos
Filmed and edited by Jon Watts: jonwatts.com
Music from this episode: jonwattsmusic.com
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Transcript:
Daniel Joseph Parker: I think doing service and doing activism is a thing that is at the core of what it means to be a Quaker—or what it means to be a person who has a spiritual practice or a person who has faith. Because if our spirituality is just internal or it’s just within the community that we practice the spirituality in, we can be in this cocoon of our own privilege and divorced from the experiences that people are having in the world.
7 Millennials Share How a Year of Service Changed Their Lives
Sara Dean: A lot of people I knew graduated from college and went out into the world in an unstructured way and got a job in a city and just felt really lonely.
Damon Motz-Storey: For me, when I left college and was starting to come into the real world, I didn’t really know where to go for exploring career and home life in a spiritual context.
Carol Anne Ferlauto: I had been working at a big bank for five years and felt that the work I was doing was in conflict with my ethics. I was a recently convinced Friend when I heard about QVS and it seemed like a great opportunity to be able to try something different and to find work that was more in line with my values, and it ended up being so much more than that.
The Value of Community
Zenaida Peterson: I mean, it was epic: you’re moving into a house with six other people, seven other people who you’ve never met before, and all I knew about them was that they were also interested in deepening their spirituality and doing social justice work.
Sara Dean: My housemates and I got very lucky in that we absolutely adore each other. We made sure that we were looking at community as an action, as both the work and the stuff you put into it, but also the play and the fun.
Zenaida Peterson: I’ve never been in a space where I was with other young people focused on spirituality, and it just felt so radical in so many ways. We weren’t roommates—we were people who moved in with each other and said, “I’m committed to your transformation for this year. I’m committed to you deepening your spirituality. I’m committed to your wellness. And I don’t know your middle name.”
Service and Faith
Lili Baldwin: For me, a lot of what faith is is being open to transformation and being open to knowledge and good and truth and beauty being beyond what you can rationally know. Service is really the best tool for getting outside of what is comfortable and known for you.
Damon Motz-Storey: I think the two are very inextricably linked—faith and action, faith and service. So to me that’s fundamentally what service is about: it’s about listening deeply to yourself and for that of God in others to tell you, “What is my place in creating the beloved community?”
Re-Defining Service
Liz Nicholson: Before I did Quaker Voluntary Service, I conceptualized service as a very outward giving of myself. My idea of service has become much broader and much more complicated, in that service is both and outward and an inward process.
Daniel Joseph Parker: There are ways of thinking about service further back in history that are patronizing or are really not about equal power between people. What I was looking for was an idea of service that was not about being a savior who jumps in to make things better, but about showing up to be there and do the work with people who are in the community that you’re serving.
Lili Baldwin: Service is not just about helping people or putting a band-aid on a problem. The best service is service that–I don’t even want to say it helps, but it is a mutual spark of human connection.
An Opportunity for Transformation
Sara Dean: I think for many people, your early twenties is the first time that you might not know what your next step is. Because of that, it can be pretty frightening. For many people, it’s one of the least structured times in their life that they’ve ever had.
More: https://fdsj.nl/service
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.










![The Key to Spirit-Led Pastoral Care
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I worked as a pastor cause I was ordained in 1987. Several times I experienced nice dreams that were conducting me to the leadership of a chior. So I could hear the good song, I could hear the voice and the words and write them and the next day I would have to teach the song to the choir. It was marvelous. One song which I used, and which was spread in the whole Friends church in Burundi at that time, it talks about the love of God. God is love, we should love one another. I will sing just one chorus for you.
My name is pastor Abel Siibonio. I grew up in Evangelical Friends Chursh, in Burundi. It’s now seventeen years I’m living in Australia, and I’m attending Queensland Regional Meeting of Friends. I was able to recognize some of my gifts through the holy spirit showing me the way. Sometimes when I was on the mountain looking after sheeps, I could hear some good and kind voice often requesting me to consecrate my life to Christ. I spent like four years in the bible school from 1974, and I returned to my village and was able to go through and work for Evangelical Friends Church. So it was not easy for me at that time to enter that field, but it was the holy spirit who guided me. Strength comes from the peace, love, simplicity testimonies. Love one another; that really helped me a lot to make sure we are bringing everybody on board.
Pastoral skills needed in this field are so many. Be able to listen. Be able to listen to other people. be able to discern what is good [from] what is bad. If you dont have the spirit of discernment, someone may come and bring a bad teacher and the whole church will fall! You need to be able to listen to the friends around you, elders around you, and be able to listen to the holy spirit because the spirit will go beyond you as a human being.
Another skill, of course you ned to be able to talk. In Africa, we dont have always have the microphone. You need your voice to be able to reach 500 people who are there. I was not able to have the kind of voice when I was young. So often, when I was just outside in the mountains, I would try to practice the voice e. I would just shout, I could say, “Now, if I can hear the echo, that means the voice reached that mountain and came back”. Not only talking, but you need to discern what to talk [about] at the right time.
Sometimes we need, also, to have some skills on medical issues. Be able to recognize ‘this is that spiritual issues, this is malaria’. In my village, we had this bloody diarrhea, and people didn’t think it was a curable disease. Because I was able to know, I did support all of the people in the village. None of them died! So you need the skill to recognize what is the spiritual and what is physical.
Yes, another skill you need as a pastor, you need a social skill. You can interact with other neighbors, people from different angles because you will need them. You need to visit prisoners, and if you dont have the skill to approach the leadership of our social places, you wont reach to anything. For newcomers, it’s good to have elders to help you to identify. You empower them to go beyond just understanding the newcomer and be able to identify some of their needs. Sometimes they may come to church because of the domestic violence issues they are facing in the families, or any kind of abuse. So we have trained an elder woman to talk to them. I did that even in the [Tanzania] refugee camp, where I became the first woman group leader in the the whole camp, so that I could serve them.
You have to be brave because of the authorities, sometimes they are not Christians. Sometimes with the police, who were taking advantage of, you know, young girls who were just working for them, and cooking for them, or washing their clothes they started sexually abusing them. I said, “No. You have been brought here to protect my people, you cannot take advantage of them”. So one night, they surrounded my house, like fifteen police, at night to kill me. If it was not [for] the community who had protected me that night I could have died! Six refugees were killed the same night. So the next morning the camp commander came to office and said, “I want to view! I want to see what you are writing! What do you report?” So my immediate supervisor came to visit me with a sexual gender based violence program evaluator from England...
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