Uploaded January 2020 | Updated September 2026, 2 days ago
Many Quakers feel called to action, but are unable to bring their ideas to fruition. Learn how five young adult Friends were able to make their leadings a reality.
Thanks to The Clarence and Lilly Pickett Endowment for partnering with us this week.
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Transcript:
Jade Souza: We all know that there’s, like, forces in the world that are out to get us, or at least I know that. That are not for you; that are against you; and that, you know, there's gonna be trials and difficulties that you didn't anticipate. But there's also the other; there's also friends that you don't know you have, and allies that you don't know you have, and people who are for you even if they've never actually met you, and the more that we can be aware of that—those places where we touch that are so important for us to be resilient enough to try doing things like this in this world.
Supporting Young Adult Quakers in Their Leadings
Ashley Wilcox: I know that Friends look around and they want to see young people in their
meetings. They want to see young people in their events, and one of the ways to do that is to get to know the young people, support them, and support them financially. I've been to a lot of Quaker gatherings where older people are like, “Where are the young people?” and I usually
tell them, “They're at work.” Young people are often in transition, they often have to work a lot, they don't have a lot of money, or they're raising children—they have families, and so they need some incentive and some encouragement.
The Clarence and Lilly Pickett Endowment was established in 1992 to support young Quakers in following their leadings. Between 1994 and 2019, the Endowment supported over 150 young adults.
Liz Nicholson: I’m Liz Nicholson. I live in Atlanta, Georgia, and I received a Pickett grant in 2014 to do a service learning trip to Israel-Palestine.
Drew Elizalde-Miller: My name is Drew Elizalde-Miller, and I am a member of Reedwood Friends Church, and I received a Pickett grant in summer 2016 to conduct a solidarity visit to the Philippines.
Laura MacNorlin: My name is Laura MacNorlin. I live in Atlanta, Georgia, and I'm a member of the Friends Meeting of Atlanta. I got a Pickett grant in 2014, and it was a grant to do a Quaker visitor project between the Friends Meeting and the Friends School.
Anna Fritz: I'm Anna Fritz. I'm a member at Multnomah Monthly Meeting, and in 2015 I received a Pickett grant to bring a music ministry to eight monthly meetings in the West and Midwest.
Ashley Wilcox: My name is Ashley Wilcox. I live in Atlanta, Georgia, and I got a Pickett grant in 2013 to lead a workshop at the FGC Gathering called, “Convergent Friends: Worship and Conversation.”
Jade Souza: My name is Jade Souza. I live in Portland, Oregon, and I got a Pickett grant in 2016. The grant that I got from the Pickett Endowment was to visit Quakers in Cuba.
Receiving the Grant
Liz Nicholson: At this point in my life I had recently graduated from college, had just finished a service year program, had just started a new job, and was not in a place to financially support this leading that I've had for many years. And so when I heard about this opportunity it felt like such an answer to this question of how this would be financially possible. And yeah, I think I felt very much like a right time, right place moment. and I found myself to be incredibly grateful for the strangers who read my information and saw my name on a page and connected with the idea that I wanted to carry forward and had enough faith or trust in me to do that thing with their resources.
Jade Souza: When I received the news that I'd gotten the Pickett funding, it was a huge relief, because I had to go out on a limb to do something that I didn't really know would I be able to do it or not. I had to just sort of treat it like, “Yes, I'm going to do this.”
Drew Elizalde-Miller: To me, it helped clearly identify that my call and leading was not just as an individual, but really also the will of a community that was behind me and supporting me.
More: https://fdsj.nl/ya-quakers
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.
Many Quakers feel called to action, but are unable to bring their ideas to fruition. Learn how five young adult Friends were able to make their leadings a reality.
Thanks to The Clarence and Lilly Pickett Endowment for partnering with us this week.
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SUBSCRIBE for a new video every week! http://fdsj.nl/QS-Subscribe
WATCH all our videos: http://fdsj.nl/qs-all-videos
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Music and Filming by Jon Watts
Editing by Jon Watts and Rebecca Hamilton-Levi
jonwatts.com
Meet our new QuakerSpeak video producer, Rebecca: http://fdsj.nl/meet-rebecca
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Transcript:
Jade Souza: We all know that there’s, like, forces in the world that are out to get us, or at least I know that. That are not for you; that are against you; and that, you know, there's gonna be trials and difficulties that you didn't anticipate. But there's also the other; there's also friends that you don't know you have, and allies that you don't know you have, and people who are for you even if they've never actually met you, and the more that we can be aware of that—those places where we touch that are so important for us to be resilient enough to try doing things like this in this world.
Supporting Young Adult Quakers in Their Leadings
Ashley Wilcox: I know that Friends look around and they want to see young people in their
meetings. They want to see young people in their events, and one of the ways to do that is to get to know the young people, support them, and support them financially. I've been to a lot of Quaker gatherings where older people are like, “Where are the young people?” and I usually
tell them, “They're at work.” Young people are often in transition, they often have to work a lot, they don't have a lot of money, or they're raising children—they have families, and so they need some incentive and some encouragement.
The Clarence and Lilly Pickett Endowment was established in 1992 to support young Quakers in following their leadings. Between 1994 and 2019, the Endowment supported over 150 young adults.
Liz Nicholson: I’m Liz Nicholson. I live in Atlanta, Georgia, and I received a Pickett grant in 2014 to do a service learning trip to Israel-Palestine.
Drew Elizalde-Miller: My name is Drew Elizalde-Miller, and I am a member of Reedwood Friends Church, and I received a Pickett grant in summer 2016 to conduct a solidarity visit to the Philippines.
Laura MacNorlin: My name is Laura MacNorlin. I live in Atlanta, Georgia, and I'm a member of the Friends Meeting of Atlanta. I got a Pickett grant in 2014, and it was a grant to do a Quaker visitor project between the Friends Meeting and the Friends School.
Anna Fritz: I'm Anna Fritz. I'm a member at Multnomah Monthly Meeting, and in 2015 I received a Pickett grant to bring a music ministry to eight monthly meetings in the West and Midwest.
Ashley Wilcox: My name is Ashley Wilcox. I live in Atlanta, Georgia, and I got a Pickett grant in 2013 to lead a workshop at the FGC Gathering called, “Convergent Friends: Worship and Conversation.”
Jade Souza: My name is Jade Souza. I live in Portland, Oregon, and I got a Pickett grant in 2016. The grant that I got from the Pickett Endowment was to visit Quakers in Cuba.
Receiving the Grant
Liz Nicholson: At this point in my life I had recently graduated from college, had just finished a service year program, had just started a new job, and was not in a place to financially support this leading that I've had for many years. And so when I heard about this opportunity it felt like such an answer to this question of how this would be financially possible. And yeah, I think I felt very much like a right time, right place moment. and I found myself to be incredibly grateful for the strangers who read my information and saw my name on a page and connected with the idea that I wanted to carry forward and had enough faith or trust in me to do that thing with their resources.
Jade Souza: When I received the news that I'd gotten the Pickett funding, it was a huge relief, because I had to go out on a limb to do something that I didn't really know would I be able to do it or not. I had to just sort of treat it like, “Yes, I'm going to do this.”
Drew Elizalde-Miller: To me, it helped clearly identify that my call and leading was not just as an individual, but really also the will of a community that was behind me and supporting me.
More: https://fdsj.nl/ya-quakers
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.




![The Key to Spirit-Led Pastoral Care
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I worked as a pastor cause I was ordained in 1987. Several times I experienced nice dreams that were conducting me to the leadership of a chior. So I could hear the good song, I could hear the voice and the words and write them and the next day I would have to teach the song to the choir. It was marvelous. One song which I used, and which was spread in the whole Friends church in Burundi at that time, it talks about the love of God. God is love, we should love one another. I will sing just one chorus for you.
My name is pastor Abel Siibonio. I grew up in Evangelical Friends Chursh, in Burundi. It’s now seventeen years I’m living in Australia, and I’m attending Queensland Regional Meeting of Friends. I was able to recognize some of my gifts through the holy spirit showing me the way. Sometimes when I was on the mountain looking after sheeps, I could hear some good and kind voice often requesting me to consecrate my life to Christ. I spent like four years in the bible school from 1974, and I returned to my village and was able to go through and work for Evangelical Friends Church. So it was not easy for me at that time to enter that field, but it was the holy spirit who guided me. Strength comes from the peace, love, simplicity testimonies. Love one another; that really helped me a lot to make sure we are bringing everybody on board.
Pastoral skills needed in this field are so many. Be able to listen. Be able to listen to other people. be able to discern what is good [from] what is bad. If you dont have the spirit of discernment, someone may come and bring a bad teacher and the whole church will fall! You need to be able to listen to the friends around you, elders around you, and be able to listen to the holy spirit because the spirit will go beyond you as a human being.
Another skill, of course you ned to be able to talk. In Africa, we dont have always have the microphone. You need your voice to be able to reach 500 people who are there. I was not able to have the kind of voice when I was young. So often, when I was just outside in the mountains, I would try to practice the voice e. I would just shout, I could say, “Now, if I can hear the echo, that means the voice reached that mountain and came back”. Not only talking, but you need to discern what to talk [about] at the right time.
Sometimes we need, also, to have some skills on medical issues. Be able to recognize ‘this is that spiritual issues, this is malaria’. In my village, we had this bloody diarrhea, and people didn’t think it was a curable disease. Because I was able to know, I did support all of the people in the village. None of them died! So you need the skill to recognize what is the spiritual and what is physical.
Yes, another skill you need as a pastor, you need a social skill. You can interact with other neighbors, people from different angles because you will need them. You need to visit prisoners, and if you dont have the skill to approach the leadership of our social places, you wont reach to anything. For newcomers, it’s good to have elders to help you to identify. You empower them to go beyond just understanding the newcomer and be able to identify some of their needs. Sometimes they may come to church because of the domestic violence issues they are facing in the families, or any kind of abuse. So we have trained an elder woman to talk to them. I did that even in the [Tanzania] refugee camp, where I became the first woman group leader in the the whole camp, so that I could serve them.
You have to be brave because of the authorities, sometimes they are not Christians. Sometimes with the police, who were taking advantage of, you know, young girls who were just working for them, and cooking for them, or washing their clothes they started sexually abusing them. I said, “No. You have been brought here to protect my people, you cannot take advantage of them”. So one night, they surrounded my house, like fifteen police, at night to kill me. If it was not [for] the community who had protected me that night I could have died! Six refugees were killed the same night. So the next morning the camp commander came to office and said, “I want to view! I want to see what you are writing! What do you report?” So my immediate supervisor came to visit me with a sexual gender based violence program evaluator from England...
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