Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
One of the hardest parts of parenting adult kids?
Watching them make decisions you know might hurt.
And realizing that loving them doesn’t mean controlling them.
In this episode, Heidi shares a piece of parenting advice she got from Mel Robbins that completely changed the way she thinks about showing up for her kids:
✨ Listen more than you lecture.
✨ Don’t react with shock.
✨ Save the advice for when they ask for it.
Because no matter how badly we want to protect the people we love...
They still have to walk their own path.
They have to make mistakes.
Learn lessons.
Figure out who they are.
And maybe one of the greatest gifts we can give them isn’t having all the right answers...
It’s being the safe place they come back to when they need us most. 🫶🏻
🎧 Ep. 90 | Life Update: My Kids, My Late Nights & the Balance I’m Still Figuring Out
👉🏻 Comment “LINK” if you want the episode sent straight to your inbox. 🩷
One of the hardest parts of parenting adult kids?
Watching them make decisions you know might hurt.
And realizing that loving them doesn’t mean controlling them.
In this episode, Heidi shares a piece of parenting advice she got from Mel Robbins that completely changed the way she thinks about showing up for her kids:
✨ Listen more than you lecture.
✨ Don’t react with shock.
✨ Save the advice for when they ask for it.
Because no matter how badly we want to protect the people we love...
They still have to walk their own path.
They have to make mistakes.
Learn lessons.
Figure out who they are.
And maybe one of the greatest gifts we can give them isn’t having all the right answers...
It’s being the safe place they come back to when they need us most. 🫶🏻
🎧 Ep. 90 | Life Update: My Kids, My Late Nights & the Balance I’m Still Figuring Out
👉🏻 Comment “LINK” if you want the episode sent straight to your inbox. 🩷
