Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
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Chapters
00:00 Can Dating Multiple Men Produce an Authentic Connection?
00:35 “I Had a Roster, but I Wasn’t Sleeping With Them”
01:29 Did the Men Know They Were Part of a Roster?
02:27 Sarah Says Classy Women Easily Stand Out
03:21 Successful Women Can Have Rosters Too
05:16 Men Need Standards and Nonnegotiables
06:51 Women With Rosters Do Not Have a Certain Look
08:13 Must a Man Tolerate Other Men?
08:34 Sarah Explains the Dating Double Standard
09:06 Marriage-Minded Women vs Women Available for Sex
10:26 Why I Would Not Consider Her for Marriage
11:46 I Have Been the Other Man
13:05 Signs a Woman Is Cycling Through Men
13:38 Abundance Mindset Changes How Men Date
15:00 Would High-Earning Men Really Wait Their Turn?
15:48 Sarah Calls Dating an Interview Process
17:06 Her Roster Has Rosters Too
18:20 “Men Will Battle It Out”
18:53 Scarcity Mindset vs Abundance Mindset
20:51 Women Want Millionaires They Never Meet
21:26 Sarah Says Women Must Be Realistic
22:12 Every Woman Wants the Same Man
23:16 Let the Dating Market Decide
24:10 How Women Build Their Own Wall
24:39 The $100,000 Man Math
25:34 Those Men Still Have to Choose You
26:29 Standards Can Shrink the Marriage Pool
27:23 Public Standards Create Public Pressure
28:23 Rihanna, Nicki Minaj and Income Expectations
29:26 Standards Eventually Meet Reality
30:04 Dating Successfully Is Not the Same as Getting Married
Full It’s Giving Podcast video here: youtu.be/UutkRzcEJ6I?is=MihvnvRE86NCCXKk
Sarah Shorter, host of the It’s Giving Podcast, encourages women to date multiple men at the same time while describing the process as an interview for marriage. Her position is that a woman can maintain a roster, avoid sleeping with the men, openly tell them she is dating others, and allow the strongest candidate to prove himself.
But how do men actually interpret that arrangement?
In this reaction, Medium Man explains why many men will not automatically believe a woman is dating several men without being intimate with any of them—and why a successful man with real options may refuse to compete for a woman’s attention.
The discussion covers dating rosters, exclusivity, courtship, marriage-minded dating, situationships, high-value men, high-earning men, abundance versus scarcity mindsets, male discernment, vetting women, reciprocity, and the difference between what women advise each other to do and how men respond in the real dating market.
#SarahShorter #ItsGivingPodcast #DatingMultipleMen #DatingRoster #ModernDating #HighValueMen #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageMindset #MalePerspective #MediumMan
Intro Music Credit / Artist Spotlight:
“Fall In Love (Muffled Version)” by 1BabyMar
If you like the sound, go show this young artist some love by checking out his music and following his pages.
TikTok: @babymar556 | Display Name: chosenxhild
Instagram: @1babymar_
Listen to the full song here: music.apple.com/us/album/fall-in-love-muffled-version/6787002974?i=6787002977
Music Credit: Only a brief portion (approximately 20 seconds) of this song is used in this video to spotlight and promote the artist. All rights to the music remain with 1BabyMar and the respective copyright holders. If you enjoy the song, please support the artist by streaming the full track and following his social media.
Licensed background music provided by KFresh Music
Track: “Already Knowin”
Used with commercial license via BeatStars
*** Medium Man focuses on data-driven analysis using federal statistics, academic research, and measurable outcomes. The goal is to interpret the data correctly and present information without distortion or misrepresentation. ***
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Visit OXKNIT.com and use promo code: MEDIUMMAN for 15% OFF your order. Thanks for supporting the channel!
Chapters
00:00 Can Dating Multiple Men Produce an Authentic Connection?
00:35 “I Had a Roster, but I Wasn’t Sleeping With Them”
01:29 Did the Men Know They Were Part of a Roster?
02:27 Sarah Says Classy Women Easily Stand Out
03:21 Successful Women Can Have Rosters Too
05:16 Men Need Standards and Nonnegotiables
06:51 Women With Rosters Do Not Have a Certain Look
08:13 Must a Man Tolerate Other Men?
08:34 Sarah Explains the Dating Double Standard
09:06 Marriage-Minded Women vs Women Available for Sex
10:26 Why I Would Not Consider Her for Marriage
11:46 I Have Been the Other Man
13:05 Signs a Woman Is Cycling Through Men
13:38 Abundance Mindset Changes How Men Date
15:00 Would High-Earning Men Really Wait Their Turn?
15:48 Sarah Calls Dating an Interview Process
17:06 Her Roster Has Rosters Too
18:20 “Men Will Battle It Out”
18:53 Scarcity Mindset vs Abundance Mindset
20:51 Women Want Millionaires They Never Meet
21:26 Sarah Says Women Must Be Realistic
22:12 Every Woman Wants the Same Man
23:16 Let the Dating Market Decide
24:10 How Women Build Their Own Wall
24:39 The $100,000 Man Math
25:34 Those Men Still Have to Choose You
26:29 Standards Can Shrink the Marriage Pool
27:23 Public Standards Create Public Pressure
28:23 Rihanna, Nicki Minaj and Income Expectations
29:26 Standards Eventually Meet Reality
30:04 Dating Successfully Is Not the Same as Getting Married
Full It’s Giving Podcast video here: youtu.be/UutkRzcEJ6I?is=MihvnvRE86NCCXKk
Sarah Shorter, host of the It’s Giving Podcast, encourages women to date multiple men at the same time while describing the process as an interview for marriage. Her position is that a woman can maintain a roster, avoid sleeping with the men, openly tell them she is dating others, and allow the strongest candidate to prove himself.
But how do men actually interpret that arrangement?
In this reaction, Medium Man explains why many men will not automatically believe a woman is dating several men without being intimate with any of them—and why a successful man with real options may refuse to compete for a woman’s attention.
The discussion covers dating rosters, exclusivity, courtship, marriage-minded dating, situationships, high-value men, high-earning men, abundance versus scarcity mindsets, male discernment, vetting women, reciprocity, and the difference between what women advise each other to do and how men respond in the real dating market.
#SarahShorter #ItsGivingPodcast #DatingMultipleMen #DatingRoster #ModernDating #HighValueMen #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageMindset #MalePerspective #MediumMan
Intro Music Credit / Artist Spotlight:
“Fall In Love (Muffled Version)” by 1BabyMar
If you like the sound, go show this young artist some love by checking out his music and following his pages.
TikTok: @babymar556 | Display Name: chosenxhild
Instagram: @1babymar_
Listen to the full song here: music.apple.com/us/album/fall-in-love-muffled-version/6787002974?i=6787002977
Music Credit: Only a brief portion (approximately 20 seconds) of this song is used in this video to spotlight and promote the artist. All rights to the music remain with 1BabyMar and the respective copyright holders. If you enjoy the song, please support the artist by streaming the full track and following his social media.
Licensed background music provided by KFresh Music
Track: “Already Knowin”
Used with commercial license via BeatStars
*** Medium Man focuses on data-driven analysis using federal statistics, academic research, and measurable outcomes. The goal is to interpret the data correctly and present information without distortion or misrepresentation. ***
Book a 1-on-1 session with Medium Man: calendly.com/mediumman/medium-man-one-on-one-consultation
CashApp: $mediummanlive
Super Chat to support the channel.
Medium Man PayPal:
paypal.me/MediumManLLC
MEDIUM MAN LINK TREE:
https://linktr.ee/mediumman
Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is permitted by statute that might otherwise be infringing. No copyright infringement intended.
