Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
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Chapters
00:00 Christian Women Ask: Where Are the Men?
00:24 What Do Christian Men Tell Their Single Friends?
00:56 Did He Say Church Men Aren’t Attracted to the Women?
01:22 Why Some Men Look Outside the Church
01:41 Should You Ask About Someone’s Past?
02:04 Your Past, Testimony & Dating Transparency
03:32 Woman Publicly Challenges Sarki
03:39 “You Want Us to Shoot Our Shot—Then Call Us Easy?”
04:06 Was This Correction Necessary?
04:56 Dating Over 50 & Refusing to “Build”
05:40 Would She Date a Man Rebuilding After Divorce?
06:15 Was She Really Talking About Finances?
06:54 Sarki Responds to the Criticism
07:03 Femininity, Discernment & Shooting Your Shot
07:35 Men Aren’t a Monolith
08:50 Finally—A Man From the Audience Speaks
08:59 What Kind of Woman Does Sarki Actually Want?
09:23 Public Figure or Behind-the-Scenes Wife?
09:44 Men Need to Stand on Their Preferences
10:20 How Did Ashley Prepare to Become a Wife?
11:48 Making Room for Someone After Being Single
12:14 Love Isn’t Enough—you Have to LIKE Them
13:21 Marriage Means Making Room for Someone Different
14:11 Advice for an Unmarried Christian Man
14:42 Pastor’s Advice After 28 Years of Marriage
16:04 Men: Don’t Get Married Until You’re Ready
16:41 Do You Really Want a Godly Woman?
17:55 Male Audience Question: Grace vs. Abuse
18:33 When Does Trauma Become Abuse?
19:11 Abuse Isn’t Only Something Men Do
20:23 How Do You Recognize Love Bombing?
20:35 Is “Love Bombing” Becoming Overused?
21:16 Character Over Charisma
21:45 Another Man Asks About Modern Dating
22:06 How Should Christian Men Avoid Overextending?
23:14 Should Men Push Through a Woman’s Walls?
23:21 Why Men Must Be Careful With Vulnerability
24:02 Pastor Says: Ask Her What’s Wrong
24:36 “Don’t Give Up Too Soon”
25:29 Should Men Call Out the Push-Pull Game?
26:03 Reading Your Partner Doesn’t Stop After Marriage
26:19 Final Reaction to the Dear Future Wifey Panel
27:10 Closing Thoughts
Part 2 of the Dear Future Wifey crowd Q&A shifts heavily toward the MEN—and this is where the conversation gets even more interesting.
A Christian woman asks why so many single men seem to be disappearing from church dating spaces. One of the men gives an answer that deserves attention: many of his single friends simply don’t find the available women in church attractive, while the women they are attracted to often aren’t in the church.
Then a woman stands up and publicly challenges Sarki over his comments about women shooting their shot, arguing that men give women contradictory messages. Was she pointing out a legitimate contradiction—or publicly correcting a man over something that ultimately comes down to individual preference?
#DearFutureWifey #ChristianDating #BlackDating #Marriage #DatingAdvice #Relationships #ChristianMen
#mediumman
FULL DEAR FUTURE WIFEY VIDEO HERE: youtu.be/YjfO9roVRGw?is=L8r6ANysdMj_R4x3
Intro Music Credit / Artist Spotlight:
“Fall In Love (Muffled Version)” by 1BabyMar
If you like the sound, go show this young artist some love by checking out his music and following his pages.
TikTok: @babymar556 | Display Name: chosenxhild
Instagram: @1babymar_
Listen to the full song here: music.apple.com/us/album/fall-in-love-muffled-version/6787002974?i=6787002977
Music Credit: Only a brief portion (approximately 20 seconds) of this song is used in this video to spotlight and promote the artist. All rights to the music remain with 1BabyMar and the respective copyright holders. If you enjoy the song, please support the artist by streaming the full track and following his social media.
Licensed background music provided by KFresh Music
Track: “Already Knowin”
Used with commercial license via BeatStars
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Visit OXKNIT.com and use promo code: MEDIUMMAN for 15% OFF your order. Thanks for supporting the channel!
Chapters
00:00 Christian Women Ask: Where Are the Men?
00:24 What Do Christian Men Tell Their Single Friends?
00:56 Did He Say Church Men Aren’t Attracted to the Women?
01:22 Why Some Men Look Outside the Church
01:41 Should You Ask About Someone’s Past?
02:04 Your Past, Testimony & Dating Transparency
03:32 Woman Publicly Challenges Sarki
03:39 “You Want Us to Shoot Our Shot—Then Call Us Easy?”
04:06 Was This Correction Necessary?
04:56 Dating Over 50 & Refusing to “Build”
05:40 Would She Date a Man Rebuilding After Divorce?
06:15 Was She Really Talking About Finances?
06:54 Sarki Responds to the Criticism
07:03 Femininity, Discernment & Shooting Your Shot
07:35 Men Aren’t a Monolith
08:50 Finally—A Man From the Audience Speaks
08:59 What Kind of Woman Does Sarki Actually Want?
09:23 Public Figure or Behind-the-Scenes Wife?
09:44 Men Need to Stand on Their Preferences
10:20 How Did Ashley Prepare to Become a Wife?
11:48 Making Room for Someone After Being Single
12:14 Love Isn’t Enough—you Have to LIKE Them
13:21 Marriage Means Making Room for Someone Different
14:11 Advice for an Unmarried Christian Man
14:42 Pastor’s Advice After 28 Years of Marriage
16:04 Men: Don’t Get Married Until You’re Ready
16:41 Do You Really Want a Godly Woman?
17:55 Male Audience Question: Grace vs. Abuse
18:33 When Does Trauma Become Abuse?
19:11 Abuse Isn’t Only Something Men Do
20:23 How Do You Recognize Love Bombing?
20:35 Is “Love Bombing” Becoming Overused?
21:16 Character Over Charisma
21:45 Another Man Asks About Modern Dating
22:06 How Should Christian Men Avoid Overextending?
23:14 Should Men Push Through a Woman’s Walls?
23:21 Why Men Must Be Careful With Vulnerability
24:02 Pastor Says: Ask Her What’s Wrong
24:36 “Don’t Give Up Too Soon”
25:29 Should Men Call Out the Push-Pull Game?
26:03 Reading Your Partner Doesn’t Stop After Marriage
26:19 Final Reaction to the Dear Future Wifey Panel
27:10 Closing Thoughts
Part 2 of the Dear Future Wifey crowd Q&A shifts heavily toward the MEN—and this is where the conversation gets even more interesting.
A Christian woman asks why so many single men seem to be disappearing from church dating spaces. One of the men gives an answer that deserves attention: many of his single friends simply don’t find the available women in church attractive, while the women they are attracted to often aren’t in the church.
Then a woman stands up and publicly challenges Sarki over his comments about women shooting their shot, arguing that men give women contradictory messages. Was she pointing out a legitimate contradiction—or publicly correcting a man over something that ultimately comes down to individual preference?
#DearFutureWifey #ChristianDating #BlackDating #Marriage #DatingAdvice #Relationships #ChristianMen
#mediumman
FULL DEAR FUTURE WIFEY VIDEO HERE: youtu.be/YjfO9roVRGw?is=L8r6ANysdMj_R4x3
Intro Music Credit / Artist Spotlight:
“Fall In Love (Muffled Version)” by 1BabyMar
If you like the sound, go show this young artist some love by checking out his music and following his pages.
TikTok: @babymar556 | Display Name: chosenxhild
Instagram: @1babymar_
Listen to the full song here: music.apple.com/us/album/fall-in-love-muffled-version/6787002974?i=6787002977
Music Credit: Only a brief portion (approximately 20 seconds) of this song is used in this video to spotlight and promote the artist. All rights to the music remain with 1BabyMar and the respective copyright holders. If you enjoy the song, please support the artist by streaming the full track and following his social media.
Licensed background music provided by KFresh Music
Track: “Already Knowin”
Used with commercial license via BeatStars
*** Medium Man focuses on data-driven analysis using federal statistics, academic research, and measurable outcomes. The goal is to interpret the data correctly and present information without distortion or misrepresentation. ***
Book a 1-on-1 session with Medium Man: calendly.com/mediumman/medium-man-one-on-one-consultation
CashApp: $mediummanlive
Super Chat to support the channel.
Medium Man PayPal:
paypal.me/MediumManLLC
MEDIUM MAN LINK TREE:
https://linktr.ee/mediumman
Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is permitted by statute that might otherwise be infringing. No copyright infringement intended.
