Its Giving - Podcast
Is It men or women that are THE PRIZE?! with @SarahFontenot
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Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!
You guys asked, so here are her answers
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0:00 intro
3:00 blue checks are important, are they more important than a blue collar man
5:22 so you wouldn’t date a blue collar man
6:39 why are men picky but women are wronged for standards
8:08 so is leading a term men use when they don’t have submissive women?
10:05 why do men say they want piece but women bring war
11:49 why do broke men expect soft life men to go 50/50
13:28 if a man asks to move in, i don’t trust you
14:08 why do ladies with bbls expect not to pay rent
18:14 it’s a mental illness!
19:53 let’s talk about a scenario
22:08 it’s not fair!
23:10 what does Kenny think?
24:42 Kenny is being too nice! At this BIG AGE!
26:00 do hurt people bond together
26:32 we don’t owe any body your body!
28:10 being a single mom is the hardest thing on the planet
28:41 Ashanti and Nelly
30:45 feminism is a SCAM
33:10 first six weeks with baby…
34:43 how do you get Woman to respect you
37:27 scenario - kid or the husband
41:08 scenario - woman who was brain dead and pregnant
43:30 why do women say they want real women but like IG bodies
44:28 why is sex empowerment for men but shame for women
47:18 women can’t do men the way they do us
49:02 is It normal?
49:20 Kenny is weighing in
50:30 aneesa weighs in
51:33 sexual liberation rooted in trauma
I guess the team was ready to have Sarah wipe all my make up off on camera…
While she answers questions from the givers…
The lesson in this is, who cares what others have to say about you, all that matters is how you feel about yourself! If you want to see the true reveal, go on ahead and head over to YouTube 🩷✨
Let us know what it’s giving in the comments!
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Host: Sarah Fontenot
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0:00 intro
1:48 Sarah you’ve been getting eaten alive
3:18 why do you always wear makeup
7:39 can you be in a soft girl era with men that drain you
8:38 why do men provide what they can’t provide
10:50 do you feel like you’re more fly with makeup?
12:50 insecurity is not necessary
14:00 what’s the difference between have insecurity and being insecure
15:30 if you have hormonal acne
16:18 SKIN SO BARE WITH STEPHANIE
18:30 did your treatment as a child make you this way?
20:14 beauty monetizes on our insecurity
20:25 do high value men wear makeup
24:38 why do women have to prove their value but men get invited!
28:45 i will always give my number to someone
30:05 how do women get around It
31:03 how do you feel about the tea app
31:45 azar from the truth after dark
36:00 bare naked episode
37:00 why is being called toxic to men bad but emotionally unavailable isn’t
37:48 what do you do if he won’t commit
40:50 so if you don’t want marriage should you date?
42:15 if it’s been a long time, let her go!
42:50 what about the man that’s just not ready
44:12 what do you think of prenup?
45:25 speak to the woman who won’t sign a prenup
46:40 why do men want traditionally gender roles but modern sexual liberation
47:12 why do men say they want class but date based on body type
49:22 if submission is so valuable, why do men demand It?
50:25 speak to the man that’s lacks leadership
51:19 I’m sleepy but…
Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!
You guys asked, so here are her answers
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide
Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
Reddit: reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast
Host: Sarah Fontenot
IG: @MsSarahFontenot
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0:00 intro
2:15 if he wants submission why can’t he provide protection and leadership
3:13 what’s your perspective on leadership
4:44 should women in their 30’s settle for a relationship as long as she has one?
6:07 are people choosing quantity or quality in relationships?
7:02 aneesa response
7:40 more women are having children later
8:29 would you make your man have a vasectomy
9:18 can a high value woman be sexually liberated
10:52 why do men say they want a feminine woman but can’t afford her soft lifestyle
12:50 if you go 50/50…
13:25 when does he become less masculine?
14:15 i disagree, money is not enough
15:56 is he a generous man, there’s a difference
16:20 if a man makes 6 figures but doesn’t spoil you
10:08 a lot of women think sex is enough
18:40 should a man making 50k a year be dating?
19:50 here’s a test men
21:18 is marriage still valuable or outdated
22:30 could you stay with someone you don’t like
23:20 speak to the women who just want to get married to get rich
24:30 why isn’t there a prenup
25:40 what about a woman that doesn’t want a prenup
27:00 Jeff besos prenup
28:35 what should the man do?
30:20 how do you consummate when you’re ran through?
30:55 are black women too independent?
32:00 i think it’s harder to be a man
33:15 should a man raised by single mom be required to be a better partner
34:49 do men actually want wives or free sex and maids
35:49 we shouldn’t get married if we don’t know God
36:50 partnership and love are different
38:05 i don’t think love is enough for marriage
39:00 not every relationship that’s 50/50 are bad
39:34 is being a single mom worse than being with the wrong person
41;00 limit your consequences
41:55 statistically speaking
42:50 are men intimidated by strong women
46:10 should a woman leave if a man looses his job
46:25 are women truly gold diggers?
47:25 me personally… why can’t he?
48:35 men have a problem with saying teach me
50:40 do women have to choose between being respected, desired and provided for
52:09 if a man makes over 500k a year but pays you NO attention
53:15 why are you with the man
55:15 are men more afraid of women’s standards or her attitude
This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw is we have three people that are not afraid to be who they are and stand on It!
Get ready to be uncomfortable... or maybe even inspired!!
Let us know in the comments, do you agree with this?
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👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 intro
1:10 paul: it’s giving hope
2:10 dis someone spark the live in your heart
2:25 azar: plot twist
3:10 - 15:44 do you think that men and women can be friends
4:25 it’s not a clear answer
6:08 i think NO
7:50 once a guy crosses the line is the friendship over
9:09 men so t realize how women are
9:55 there’s circumstances - ex wife
11:00 if a guy you used to talk and hits you, do you hit him back?
13:05 women are very persistent
13:38 do you feel like men aren’t as good at setting boundaries
14:28 is there ever a point you’re done in the streets
15:44 - 27:45 do you believe most men cheat
18:15 we’ve normalized cheating
19:45 i would NEVER do a woman like that
20:55 do you think all men cheat paul
23:30 what’s the difference between the strip club and flirting out
25:18 is It cheating or is It an arrangement
27:45 - 44:40 but that’s the scary part
30:20 a big part is connectedness
31:38 so why do men cheat?
34:00 there’s nothing cute about saying you’re going to take a man
34:30 out cultures influence has an impact
36:30 is It the music? It’s black culture
37:20 we are living in a world where people have a false sense of option
39:25 there’s a difference!!
40:44 if you flewed out there’s expectation
41:48 is It wrong that i think certain pages those women should go
44:30 scenario - on the boat do you keep your wrap on?
49:17 do you think single moms are more masculine
50:45 what creates ultimate safety for a woman as a man?
52:00 - 1:17;20 why do we need men when an excellent man is an average woman?
55:09 paul why do women need men
57:50 opposites attract
58:50 women can’t be WOMEN without men
1:02:00 these things wont save a marriage - am I cooked?
1:04:30 what is the difference between me at 25 vs 35
1:09:10 paul weighs in
1:10:15 i would only choose someone young if i wanted to manipulate
1:12:15 we are an exception
1:12:35 you’re a red flag - you single!
1:17:20 y’all are naturally loving, men want peace!
Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!
You guys asked, so here are her answers
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide
Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
Reddit: reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast
Host: Sarah Fontenot
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0:00 Intro
2:40 you wouldn’t date a man that makes 70%
4:15 how do you get qualified
6:35 why would a man with all the options choose you?
8:50 speak to the women that make 6 figures and he makes less than
9:50 so women that build men up are in their masculine?
11:30 why do men claim they don’t want women with baggage but they have uhauls
14:26 do men only praise femininity when It serves them?
16:09 what if i don’t have a space to be feminine?
17:35 women complain about being masculine but stay that way
18:28 so the women are lazy when they’re soft
20;30 feminine is contravance
21:15 is It really confidence or is It cloaked insecurity
22:56 why do men think paying for dinner is an excuse to get sex?
24:50 this is what women have created with no standards
25:40 scenario…
28:02 but he should know…
30:20 that’s a red flag!
32:02 why can’t It just be that he loves you and wants to show you
32:53 speak to the men that try to sweep you off your feet
35:40 STOP doing THIS!
36:40 within 60s a man knows where he puts you
38:07 why are boundaries considered bitter
40:10 - scenario on a yacht
43:38 so men want a woman who listens or obeys?
46:11 could you be with a man you’re spiritually not yoked with?
49:20 why do men like younger women?
51:00 so successful men don’t want successful women
52:00 why do men want virgins
56:00 this is what I’m learning from women
Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!
You guys asked, so here are her answers
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide
Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
Reddit: reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast
Host: Sarah Fontenot
IG: @MsSarahFontenot
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0:00 Intro
2:13 - 10:45 do you want to address the elephant in the room
4:00 i don’t understand why snoop getting so much flack
7:15 if he’s alpha why does he move like he needs therapy
8:48 so men that call themselves alpha, they aren’t that?
9:50 do true masculine men bow down to more masculine men?
10:45 do healed women intimidate emotionally broken men
13:15 what’s the difference between responding and reacting
16:05 if a woman bucks back she doesn’t respect you
16:37 - 24:56 why do average men believe they deserve extraordinary man
18:55 women who marry for money are selling their souls?
20:28 i am a gold digger
24:56 are men actually protectors or are they unemotional providers
28:05 LADIES, if a man opens up to you…
29:30 most women are not built to be a partner!
32:09 why are women called bitter when they have boundaries?
33:30 why do black women want loyalty from women they’ll never commit to?
36:15 is choosing peace over potential masculine?
37:45 speak to people who need a person to be healed
38:45 why do some men try to shut women down when they try to say anything?
40:15 emotionally unavailable people shouldn’t be in a relationship?
42:02 why are soft life women called women while struggle love is called strong?
44:28 I have a sister wound - women are the devil?!
46:20 but aren’t okay taking another woman’s power?
48:40 wow!
This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw is we have two people that are not afraid to be who they are and stand on It!
Let us know in the comments!!!
It's Giving, UNAPOLOGETIC!
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👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide
Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
Reddit: reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast
Host: Sarah Fontenot
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0:00 intro
2:00-8:39 how is It working with snoop
2:51 Snoop Dogg why do they want to get tuned in with Jane
4:58 who do people say you look like?
6:28 can we get get 8 bars
8:39 girl talk - how did this start?
10:31 - i always wanted to sing but I’m a belter
11:29-21:10 the mantra of our school is the city of… boss babe
12:45 do people weaponize singleness?
15:03 partnership in marriage!
15:48 people are weak
16:23 there’s too many lessons on how to take
17:35 your partner can trigger you! Accountability!
20:22 my great aunt Marge
21:10 - 27:55 are women desperate for a relationship?
23:22 men that do this… TRASH!
25:05 ladies, be choosey!
26:25 there’s so many women like us!
27:55 35:19 what if you had a man that had this but not that?
29:00 we want a man that’s getting up and doing the work
29:50 do you like FINEEE men?
31:45 would you date the essential man?
33:30 what message would you give to the little girls out there that want to be a singer
We saw, snoop, snoop dogg, snoopy, grandpa snoop, the whole gambit and we are HERE for It!!
Get ready to be inspired!!
Let us know in the comments, do you agree with this?
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👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook
👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide
Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
Reddit: reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast
Host: Sarah Fontenot
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0:00 intro
2:45 this season
3:21 you’re at the PEAK!
4:40 - 15:16 is there a benifit to marriage?
6:10 there’s a lot of seasons in marriage
7:15 my wife is the only gf I’ve ever had
8:00 she from the hood by she’s not a hood rat
9:30 men that do that are simps
11:30 i became a superstar and Tupac told me!
13:10 men are taught to be savage?
13:55 they are really taking masculinity out of men
15:16 will promiscuity lower a woman’s value?
17:11 have you ever felt misunderstood?
17:32 what does a wife look like / married or unmarried
19:15 - 27:55 my wife bought a strip club
20:05 do you think unconditional love exists
21:17 my parents are different now as grandparents
23:50 a single mother raising men…
24:05 do you think there’s a difference between single parents and two parent households
25:25 do you believe in gentle parenting?
25:55 you really only have to whoop a child one time
27:05 being the favorite auntie they’ll tell you more!
27:55 - 37:20 i used to lie / what do you say to men
28:00 how do you get masculinity back
30:30 single mother epidemic are causing…
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33:10they teach in school
34:56 kids have incriminating evidence
37:20 - 55:50 do men not really shoot their shot anymore!
40:10 Tupac and biggie
43:45 would rap be different if they were still here?
44:25 do you think hip hop is destroying black women
46:00 we have boss ladies now
46:50 my mom did the pod and my dad said - story time
52:43 do women cheat better than men?
53:50 if a man don’t respect your wife he don’t care about you
54:20 why are men so good at cheating?
55:50 bring in Jane!!
57:50 hey Jane! These nails!
59:00 snoop what’s your favorite things about Jane
1:00:20 what is special about her?
1:01:33 have you always known you were going to be a singer?
1:02:50 have you experienced the scary side of entertainment
1:05:30 it’s giving gospel
1:06:44 y’all need some girl talk
1:07 why do people need to know Jane
1:09:25 her music on TV


