Shared Being In Intimate Relationships @rupertspira

Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

What does it mean to approach intimate relationship not as a dance of avoiding each other’s triggers, but as a celebration of shared being?

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$Questioning Your Personal Identity How can enquiring into your sense of {identity} undermine the [conditioning] that gives rise to feelings of inferiority or superiority towards others? Rupert says: ‘If you enquire deeply into yourself and someone else, you see there’s no hierarchy. That’s your experience. But don’t just understand it intellectually – feel it. If you stay with this experiential answer to your question, it will undermine the relatively superficial conditioning you have.’ ‘All our ideas about being better or worse than others are superficial compared to the true knowledge we have of our self and of others. One is not better than the other, one is not more valuable. There is no hierarchy. This understanding should be the foundation of all our relationships. Imagine what kind of world we would live in if we all knew and felt this basic truth.’ *This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mercy Center, 9–16 March 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to: ▸ https://rupertspira.com/events Timestamps: 0:00 Questioning Your Conditioning 1:35 Identifying Conditioned Responses 2:33 Questioning Your Identity 3:23 Feeling Inferior 7:06 No Hierarchy in Relationships 8:13 A Founding Principle for Relationships –– ACCESS FULL VIDEO ARCHIVE You can watch or listen to 1000s of hours of teachings, guided meditations and answers in Ruperts full video archive here: ▸ https://rupertspira.com/subscriptions –– RETREATS (Weekend, 5-day, 7-day) Rupert holds regular retreats, roughly once per month, either in-person and online. Many in-person retreats can also be attended from the comfort of your home via livestream. ONLINE RETREAT SCHEDULE ▸ https://rupertspira.com/events/retreat-at-home IN-PERSON RETREATS SCHEDULE (UK, EU and US) (Also Available to Join Online via Live Stream) ▸ https://rupertspira.com/events –– WEEKLY WEBINARS (2 hours) Ruperts webinars take place on Wednesday evenings, from 4pm UK time. In the first twenty to thirty minutes, Rupert leads a spontaneous meditation. The remaining time is open for attendees to discuss their questions with Rupert. WEEKLY WEBINAR SCHEDULE ▸ https://rupertspira.com/events/webinar –– BROWSE RUPERT’S BOOKS ▸ https://rupertspira.com/store –– LISTEN TO RUPERT’S PODCAST ▸ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rupert-spira-podcast ▸ Libsyn: https://rupertspira.libsyn.com/ ▸ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6z1GNgC1js30g9RLSfBB4M –– JOIN RUPERT’S FACEBOOK GROUP ▸ https://www.facebook.com/groups/rupertspiracommunity –– SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS ▸ Website: https://rupertspira.com ▸ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rupertspira_/ ▸ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rupertspira ▸ Twitter: https://twitter.com/rupertspira ▸ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rupertspira_ –– FOLLOW RUPERT ON MEDIUM https://medium.com/@rupert_spira –– SUBSCRIBE TO RUPERT’S YOUTUBE FOR NEW VIDEO ALERTS ▸ https://www.youtube.com/user/rupertspira?sub_confirmation=1 –– #rupertspira #nonduality #happiness #natureofreality #consciousness #awareness #meditation #guidedmeditation RS25027d$

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