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Is the recognition of one’s true nature something that requires life experience, or can young people understand it too? A man shares that whilst he and his wife quickly grasped the teaching, their twenty-four-year-old daughter couldn’t get past the idea of being her personality.
Rupert says: ‘There are many young people here, some in their twenties, who understand exactly what we’re speaking of and who have recognised their true nature. Life experience doesn’t necessarily prepare one for this understanding, nor prevent it. For some people, trials and tribulations soften their certainties and make them open to new possibilities, but for others, life experience hardens them.
‘In the case of your daughter, it could be that at twenty-four, she’s invested her whole life in her identity, and that identity is about to launch itself into the world. This teaching might feel like a profound threat to that identity – not to leading a successful life, but to the identity itself. Whereas for you and your wife, your identities are far less invested in worldly roles, much softer and more open.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mandali, 30 August–6 September 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
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Timestamps:
0:48 Seeing past "I Am My Personality"
1:33 Recognise Their True Nature?
3:56 Identity and Spiritual Understanding
5:30 Being Open to Truth
6:25 Supporting Your Child’s Spiritual Journey
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Is the recognition of one’s true nature something that requires life experience, or can young people understand it too? A man shares that whilst he and his wife quickly grasped the teaching, their twenty-four-year-old daughter couldn’t get past the idea of being her personality.
Rupert says: ‘There are many young people here, some in their twenties, who understand exactly what we’re speaking of and who have recognised their true nature. Life experience doesn’t necessarily prepare one for this understanding, nor prevent it. For some people, trials and tribulations soften their certainties and make them open to new possibilities, but for others, life experience hardens them.
‘In the case of your daughter, it could be that at twenty-four, she’s invested her whole life in her identity, and that identity is about to launch itself into the world. This teaching might feel like a profound threat to that identity – not to leading a successful life, but to the identity itself. Whereas for you and your wife, your identities are far less invested in worldly roles, much softer and more open.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mandali, 30 August–6 September 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
▸ rupertspira.com/events
Timestamps:
0:48 Seeing past "I Am My Personality"
1:33 Recognise Their True Nature?
3:56 Identity and Spiritual Understanding
5:30 Being Open to Truth
6:25 Supporting Your Child’s Spiritual Journey
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![Questioning Your Personal Identity
How can enquiring into your sense of {identity} undermine the [conditioning] that gives rise to feelings of inferiority or superiority towards others?
Rupert says: ‘If you enquire deeply into yourself and someone else, you see there’s no hierarchy. That’s your experience. But don’t just understand it intellectually – feel it. If you stay with this experiential answer to your question, it will undermine the relatively superficial conditioning you have.’
‘All our ideas about being better or worse than others are superficial compared to the true knowledge we have of our self and of others. One is not better than the other, one is not more valuable. There is no hierarchy. This understanding should be the foundation of all our relationships. Imagine what kind of world we would live in if we all knew and felt this basic truth.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mercy Center, 9–16 March 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
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Timestamps:
0:00 Questioning Your Conditioning
1:35 Identifying Conditioned Responses
2:33 Questioning Your Identity
3:23 Feeling Inferior
7:06 No Hierarchy in Relationships
8:13 A Founding Principle for Relationships
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