Can I Feel Oneness While Relating to Others? @rupertspira
Can I Feel Oneness While Relating to Others?  @rupertspira
Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
How can we feel the oneness of shared being with another person whilst having a conversation with them? When we look at someone through perception, don’t we experience them as a separate person rather than as our own being?

Rupert says: ‘It’s because you look at reality through the lens of perception. Reality is one, and infinite, and whole, and indivisible. It is your mind that projects multiplicity and diversity onto it. The consciousness with which I know my experience, and the consciousness with which you know your experience, is the same consciousness. You are already experiencing the fact that one consciousness looks through two perceiving faculties – it’s only a small step from there to think that maybe a single consciousness looks through eight billion eyes.’

‘Love veiled is relationship and relationship dissolved is love. You can feel the love that is the foundation of your relationship. The most important thing to know about everyone without exception is that you share your being with them. Whenever you meet anyone, remind yourself that your being and their being are the same being. Don’t just understand that, feel it. You love everyone, but you don’t like everyone – our being has no preferences, but the mind is full of them.’

*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mandali, 30 August–6 September 2023. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:

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Timestamps:

00:00 Feeling Shared Being with Others
01:19 Perception Distorts Reality’s Oneness
02:36 Orange-Tinted Contact Lens Analogy
04:22 One Consciousness through Two Eyes
07:00 Love Veiled Becomes Relationship
09:09 Share Being with Everyone
11:37 Oneness Felt with Children
14:02 Love Everyone, Like Some

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