Noticing vs Judging: How to Stop Self-Criticism (Mindfulness & ACT Skills) @TimothyGordon
Noticing vs Judging: How to Stop Self-Criticism (Mindfulness & ACT Skills)  @TimothyGordon
Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 hour ago
Are you practicing mindfulness… or are you quietly judging yourself?

In this video, we break down the difference between noticing your thoughts and judging your thoughts — and why this subtle shift has a huge impact on anxiety, burnout, and self-criticism.

Most people think they’re being self-aware when they reflect on their feelings. But often, what’s really happening is a layer of harsh evaluation that activates the nervous system and keeps you stuck.

In this conversation, we explore:

• The difference between noticing and judging
• Why your brain defaults to self-criticism
• How judgment amplifies anxiety and overwhelm
• A simple 3-step mindfulness reset
• How ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) builds psychological flexibility

If you struggle with self-criticism, overthinking, anxiety, or perfectionism, this video will give you practical tools to create more space, curiosity, and compassion in your daily life.



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Disclaimer

This content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for psychotherapy or social work services. If you’re struggling, please seek support from a licensed mental health professional.

This work is inspired by clinicians and researchers affiliated with the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science.
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