Uploaded April 2024 | Updated September 2026, 10 hours ago
Have you ever experienced a conflict that you never thought could be resolved without losing a loved one or your life?
Dr. Gary Reiss, a master of process-oriented psychology, describes techniques that can help you resolve nearly any disagreement you may encounter — including threats to your life — and reveals the leading cause of most disputes in the world in this conflict-free Living 4D conversation.
Learn more about Gary and his work on his website — conflictresolutionmethod.com — and on social media via Facebook facebook.com/gary.reiss
For Living 4D listeners: Save $500 on Gary’s course, 12 Steps to Conflict Resolution — conflictresolutionmethod.com — merely by mentioning the Living 4D podcast when you sign up! (Special offers from Living 4D guests are time-sensitive and at their discretion to redeem after 30 days.)
0:00 Intro
5:52 What is process psychology?
10:52 “The whole key to process work is the idea that we have many bodies.”
23:27 Gary’s true calling.
27:06 The three steps of conflict work.
31:48 X and U work.
43:15 There are no accidents.
49:42 Gary’s Aikido training.
55:56 Rank: The number one cause of most conflicts in the world.
1:01:48 Are you the embodiment of walking trauma?
1:10:38 How do you handle people who really love to fight and have no interest in resolving conflicts?
1:16:10 Fluid neutrality.
1:28:55 Conflicts with implicit agreements in work and family situations.
1:47:18 Walking with awareness.
1:51:55 Gary stops a riot.
2:00:41 Collective issues.
2:12:56 “If you can be your whole self, you can support the whole and everyone else.”
Listen to Paul's complete conversation with Dr. Gary Reiss and find more resources for this episode on our Living 4D website at chekinstitute.com/blog/podcast-episodes/episode-287-dr-gary-reiss-conflict-resolution
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Have you ever experienced a conflict that you never thought could be resolved without losing a loved one or your life?
Dr. Gary Reiss, a master of process-oriented psychology, describes techniques that can help you resolve nearly any disagreement you may encounter — including threats to your life — and reveals the leading cause of most disputes in the world in this conflict-free Living 4D conversation.
Learn more about Gary and his work on his website — conflictresolutionmethod.com — and on social media via Facebook facebook.com/gary.reiss
For Living 4D listeners: Save $500 on Gary’s course, 12 Steps to Conflict Resolution — conflictresolutionmethod.com — merely by mentioning the Living 4D podcast when you sign up! (Special offers from Living 4D guests are time-sensitive and at their discretion to redeem after 30 days.)
0:00 Intro
5:52 What is process psychology?
10:52 “The whole key to process work is the idea that we have many bodies.”
23:27 Gary’s true calling.
27:06 The three steps of conflict work.
31:48 X and U work.
43:15 There are no accidents.
49:42 Gary’s Aikido training.
55:56 Rank: The number one cause of most conflicts in the world.
1:01:48 Are you the embodiment of walking trauma?
1:10:38 How do you handle people who really love to fight and have no interest in resolving conflicts?
1:16:10 Fluid neutrality.
1:28:55 Conflicts with implicit agreements in work and family situations.
1:47:18 Walking with awareness.
1:51:55 Gary stops a riot.
2:00:41 Collective issues.
2:12:56 “If you can be your whole self, you can support the whole and everyone else.”
Listen to Paul's complete conversation with Dr. Gary Reiss and find more resources for this episode on our Living 4D website at chekinstitute.com/blog/podcast-episodes/episode-287-dr-gary-reiss-conflict-resolution
Thanks to our awesome sponsors!
• CHEK Institute HLC 1 Live chekinstitute.com/core (sign up for the only live HLC 1 course May 31-June 2, 2024 in Fallbrook, Calif., before April 16 and save big!)
• Paleovalley paleovalley.com/chek15 (save 15% on your first purchase)
• BiOptimizers bioptimizers.com/living4d (save an extra 10% on your purchase by using the code PAUL10 at checkout)
• Organifi organifi.com/chek20 (save 20% on your purchase by using the code CHEK20 at checkout)
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