Uploaded September 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Your body, your soul, your heart—this temple is yours to guard. You wouldn’t let someone storm into your house and ransack it. So why let toxic people bulldoze your most intimate spaces?
Kris calls out one of the most infuriating tools of manipulation: Scripture twisting. When someone says, “You’re not being a good wife” or “You’re a bad daughter,” pause and ask:
Who is this advice coming from?
Does it only ever serve them?
That’s not wisdom. That’s control.
Want to watch the rest of this episode of the Flying Free Podcast? Head over to youtu.be/6XsFEKrCHXk
#FlyingFree #ChristianWomen #SpiritualAbuse #FaithAndFreedom #EmotionalAbuseRecovery #Boundaries #ScriptureTwisting #HealingJourney
Your body, your soul, your heart—this temple is yours to guard. You wouldn’t let someone storm into your house and ransack it. So why let toxic people bulldoze your most intimate spaces?
Kris calls out one of the most infuriating tools of manipulation: Scripture twisting. When someone says, “You’re not being a good wife” or “You’re a bad daughter,” pause and ask:
Who is this advice coming from?
Does it only ever serve them?
That’s not wisdom. That’s control.
Want to watch the rest of this episode of the Flying Free Podcast? Head over to youtu.be/6XsFEKrCHXk
#FlyingFree #ChristianWomen #SpiritualAbuse #FaithAndFreedom #EmotionalAbuseRecovery #Boundaries #ScriptureTwisting #HealingJourney
![Nine Tricky Ways Emotional Abusers Pull Us Back Into the Cycle (and six ways to respond!) [347]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/HYL6iANSLGY/mqdefault.jpg "Nine Tricky Ways Emotional Abusers Pull Us Back Into the Cycle (and six ways to respond!) [347]
If youve ever set a boundary only to get emotionally drop-kicked right back into the dysfunction, this ones for you.
In this episode, I break down 9 manipulative tactics that emotionally abusive people use to keep you stuck in their never-ending circus... and 6 powerful strategies you can start using TODAY to get your life and sanity back.
We’re talking:
🧠 Guilt trips that make you question your worth
🙄 Passive-aggressive digs disguised as “jokes”
🔥 Emotional meltdowns that hijack your peace
💣 Love bombing that makes you second-guess yourself
💪 And boundaries that don’t feel mean—they feel healthy
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Related Resources:
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👹 My book, All the Scary Little Gods (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/all-the-scary-little-gods/), is a spiritual memoir about healing from religious trauma and toxic programming.
🦋 The Kaleidoscope (https://joinflyingfree.com) is our ridiculously affordable online community educating and supporting Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave, we can equip you for the next part of your journey through this program.
🚀 Flying Higher (https://joinflyinghigher.com) is my private mentorship program for Christian women who want to go deeper and work with me in a smaller group.
🎙️ Check out related Flying Free Podcast episodes: “Your Marriage Abuse Cycle Exercise” (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/341-2/) and “How to Respond to Emotional Abuse Tactics” (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/64-2/).
📒 Read the full show notes at https://www.flyingfreenow.com/347
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