Uploaded November 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
If you're a Christian woman living in constant fear and anxiety like I was for decades, I want to ask you something:
Do you know you’re saved? Not “Can you quote the verses?” Not “Do you say the right things?”
But deep in your being, do you know who you are in Jesus Christ?
Because if you’re still striving… Still trying to earn God’s approval… Still performing to please everyone around you…
It doesn’t mean you’re not saved. It means you haven’t been able to experience your salvation yet. And there’s a big difference.
Want to watch the rest of this episode of the Flying Free Podcast? Head over to youtu.be/wtJ3J0qaTWU
#flyingfreepodcast #spiritualabuse #christianwomen #identityinchrist #healingjourney #religiousconditioning #performancechristianity #faithandfreedom #gospeltruth
If you're a Christian woman living in constant fear and anxiety like I was for decades, I want to ask you something:
Do you know you’re saved? Not “Can you quote the verses?” Not “Do you say the right things?”
But deep in your being, do you know who you are in Jesus Christ?
Because if you’re still striving… Still trying to earn God’s approval… Still performing to please everyone around you…
It doesn’t mean you’re not saved. It means you haven’t been able to experience your salvation yet. And there’s a big difference.
Want to watch the rest of this episode of the Flying Free Podcast? Head over to youtu.be/wtJ3J0qaTWU
#flyingfreepodcast #spiritualabuse #christianwomen #identityinchrist #healingjourney #religiousconditioning #performancechristianity #faithandfreedom #gospeltruth
![Nine Tricky Ways Emotional Abusers Pull Us Back Into the Cycle (and six ways to respond!) [347]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/HYL6iANSLGY/mqdefault.jpg "Nine Tricky Ways Emotional Abusers Pull Us Back Into the Cycle (and six ways to respond!) [347]
If youve ever set a boundary only to get emotionally drop-kicked right back into the dysfunction, this ones for you.
In this episode, I break down 9 manipulative tactics that emotionally abusive people use to keep you stuck in their never-ending circus... and 6 powerful strategies you can start using TODAY to get your life and sanity back.
We’re talking:
🧠 Guilt trips that make you question your worth
🙄 Passive-aggressive digs disguised as “jokes”
🔥 Emotional meltdowns that hijack your peace
💣 Love bombing that makes you second-guess yourself
💪 And boundaries that don’t feel mean—they feel healthy
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Related Resources:
🧐 Are you wondering what is happening inside your own painful and confusing marriage? I wrote a book just for you called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse. Get a free chapter when you sign up for my mailing list at the top of my website: https://flyingfreenow.com
👹 My book, All the Scary Little Gods (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/all-the-scary-little-gods/), is a spiritual memoir about healing from religious trauma and toxic programming.
🦋 The Kaleidoscope (https://joinflyingfree.com) is our ridiculously affordable online community educating and supporting Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave, we can equip you for the next part of your journey through this program.
🚀 Flying Higher (https://joinflyinghigher.com) is my private mentorship program for Christian women who want to go deeper and work with me in a smaller group.
🎙️ Check out related Flying Free Podcast episodes: “Your Marriage Abuse Cycle Exercise” (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/341-2/) and “How to Respond to Emotional Abuse Tactics” (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/64-2/).
📒 Read the full show notes at https://www.flyingfreenow.com/347
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