Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Women think peeling an orange, responding to a bird, or passing the latest TikTok relationship test will make a man more attracted to them and yet it's doing the exact opposite.
A lot of modern dating advice tells women to create mystery, play hard to get, test men, and keep them guessing. The problem is that much of the relationship advice women give each other is based on what women find attractive, not what men actually want in a long-term relationship.
In this video, we break down some of the most popular dating trends and relationship tests making the rounds on TikTok, Instagram, and social media, including the Orange Peel Test, Bird Test, Roman Empire Test, and the endless advice telling women to constantly "challenge" men.
We'll discuss why so many men view these behaviors differently than women do, why testing men often creates frustration instead of attraction, and why some of the most common dating advice women receive may be pushing good men away rather than bringing them closer.
Whether you're dating, married, in a relationship, or simply trying to understand the opposite sex a little better, this conversation may challenge a few assumptions about modern dating and attraction.
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Women think peeling an orange, responding to a bird, or passing the latest TikTok relationship test will make a man more attracted to them and yet it's doing the exact opposite.
A lot of modern dating advice tells women to create mystery, play hard to get, test men, and keep them guessing. The problem is that much of the relationship advice women give each other is based on what women find attractive, not what men actually want in a long-term relationship.
In this video, we break down some of the most popular dating trends and relationship tests making the rounds on TikTok, Instagram, and social media, including the Orange Peel Test, Bird Test, Roman Empire Test, and the endless advice telling women to constantly "challenge" men.
We'll discuss why so many men view these behaviors differently than women do, why testing men often creates frustration instead of attraction, and why some of the most common dating advice women receive may be pushing good men away rather than bringing them closer.
Whether you're dating, married, in a relationship, or simply trying to understand the opposite sex a little better, this conversation may challenge a few assumptions about modern dating and attraction.
👀 Watch This Next: youtu.be/B3BFDctgX-c
🔴 Join me LIVE every Wednesday from 4:00-5:30pm ET over on @TheBoyMeetsSquirrelShow where my partner Lindsay aka @squirrelygirl1988 talk about the issues men and boys face in today's modern society. Come be part of the conversation, have a few laughs and learn more about how you can help bring change to the world
Here are links to even more great stuff!
📘 Check Out My Best Selling Book: Unveiling The Forgotten: The Plight of Male Victims of Domestic Violence & How We Can Help Them
Here: unveilingtheforgotten.com
👬 Join the Brotherhood of Men: Our Private Members Only Community Where You'll Get Access to Exclusive Videos & More Here: patreon.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
⚡ Support The Channel & Get Cool Merch: men-need-to-be-heard.creator-spring.com
🕸️ Visit Our Website: menneedtobeheard.com
Connect with Me On Social Media:
📱 Tik Tok: tiktok.com/@menneedtobeheard3
📱 Instagram: instagram.com/menneedtobeheard
📱 Twitter: twitter.com/MenNeed2BeHeard
📱 Facebook: facebook.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
📱 Rumble: rumble.com/user/MenNeedToBeHeard
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Men Need To Be Heard, is dedicated to bringing awareness to the issues men and boys face in today's society. Our goal is to help break the double standards and myths that surround boys and end the bias against them.
Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
Please Note: Some of these links go to one of my websites and some are affiliate links where I'll earn a small commission if you make a purchase at no additional cost to you.
