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What Does the Bible Say About Divorce? Chapter 6 Replay of the LIVE Zoom conference of The LIfe-Saving Divorce Book Study from November 18, 2020.
In Chapter 6, We Cover: God's Care and Protection of Wives (and Husbands)
In this chapter, we ask ourselves "Who is God?" Is God the protector of the innocent, or is God the protector of your marital status. I believe that the Bible shows -- from the earliest law of Moses to the New Testament -- God's care for the innocent spouse and his fury at the abusive, neglectful, or sexually unfaithful spouse.
Starting in the first 5 books of the Bible. God didn't allow slave wives to be treated badly. He didn't allow POW wives to be treated badly. Those husbands had to let them go. Treating them like slaves wasn't an option.
8 Biblical Reasons to Get Away From and Divorce Abusers
Exodus 21: 10-11 - The cornerstone of Jewish marriage and divorce. Specifically: The minimum level treatment of slave wives.
Deuteronomy 21 - The treatment of POW wives.
Deuteronomy 24 - A matter of indecency
Jeremiah 3:8 - Divorce is the natural consequence of serious betrayal.
Abusive Christians. Bible verses commanding that believers remove abusers from our churches and lives.
• 1 Corinthians 5:11
• Ephesians 5:3-7
• 2 Timothy 3:1-5
• 1 Timothy 5:8
Is Marriage an Unconditional Covenant?
The bride's marital rights: bride price, dowry = The Ketubah was her combination life insurance policy and prenuptial agreement.
How ancient courts determined emotional abuse.
For more on the Bible and Divorce, watch this: youtu.be/SJjv6eN1BDs?si=bEVUbwvG3b97lvHI
For a blog post to share, so here: lifesavingdivorce.com/abuse-in-bible
Also: Malachi 2:16 - Note: English language Bibles (prior to the KJV) were fundamentally different from later versions. Discussion of Bible translations published after the 1980s.
Malachi 2:16 - Discussion of the difficulty in translating this verse. To see both the MT Hebrew and the Dead Sea Scrolls fragment Hebrew. focusmagazine.org/he-hates-or-god-hates-the-text-of-malachi-216.php
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ABOUT
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and researcher. For more than 20 years, she has worked with Christian women and men going through difficult, life-saving divorces, listening with compassion to those who have suffered from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, and emotional abuse. She helps heartbroken people find strength and courage and healing.
Her book, "The Life-Saving Divorce" is about the one-half of U.S. divorces that are for very serious reasons. She will give you optimism about your children's future (nearly 8 in 10 children turn out fine after divorce, according to top researchers); and will help you understand emotional abuse, "gaslighting," the abuse cycle, and tips for surviving high-conflict divorces.
What's a Life-Saving Divorce? A Life-Saving Divorce is a divorce for the serious reasons: a pattern of chronic emotional abuse, infidelity, domestic violence, sexual immorality, felony behavior, neglect, substance abuse, etc.
How to Get the Book, "The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships"
Paperback Book/Kindle via Amazon: amzn.to/3CCBsnr As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.
Follow Gretchen Baskerville:
Subscribe to Gretchen's You Tube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRgt...
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gretchen.bas...
Twitter: twitter.com/GGBaskerville
Other helpful links
Website and Blog: LifeSavingDivorce.com
Top 50 Blog Posts by Topic: lifesavingdivorce.com/popular
Life-Saving Divorce Email Signup: LifeSavingDivorce.com/courage
What Does the Bible Say About Divorce? Chapter 6 Replay of the LIVE Zoom conference of The LIfe-Saving Divorce Book Study from November 18, 2020.
In Chapter 6, We Cover: God's Care and Protection of Wives (and Husbands)
In this chapter, we ask ourselves "Who is God?" Is God the protector of the innocent, or is God the protector of your marital status. I believe that the Bible shows -- from the earliest law of Moses to the New Testament -- God's care for the innocent spouse and his fury at the abusive, neglectful, or sexually unfaithful spouse.
Starting in the first 5 books of the Bible. God didn't allow slave wives to be treated badly. He didn't allow POW wives to be treated badly. Those husbands had to let them go. Treating them like slaves wasn't an option.
8 Biblical Reasons to Get Away From and Divorce Abusers
Exodus 21: 10-11 - The cornerstone of Jewish marriage and divorce. Specifically: The minimum level treatment of slave wives.
Deuteronomy 21 - The treatment of POW wives.
Deuteronomy 24 - A matter of indecency
Jeremiah 3:8 - Divorce is the natural consequence of serious betrayal.
Abusive Christians. Bible verses commanding that believers remove abusers from our churches and lives.
• 1 Corinthians 5:11
• Ephesians 5:3-7
• 2 Timothy 3:1-5
• 1 Timothy 5:8
Is Marriage an Unconditional Covenant?
The bride's marital rights: bride price, dowry = The Ketubah was her combination life insurance policy and prenuptial agreement.
How ancient courts determined emotional abuse.
For more on the Bible and Divorce, watch this: youtu.be/SJjv6eN1BDs?si=bEVUbwvG3b97lvHI
For a blog post to share, so here: lifesavingdivorce.com/abuse-in-bible
Also: Malachi 2:16 - Note: English language Bibles (prior to the KJV) were fundamentally different from later versions. Discussion of Bible translations published after the 1980s.
Malachi 2:16 - Discussion of the difficulty in translating this verse. To see both the MT Hebrew and the Dead Sea Scrolls fragment Hebrew. focusmagazine.org/he-hates-or-god-hates-the-text-of-malachi-216.php
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ABOUT
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and researcher. For more than 20 years, she has worked with Christian women and men going through difficult, life-saving divorces, listening with compassion to those who have suffered from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, and emotional abuse. She helps heartbroken people find strength and courage and healing.
Her book, "The Life-Saving Divorce" is about the one-half of U.S. divorces that are for very serious reasons. She will give you optimism about your children's future (nearly 8 in 10 children turn out fine after divorce, according to top researchers); and will help you understand emotional abuse, "gaslighting," the abuse cycle, and tips for surviving high-conflict divorces.
What's a Life-Saving Divorce? A Life-Saving Divorce is a divorce for the serious reasons: a pattern of chronic emotional abuse, infidelity, domestic violence, sexual immorality, felony behavior, neglect, substance abuse, etc.
How to Get the Book, "The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships"
Paperback Book/Kindle via Amazon: amzn.to/3CCBsnr As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.
Follow Gretchen Baskerville:
Subscribe to Gretchen's You Tube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRgt...
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gretchen.bas...
Twitter: twitter.com/GGBaskerville
Other helpful links
Website and Blog: LifeSavingDivorce.com
Top 50 Blog Posts by Topic: lifesavingdivorce.com/popular
Life-Saving Divorce Email Signup: LifeSavingDivorce.com/courage
![Arent Most Divorces Frivolous? No | The Life-Saving Divorce
NEW 2-MIN VIDEO: I was told the vast majority of divorces were frivolous Hollywood-style divorces. But are they really? No, about half of divorces in the U.S. are for very serious reasons. Heres my evidence. Four key studies done in the past 20 years show this.
Here are the four significant surveys.
Survey 1 – In this first survey, the participants had divorced over age 40. Of these, 50% of divorcees mentioned the most significant reason was one of the serious reasons: adultery, sexual immorality, domestic violence, chronic emotional abuse, or abandonment (neglect of duty). [1]
Survey 2 – In this survey of participants age 20- 55, about 42% of divorcees mentioned at least one of the reasons above as the issue that caused the divorce. [2]
Survey 3 – In this study, divorcees could select more than one major contributor to their divorce: 58% of divorcees mentioned infidelity; 30% mentioned domestic violence. (They did not offer drug/alcohol abuse as a choice.) [3]
Survey 4 – In this study, too, participants could select more than one factor in their divorce. Infidelity was a major contributor in 59.6% of divorces, substance abuse in 34.6%, and domestic violence in 23.5%. When asked for the “final straw,” nearly 6 in 10 mentioned either infidelity, domestic violence, or substance abuse. [4]
1] Xenia P. Montenegro, “The Divorce Experience: A Study of Divorce at Midlife and Beyond,” AARP the Magazine (May 2004),
[2] Paul R. Amato and Denise Previti, “People’s Reasons for Divorcing,” Journal of Family Issues 24, no. 5 (July 2003): 602-626.
[3] C. Johnson, S. Stanley, and N. Glenn, et al., “Marriage in Oklahoma: 2001 Oklahoma Baseline Statewide Survey,” (2002): 15.
[4] Shelby B. Scott, Galena K. Rhoades, and Scott M. Stanley, et al., “Reasons for Divorce and Recollections of Premarital Intervention: Implications for Improving Relationship Education,” Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice 2, no. 2. (2003): 131-145.
For sources and citations and more info, go here https://lifesavingdivorce.com/what-is-a-life-saving-divorce/
ABOUT
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and researcher. For more than 20 years, she has worked with Christian women and men going through difficult, life-saving divorces, listening with compassion to those who have suffered from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, and emotional abuse. She helps heartbroken people find strength and courage and healing.
Her book, The Life-Saving Divorce is about the one-half of U.S. divorces that are for very serious reasons. She will give you optimism about your childrens future (nearly 8 in 10 children turn out fine after divorce, according to top researchers); and will help you understand emotional abuse, gaslighting, the abuse cycle, and tips for surviving high-conflict divorces.
FOR A DISCUSSION ON THE TOPIC OF divorce for serious reasons, read Chapter 2 in The Life-Saving Divorce book.
Whats a Life-Saving Divorce? A Life-Saving Divorce is a divorce for the serious reasons: a pattern of chronic emotional abuse, infidelity, domestic violence, sexual immorality, felony behavior, neglect, substance abuse, etc.
How to Get the Book, The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships
Paperback Book/Kindle via Amazon: https://amzn.to/3CCBsnr As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.
Follow Gretchen Baskerville:
Subscribe to Gretchens You Tube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRgtUNfTlYIRDt8iOK6XPKQ
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gretchen.baskerville
Twitter: https://twitter.com/GGBaskerville
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenbaskerville/
Other helpful links
Website and Blog: http://www.LifeSavingDivorce.com
Top 50 Blog Posts by Topic: http://lifesavingdivorce.com/popular/
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