Uploaded June 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 hours ago
We look at the new May 2025 study:
This 2025 Study (working paper) "Divorce, Family Arrangements, and Children’s Adult Outcomes" by ANDREW C. JOHNSTON, MAGGIE R. JONES, AND NOLAN G. POPE (U.S. Census Bureau) has been touted by marriage-at-any-cost organizations as showing terrible damage to children of divorce, claiming that they will likely have a teen pregnancy, be incarcerated, and experience increased mortality before age 25.
But that's not what this study (working paper) shows, despite the sensationalism in the abstract.
Let's walk through the actual numbers behind the study.
1:35 - First, let's start with scare tactics and false warnings about divorce used by marriage-at-any-cost organizations, religious leader, and Christian book authors. We were always told us that divorce destroyed kids.
1:50 - We were (incorrectly) told our children would experience teen pregnancy, trouble with the law resulting in incarceration, and they would die young due to dangerous behavior.
2:31 - THE STUDY: Teen pregnancy (teen live birth) rates are not as high as we were told.
3:52 - THE STUDY: Incarceration rates are not as high as we were told.
5:20 - THE STUDY: Early mortality rates are not as high as we were told.
6:00 - Reject the stigma of divorce, because these data simply don't prove that divorce universally destroys kids.
Thirty years ago, when I told my Bible study leader, with tears in my eyes, that I was getting a divorce, she berated me and told me that I didn't care about my children and their horrible outcomes after divorce. SHE WAS WRONG.
First, I did care about my children. I had cried many nights and I had weighed the decision for years. She had no idea of what I had been through.
Second, she wasn't correct. The truth is that children of divorce are UNLIKELY to experience teen pregnancy, incarceration, or early mortality.
That's what this new 2025 Study (working paper) Divorce, Family Arrangements, and Children’s Adult Outcomes shows. It was published in
May 2025 and Written by ANDREW C. JOHNSTON, MAGGIE R. JONES, AND NOLAN G. POPE
We look at the new May 2025 study:
This 2025 Study (working paper) "Divorce, Family Arrangements, and Children’s Adult Outcomes" by ANDREW C. JOHNSTON, MAGGIE R. JONES, AND NOLAN G. POPE (U.S. Census Bureau) has been touted by marriage-at-any-cost organizations as showing terrible damage to children of divorce, claiming that they will likely have a teen pregnancy, be incarcerated, and experience increased mortality before age 25.
But that's not what this study (working paper) shows, despite the sensationalism in the abstract.
Let's walk through the actual numbers behind the study.
1:35 - First, let's start with scare tactics and false warnings about divorce used by marriage-at-any-cost organizations, religious leader, and Christian book authors. We were always told us that divorce destroyed kids.
1:50 - We were (incorrectly) told our children would experience teen pregnancy, trouble with the law resulting in incarceration, and they would die young due to dangerous behavior.
2:31 - THE STUDY: Teen pregnancy (teen live birth) rates are not as high as we were told.
3:52 - THE STUDY: Incarceration rates are not as high as we were told.
5:20 - THE STUDY: Early mortality rates are not as high as we were told.
6:00 - Reject the stigma of divorce, because these data simply don't prove that divorce universally destroys kids.
Thirty years ago, when I told my Bible study leader, with tears in my eyes, that I was getting a divorce, she berated me and told me that I didn't care about my children and their horrible outcomes after divorce. SHE WAS WRONG.
First, I did care about my children. I had cried many nights and I had weighed the decision for years. She had no idea of what I had been through.
Second, she wasn't correct. The truth is that children of divorce are UNLIKELY to experience teen pregnancy, incarceration, or early mortality.
That's what this new 2025 Study (working paper) Divorce, Family Arrangements, and Children’s Adult Outcomes shows. It was published in
May 2025 and Written by ANDREW C. JOHNSTON, MAGGIE R. JONES, AND NOLAN G. POPE






![Divorce as Gods Protection of Old Testament Wives | The Life-Saving Divorce
6-MINUTES: Did you know that God actually commanded divorce in cases where a husband refused to care for his wife at the minimum basic level? Here are two stories from the Old Testament that show how God used divorce to protect vulnerable low-status wives from coldhearted husbands.
1. God protected wives who had been enemy POWs captured in a battle. If a man chose to make a woman his wife, he had to give her the decency and respect of allowing for her to mourn for 30 days for her family before he could go to her (euphemism for sex). And if later on, he no longer wanted her as a wife (perhaps didnt want the expense of feeding and clothing her) he could not demote her to being a slave or sell her. He had to let her go wherever she wanted. She was free to remarry someone who would meet the minimum standards.
2. Lets just go straight to Scripture: Ex 21:7-11. This passage is the bedrock of Jewish marriage and divorce law in biblical times. It still is.
7 “If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do. 8 If she does not please the master who has selected her for himself,[a] he must let her be redeemed. He has no right to sell her to foreigners, because he has broken faith with her. 9 If he selects her for his son, he must grant her the rights of a daughter. 10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights. 11 If he does not provide her with these three things, she is to go free, without any payment of money. (NIV)
God protected low-ranking wives. A low-ranking wife might be one who was used as a debt repayment. For example, a man who was in serious debt and couldnt repay his lender, might give his daughter to pay off the loan. This isnt a wife the lender necessarily wanted, was attracted to, or cared about, but the Law of Moses said he still had to meet minimum standards of care for her. Even if he took another wife, presumably someone he really did care about, he couldnt be miserly, negligent, or mean to Wife #1. He couldnt turn her into a slave and sell her. He was commanded to let her go, so she could marry someone else. The loan to her father was still deemed cancelled.
The ancient rabbis deduced that if a bondwoman (indentured servant) had those three rights, then the minimal rights of a free married woman are deduced. (p. 126, Women and Jewish Law, by Rachel Biale) Meaning that if you are a free married woman then those three are rights you have.
Thats the point Im making here. That God gave this protection of a low-status woman, and THAT sets the minimum standard for all wives.
Abuse is not okay in the Bible, and a man who abuses and/or neglects is commanded to let his wife go, meaning to divorce her.
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Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and researcher. For more than 20 years, she has worked with Christian women and men going through difficult, life-saving divorces, listening with compassion to those who have suffered from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, and emotional abuse. She helps heartbroken people find strength and courage and healing.
Her book, The Life-Saving Divorce is about the one-half of U.S. divorces that are for very serious reasons. She will give you optimism about your childrens future (nearly 8 in 10 children turn out fine after divorce, according to top researchers); and will help you understand emotional abuse, gaslighting, the abuse cycle, and tips for surviving high-conflict divorces.
FOR A DISCUSSION OF Bible verses on divorce, read Chapter 6 in The Life-Saving Divorce book.
Whats a Life-Saving Divorce? A Life-Saving Divorce is a divorce for the serious reasons: a pattern of chronic emotional abuse, infidelity, domestic violence, sexual immorality, felony behavior, neglect, substance abuse, etc.
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![Does God Hate Divorce? No! Debunking Malachi 2:16 [Multi-language]
The book of Malachi was written about 2,500 years ago. Since then, Malachi 2:16 had been interpreted two ways: As an anti-treachery verse (for about 2,100 years) and as an anti-divorce verse (for 385 years). Thanks to the discovery of the Dead Sea Scrolls (the oldest and best copies of the book of Malachi) now we know it meant to be an anti-treachery verse. Heres a 11-minute video explaining why.
For starters, it was interpreted as an anti-treachery verse for 2,100 years of those 2,500. The idea that its an anti-divorce verse is only a 385-year blip in Bible interpretation history. And every new major Bible translation published in the 21st Century interprets it as an anti-abuse verse: Take a look at the NIV (2011 update), ESV, and CSB.
This is an 11-minute excerpt from a 1-hour video showing DIVORCE AS GODS PROTECTION OF WOMEN IN THE BIBLE: from Abraham and Moses to Jesus and Paul. https://youtu.be/5EIEgh04Frg?si=4u_MMoq91O1397Jd
ABOUT
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and researcher. For more than 20 years, she has worked with Christian women and men going through difficult, life-saving divorces, listening with compassion to those who have suffered from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, and emotional abuse. She helps heartbroken people find strength and courage and healing.
Her book, The Life-Saving Divorce is about the one-half of U.S. divorces that are for very serious reasons. She will give you optimism about your childrens future (nearly 8 in 10 children turn out fine after divorce, according to top researchers); and will help you understand emotional abuse, gaslighting, the abuse cycle, and tips for surviving high-conflict divorces.
FOR A DISCUSSION OF BIBLE VERSES THAT CONDONE DIVORCE and REMARRIAGE, read CHAPTER 6 in The Life-Saving Divorce book. Or for a short summary: http://www.lifesavingdivorce.com/abus...
Whats a Life-Saving Divorce? A Life-Saving Divorce is a divorce for the serious reasons: a pattern of chronic emotional abuse, infidelity, domestic violence, sexual immorality, felony behavior, neglect, substance abuse, etc.
Book, The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships
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