Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 hours ago
How do you know if your marriage is just going through a hard season — or if it's truly destructive?
Alisha Roth offers two questions to ask:
1. Is he willing to change — and does he own the harm he's caused?
Not just "I'll do better" followed by the same patterns a month later. Real ownership. Real change.
2. How deep are the wounds?
Even if he wants to change, your body remembers. If you can't feel safe again — that's not a failure of forgiveness. That's your body telling you the truth.
Because forgiveness doesn't equal trust. And you may not be able to truly forgive from inside a place where you're still being harmed.
Watch the full interview at: youtube.com/watch?v=Vyeo8Cwn-tY
feat. @littlewomenfarmhouse, author of Courageous Divorce
#domesticabuseawareness #biblicalmarriage #lifesavingdivorce
How do you know if your marriage is just going through a hard season — or if it's truly destructive?
Alisha Roth offers two questions to ask:
1. Is he willing to change — and does he own the harm he's caused?
Not just "I'll do better" followed by the same patterns a month later. Real ownership. Real change.
2. How deep are the wounds?
Even if he wants to change, your body remembers. If you can't feel safe again — that's not a failure of forgiveness. That's your body telling you the truth.
Because forgiveness doesn't equal trust. And you may not be able to truly forgive from inside a place where you're still being harmed.
Watch the full interview at: youtube.com/watch?v=Vyeo8Cwn-tY
feat. @littlewomenfarmhouse, author of Courageous Divorce
#domesticabuseawareness #biblicalmarriage #lifesavingdivorce
