Uploaded February 2025 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
When someone you love struggles with anxiety, it can be hard to know how to help, especially when their experience feels so different from your own. In this week's episode, a listener asks, “How can I support my partner when their anxiety is so far removed from my own experience?”
One of the most powerful things you can do? Start by joining. Instead of trying to fix or reassure, try asking, What’s it like to be you?
In this episode, Dr. Rick Hanson and I talk about supporting loved ones through anxiety, handling feedback without getting defensive, and building resilience in the face of rejection.
You can watch the episode here: youtube.com/watch?v=MspXM-eLkus
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Who Am I: I'm Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (apple.co/38ufGG0). I'm making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
I'm not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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When someone you love struggles with anxiety, it can be hard to know how to help, especially when their experience feels so different from your own. In this week's episode, a listener asks, “How can I support my partner when their anxiety is so far removed from my own experience?”
One of the most powerful things you can do? Start by joining. Instead of trying to fix or reassure, try asking, What’s it like to be you?
In this episode, Dr. Rick Hanson and I talk about supporting loved ones through anxiety, handling feedback without getting defensive, and building resilience in the face of rejection.
You can watch the episode here: youtube.com/watch?v=MspXM-eLkus
Subscribe to Being Well on:
Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-well-with-dr-rick-hanson/id1120885936
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/5d87ZU1XY0fpdYNSEwXLVQ
Who Am I: I'm Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (apple.co/38ufGG0). I'm making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
I'm not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
You can follow me here:
🎤 apple.co/38ufGG0
🌍 forresthanson.com
📸 instagram.com/f.hanson

![How to Feel Your Feelings: Why Self-Awareness Isnt Enough | Simone Saunders, Being Well
We’ve all been told to “feel our feelings,” but what does that actually mean, and how do you do it? I talk with trauma therapist @Simonecsaunders about how to go from knowing your patterns to being able to do something about them, particularly when things get intense.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro: overthinking, cognitive bypassing, and intellectualizing
5:08 What it means to “be in the body”
10:13 Bottom-up approaches and trauma
19:00 How to recognize disconnection and functional freeze
27:47 [Sponsor] Rocket Money
29:01 Moving out of a dictatorship and into a partnership with your body
35:15 How to actually feel your feelings
46:53 The difference between emotions and feelings
52:36 Meeting your needs
56:44 [Sponsor] MasterClass
58:02 The limits of self-understanding, frameworks, and tools
1:00:30 Moving into experiments, titration, and when you feel too much or not enough
1:17:50 Recap
Im not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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Who Am I: Im Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). Im making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
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![The Comfort Trap with Michael Easter | Being Well
I’m joined by journalist and author Michael Easter to discuss how we can make our lives better by making them (the right kind of) harder. We start with one of modern life’s paradoxes: things have gotten much easier, but this hasn’t led to much more happiness or fulfillment. Michael talks about how our biological wiring backfires in today’s world of abundance, why humans need a mission, and the vital experiences we’ve lost. Other topics include problem creep, how everything has become a slot machine, rucking, and the “super medium” body.
About our Guest: Michael Easter is a professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, journalist, and best-selling author of The Comfort Crisis, Scarcity Brain, and Walk with Weight. Michael is also the author of the #1 Substack in the Health & Wellness category, Two Percent.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro
2:10 How our world became engineered for comfort
7:39 Problem creep
10:49 Michael’s experience with sobriety
15:00 Abundance in today’s world: the industrial revolution, social media, and slot machines
21:17 Why we need a mission
25:31 Building resilience in a world of comfort and abundance
29:30 Personal agency vs systemic forces
34:52 [Sponsor] Caraway
36:24 The lost experience of boredom
48:19 Walking with weight
1:00:46 Getting back into nature
1:10:41 Recap
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Im not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
Subscribe to Being Well on:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-well-with-dr-rick-hanson/id1120885936
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5d87ZU1XY0fpdYNSEwXLVQ
Who Am I: Im Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). Im making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
Subscribe to Rick on YouTube: http://youtube.com/@RickHanson?sub_confirmation=1
Get Ricks Free Newsletters: https://rickhanson.com/writings/newsletters-from-dr-rick-hanson/
Follow Rick Here:
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You can follow me here:
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