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@RickHanson and I explore humanistic psychology, the mid-20th century movement that redefined how therapists relate to clients. It challenged the pessimism of Freud and the mechanism of behaviorism, offering a more hopeful alternative: that our nature is fundamentally good, and our job is to let it shine through. We discuss Carl Rogers’ work, including self-actualization, conditions of worth, unconditional positive regard, trusting your experience, and the central role of the therapeutic alliance. Throughout, we focus on what you can take from these ideas into your life.
Key Topics:
00:00 Intro
03:40 Humanism as a response to psychoanalysis
09:53 Humanism’s core principles: inherent goodness, wholism, self-actualization, agency, and subjective experience
21:35 What does humanistic therapy actually look like?
32:46 Congruence, conditions of worth, and authenticity
40:54 History and context: post-WWII and the civil rights movement
56:09 Critiques of humanism
1:02:40 Lessons we can all take from humanistic psychology
1:13:41 Recap
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Who Am I: I'm Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (apple.co/38ufGG0). I'm making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
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@RickHanson and I explore humanistic psychology, the mid-20th century movement that redefined how therapists relate to clients. It challenged the pessimism of Freud and the mechanism of behaviorism, offering a more hopeful alternative: that our nature is fundamentally good, and our job is to let it shine through. We discuss Carl Rogers’ work, including self-actualization, conditions of worth, unconditional positive regard, trusting your experience, and the central role of the therapeutic alliance. Throughout, we focus on what you can take from these ideas into your life.
Key Topics:
00:00 Intro
03:40 Humanism as a response to psychoanalysis
09:53 Humanism’s core principles: inherent goodness, wholism, self-actualization, agency, and subjective experience
21:35 What does humanistic therapy actually look like?
32:46 Congruence, conditions of worth, and authenticity
40:54 History and context: post-WWII and the civil rights movement
56:09 Critiques of humanism
1:02:40 Lessons we can all take from humanistic psychology
1:13:41 Recap
Subscribe to Being Well on:
Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-well-with-dr-rick-hanson/id1120885936
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/5d87ZU1XY0fpdYNSEwXLVQ
Who Am I: I'm Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (apple.co/38ufGG0). I'm making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
Subscribe to Rick on YouTube: youtube.com/@RickHanson?sub_confirmation=1
Get Rick's Free Newsletters: rickhanson.com/writings/newsletters-from-dr-rick-hanson
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I'm not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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![Right Effort: When to Push and When to Let Go with Yung Pueblo | Being Well
I’m joined by author, meditator, and friend Diego Perez, also known as Yung Pueblo, for a conversation about right effort, the balance between pushing through and letting go, and the death of nuance in the age of social media.
We start with Diego’s experience on his recent 60-day silent meditation retreat, and what that kind of practice teaches about craving, attachment, and getting unstuck from old roles. Diego frames right effort as the middle path between forcing your life and going with the flow, and that tension leads into a conversation about social media, including the appeal of reductive advice and being told what to do. Diego closes with what hed recommend for someone who wants some of the rewards of practice without committing to a long retreat.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro
2:19 Diegos 60-day silent retreat
8:27 Right Effort: balancing pursuit with letting go
16:02 Attachment, craving, and suffering
19:46 [Sponsor] Zocdoc
21:12 Diegos journey to the sensitive boy’s club
26:05 Resistance: a sign that something is wrong or that we should push harder?
33:01 How to stop outsourcing your decisions & find guidance within
40:57 [Sponsor] Rula
42:38 The limitations of labels and therapy-speak
56:12 Practices for those who arent serious meditators
59:19 Recap
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Im not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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Who Am I: Im Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). Im making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
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![Self-Regulation: How a Little Becomes a Lot | Eric Zimmer, Being Well
Why don’t we choose the things we know are good for us? It’s usually because we’re struggling with self-regulation, one of the most important (and most misunderstood) skills out there. In today’s episode, Forrest talks with Eric Zimmer about what healthy self-regulation actually looks like, the gap between insight and action, how shame can derail us, and why most change comes down to small steps taken consistently. They discuss how to figure out what actually matters to you vs. what you want right now, the tension between acceptance and change, and how to get back on track after a slip without making it worse.
About our Guest: Eric Zimmer is the creator of The One You Feed, an award-winning podcast with over 50 million downloads. He’s also the author of the new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life.
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro: Why is self-regulation so important?
4:32 Moving from insight to action
8:14 Values versus desires
14:25 Eric’s sobriety journey
20:57 Changing our relationship to shame
26:29 [Sponsor] Sleep Reset
32:05 When to accept things as they are, and when to move from acceptance to change
38:17 Choosing the more useful meaning
42:51 How to get over self-doubt
46:41 Having a backup plan for when things go sideways
53:54 Balancing striving with non-craving
1:06:16 Recap
Im not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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Who Am I: Im Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). Im making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
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![Therapy Speak: Boundaries, Triggers, and Borrowing Authority | Being Well
Terms like boundaries, gaslighting, triggers, trauma, and attachment are everywhere now. @RickHanson and I answer a listener question about the consequences - good and bad - of clinical language escaping the therapy room. We then answer three more questions: an introverted listener wonders about the pressure to be social, a couple wants to know how to loosen their strict scorekeeping around household tasks, and a 27-year-old wonders whether becoming a therapist means wasting the degree they already have.
Key Topics:
00:00 Introduction
1:39 Question 1: The rise, and problems, of therapy speak.
8:33 Boundaries as a tool for control
11:35 Epistemic injustice: who gets believed
14:18 [Sponsor] Upwork
16:33 The ups and downs of labels.
20:58 Question 2: Do I really need to expand my social circle if Im happy being mostly alone?
30:22 Question 3: How do we balance household responsibilities without scorekeeping?
43:23 Question 4: I want to become a therapist, but I’m scared to change careers. What should I do?
53:44 Recap
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Im not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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Who Am I: Im Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). Im making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
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![Breaking the Habit of Overthinking: Rumination and the Insight Trap | Being Well
Why does knowing we overthink not help us stop? @RickHanson and I discuss why rumination becomes a self-reinforcing habit, and why insight alone rarely helps. We distinguish between rumination and reflection, and talk about how balancing acceptance and agency can help us go from one to the other. I talk about the relationship between overthinking and feelings of disappointment and failure, and Rick shares practical ways to interrupt the cycle, shift into more concrete forms of problem-solving, and finally stop ruminating.
If rumination is a persistent issue for you, check out Rick’s five-week online course focused on practical tools for letting go of these negative thought loops. Learn more at https://RickHanson.com/ruminating, and use coupon code BeingWell25 to receive a 25% discount.
Previous episodes on rumination and overthinking:
Breaking the Self-Awareness Trap: How to Stop Overthinking: https://youtu.be/ksKIJu7kcYw
Rumination: How to Disrupt Obsessive Thoughts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2tnf8q7GMk
Key Topics:
0:00 Intro: what is rumination
5:35 Why we ruminate
21:06 Why rumination doesnt help us
25:24 Moving from rumination to reflection
29:56 [Sponsor] Shopify
31:35 Rumination as a habit
38:40 Interrupting the rumination habit
46:44 Radical helplessness and radical resourcefulness
53:43 More ways to move from abstract to concrete thinking
1:07:23 The role of mindfulness
1:13:32 Recap
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Im not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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Who Am I: Im Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). Im making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth.
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