Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago

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Never forget that while this page is joyfully childfree, I also love children and have a deep respect for mothers, especially single moms who try to raise kind and aware kids on their own. In this video essay full of social commentary, I remind community members about the importance of having community before getting pregnant and that a man should NEVER be a plan, only an addition.

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0:00 her storytime
1:45 i forget that I live in a bubble sometimes
2:46 only get pregnant if you can sustain yourself
5:20 build the family you want outside of a man
8:17 let's not forget family annihilators!

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