Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago

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This video essay with (personal) social commentary and three storytimes is a PSA, a reminder, a declaration for women to take men less seriously. If you are dating, in a relationship, lonely, or generally talking to men, PLEASE have fun and don't take them seriously because this is what happens when you do...

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0:00 this is a PSA, ladies
0:38 storytime 1- this man was down to cheat immediately
2:23 storytime 2 - he's leaving the country, and she has no idea
3:44 men when they are too comfortable
5:25 here's what I would do
7:40 disclaimer

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