Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 hours ago

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You've done it before. You get inspired, you start something with real promise, a routine, a business, a new version of yourself, and then life gets heavy and you walk away. You tell yourself it wasn't working. And then you start something brand new.

This isn't a character flaw. It's a pattern. And in this video I'm breaking it all the way down. I call it the Start-and-Abandon Loop, and there are four layers driving it that are important to understand so you don't keep repeating them.

Free resource mentioned:
Unruly & Rising — my free 7-day journal for women in the messy middle of a healing era: shelahmarie.com/unrulyandrising

If you're ready to dive deeper check out my audio course: shelahmarie.com/healingeras

My Book "Unruly" — amazon.com/Unruly-Guide-Reclaiming-Your-True-ebook/dp/B0D12ST77G

Instagram: @theshelahmarie

Podcast: Unruly with Shelah Marie — podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unruly-with-shelah-marie/id1771717285