Why coping isn’t healing β€” Like drinking salt water when youre thirsty. @TimFletcher
Why coping isn’t healing β€” Like drinking salt water when youre thirsty.  @TimFletcher
Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Healing often means realizing that the ways you learned to soothe your pain were like drinking salt water when you were thirsty, and that healing begins by learning to meet your 12 Basic Needs in healthy ways.

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Why coping isn’t healing β€” Like drinking salt water when you're thirsty.

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