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Filming and Editing by Rebecca Hamilton-Levi
Music: "Currents" by Marie
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Transcript:
Robin Mohr: One of the things we've learned in the last couple of years is that it is easier to visit a new Quaker meeting that's far away because of the opportunities set up through online worship, and we've seen a lot of people go back to visit a meeting they visited before or to be able to visit someplace they've always heard about but never been to, and that has been a gift to our community.
What to Expect at a Hybrid Quaker Meeting For Worship
Adrian Glamorgan: We can have three sorts of meetings in Quakerism now, thanks to the new technology and necessity. We can have the meeting for worship that we've had since the 1650s when Quakers first got together and realized that when two or three or more are gathered together we can be in the presence of the Spirit and something happens of great importance to our lives and spiritual development, or Quakers can use online means -- Zoom or Skype or some other media that people can access and we can just exclusively have a meeting for worship online. And then there's a middle one which is where you have a meeting for worship or a yearly meeting and then you have online people who are able to join the meeting for worship but they are the technological wing of what's going on.
Robin: Quaker meeting have been having an online option. Really that's very new for most unprogrammed meetings. For some programmed meetings they began sometime ago to be able to broadcast their worship and to make it available to people who were unable to come.
Jane Mutoro: In Friends Church Donholm we have a Quaker online service. It’s both at the same time; we’re doing in-person or physical — we meet— and at the same time we’re doing livestreaming on Facebook or on YouTube or on Twitter or on Instagram, it just depends. But the most common ones are on Facebook and on YouTube.
What’s the Difference Between Hybrid Models for Programmed and Unprogrammed Meetings?
Robin: In a programmed meeting, if you connect online usually once you log in you would hear the pastor say “Welcome,” or it might be someone else in the congregation but someone would stand up and say “We’re going to begin now.” Or maybe there’s music playing and when the music ends someone stands up and begins the program.
In my unprogrammed meeting we think that as soon as you enter into worship, worship begins. And that could be in your home, it could be on a beach, it could be in the meetinghouse, and it’s when you enter into that listening to God. I think God is always available to us; it’s when we tune in and like actually quiet ourselves to be able to listen to God and to the other people around us is when worship begins.
Adrian: So I believe that meeting for worship online has the potential to do a lot of things we weren’t able to do so long as we do them well. We need to make sure that people get a chance to interact and we need to give it the same spiritual space and concern that we give being in meeting, so we need to have cameras on if we can help it and we need to have sound off, but it’s a very special opportunity.
Connecting Through Technology
Robin: I do think that we can connect to God and to other people regardless of how close we are or how much technology is in-between us. When we’re ready to connect with that Holy Spirit and that divine inspiration and we are opening ourselves to worship then we can enter into worship, and knowing other people are worshiping at the same time matters. I think that the form of worship is a matter of personal taste and local culture and it varies by where you are, but the opportunity to be together and to be together with God is true for all of us and we might find that we can experience something that we like; that we might say, “Oh, I want to experience more of that!” Maybe we can find ways to visit one another in person after we’ve had that opportunity to visit with them online, and that is up to the individual. There’s no commitment, there’s no expectation that you’ll continue but there is an invitation to see what else Quakerism has to offer.
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.
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Filming and Editing by Rebecca Hamilton-Levi
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Transcript:
Robin Mohr: One of the things we've learned in the last couple of years is that it is easier to visit a new Quaker meeting that's far away because of the opportunities set up through online worship, and we've seen a lot of people go back to visit a meeting they visited before or to be able to visit someplace they've always heard about but never been to, and that has been a gift to our community.
What to Expect at a Hybrid Quaker Meeting For Worship
Adrian Glamorgan: We can have three sorts of meetings in Quakerism now, thanks to the new technology and necessity. We can have the meeting for worship that we've had since the 1650s when Quakers first got together and realized that when two or three or more are gathered together we can be in the presence of the Spirit and something happens of great importance to our lives and spiritual development, or Quakers can use online means -- Zoom or Skype or some other media that people can access and we can just exclusively have a meeting for worship online. And then there's a middle one which is where you have a meeting for worship or a yearly meeting and then you have online people who are able to join the meeting for worship but they are the technological wing of what's going on.
Robin: Quaker meeting have been having an online option. Really that's very new for most unprogrammed meetings. For some programmed meetings they began sometime ago to be able to broadcast their worship and to make it available to people who were unable to come.
Jane Mutoro: In Friends Church Donholm we have a Quaker online service. It’s both at the same time; we’re doing in-person or physical — we meet— and at the same time we’re doing livestreaming on Facebook or on YouTube or on Twitter or on Instagram, it just depends. But the most common ones are on Facebook and on YouTube.
What’s the Difference Between Hybrid Models for Programmed and Unprogrammed Meetings?
Robin: In a programmed meeting, if you connect online usually once you log in you would hear the pastor say “Welcome,” or it might be someone else in the congregation but someone would stand up and say “We’re going to begin now.” Or maybe there’s music playing and when the music ends someone stands up and begins the program.
In my unprogrammed meeting we think that as soon as you enter into worship, worship begins. And that could be in your home, it could be on a beach, it could be in the meetinghouse, and it’s when you enter into that listening to God. I think God is always available to us; it’s when we tune in and like actually quiet ourselves to be able to listen to God and to the other people around us is when worship begins.
Adrian: So I believe that meeting for worship online has the potential to do a lot of things we weren’t able to do so long as we do them well. We need to make sure that people get a chance to interact and we need to give it the same spiritual space and concern that we give being in meeting, so we need to have cameras on if we can help it and we need to have sound off, but it’s a very special opportunity.
Connecting Through Technology
Robin: I do think that we can connect to God and to other people regardless of how close we are or how much technology is in-between us. When we’re ready to connect with that Holy Spirit and that divine inspiration and we are opening ourselves to worship then we can enter into worship, and knowing other people are worshiping at the same time matters. I think that the form of worship is a matter of personal taste and local culture and it varies by where you are, but the opportunity to be together and to be together with God is true for all of us and we might find that we can experience something that we like; that we might say, “Oh, I want to experience more of that!” Maybe we can find ways to visit one another in person after we’ve had that opportunity to visit with them online, and that is up to the individual. There’s no commitment, there’s no expectation that you’ll continue but there is an invitation to see what else Quakerism has to offer.
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.










![Practicing the Spirituality of Lightheartedness
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I can remember Margret Baker and I getting the giggles at a business meeting one time when everybody was just horrified that nobody had answered the telephone for two years. Just nobody had ever been assigned the task! We have all these hundred committees and that one just never got assigned, and she and I just cracked up. Everybody else was stroking their beard over it but you know, we bumble through life as best we can and you might as well laugh.
Practicing the Spirituality of Lightheartedness
Im Mosi Harrington. I live in Hyattsville, Maryland (at the edge of DC), and I am a member of Adelphi Friends Meeting.
Theres a Pendle Hill pamphlet, which is a series of Quaker pamphlets, called The Spirituality of Lightheartedness, and in the pamphlet she [Helen Steere Horn] maintains that were called to joy, and that Jesus said that we could lay down our burdens and rest, and that the psalms say that we can find a path of joy. She feels that there was, uh that Jesus had a sense of humor; that calling Peter the rock was a nickname, a playful nickname, and that a lot of the analogies he used were casual talk. When you said, um, You cant go through the eye of a needle, or something like that it was the equivalent of us saying, you know, A snowballs chance in hell or something. It was that kind of language, and that weve lost a lot of that. Its definitely one of our Quaker faults that we take ourselves too seriously, and it gets in the way sometimes of us doing good work. And... We tend to be judgmental sometimes. You dont associate with someone who doesnt recycle? Well, that person might be doing prison visitation and youre not! So there are all kinds of ways of being more forgiving. God has put us in this gorgeous world and if we just go like little moles, looking neither to the right or left, I think that frankly, God gets pissed and thats when we are unhappy.
Lightheartedness in Dark Times
Part of the spirituality of lightheartedness is that it can get us through dark times and I have just numerous examples of times when it has done that. We had a friend in meeting who, in her will, wanted to leave her kids laughing and she left the thing that they hated the most to each child. So somebody got the old fainting couch with the stuffing coming out and somebody got the 20 year collection of National Geographics, and they roared, you know, at this somber, tearful scene of getting the will read, they laughed. Someone else was in a mens group with somebody in meeting, and the person was dying and he went to visit and he took a joke book, and his wife said, I dont think thats the right thing, but he took it anyway and they just roared with laughter. And sometimes if youre in an ongoing situation you develop a little bit of dark humor that get you through things, and I think its a gift and I think its the spirit moving in us, not to take ourselves so seriously. Youre a child of God, but there are billions of children of God, and theyre all working many of them want to leave the world a better place. Its really not all on you, and to take yourself too seriously is really an act of arrogance, and we just need to relax and enjoy.
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