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What can be done to heal the damage done to native communities by colonists, including Quakers? As Paula Palmer shares, it begins with telling the truth.
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Native people say that for healing to occur—and I think what Quakers are looking for when thinking about what the world needs is healing of many kinds… for healing to occur, the first thing that needs to happen is for us to acknowledge the harm that was done.
Seeking Right Relationship With Native Americans
My name is Paula Palmer. I live in Louisville, Colorado, which is the territory of the Arapaho people. They call themselves the Hinono'eino. My meeting is the Boulder Monthly Meeting and the Intermountain Yearly Meeting.
About 8 years ago, I experienced a leading to educate—myself first, and others—about the real history of what happened here in this country, the real history of the colonization of this country and the genocide of the indigenous peoples and the ongoing consequences for indigenous people here in this country and for all of us, really. For all of us as a nation and as communities.
Seeking the Truth
The first step toward reconciliation is truth telling. This is something that’s been important to Quakers since the beginning. We were called “seekers of the truth.” We need now to be seekers of the truth. I think one of the main problems is that we as a country are in such denial about the history of this land. We just so rarely mention genocide and colonization as foundational sins of our society, and—along with slavery—these are the foundational sins of our country and we continue to be wounded by these crimes against humanity.
Working Toward Right Relationship
I ended up creating a workshop, which we’ve now taken to almost 300 churches and colleges and universities, educating and motivating people to think about the land that we live on. Think about the peoples who lived on that land before European settlement. Think about those people and reach out to them.
We start with looking at what is the source of the injustices that have been committed and continue to be committed against indigenous peoples, and we find those roots essentially in a doctrine that’s called the doctrine of discovery, which is the justification that Europeans used to conquer and take the lands of indigenous peoples all over the world.
Facing the Quaker Legacy
For Quakers, one of the periods of this history that we have to look at ourselves is the era of the Indian Boarding Schools, because Quakers took a leadership role among the different churches in collaborating with the U.S. government in the forced assimilation of native children by means of the Indian Boarding Schools. We operated something like 30 day schools and boarding schools, most of them boarding schools for indigenous children, whose purpose was assimilation.
This is part of Quaker history that I’ve struggled to face and that I’ve tried to share, I am trying to share with Quakers around the country, and asking us to ask, “what are our responsibilities and what are our opportunities?”
An Opportunity for Healing
One thing that some Quaker meetings have started doing in Canada and in the United States is acknowledging the indigenous peoples on whose land we are living and worshiping. It’s a way to begin to ask the question, “what kind of relationship might we have with the native peoples who have lived here and who are living her now?”
A young Tohono Oʼodham man said in one of our workshops, “No one here today made these things happen, but we are the ones who are living now. And we’re all in this together.” And I think that’s what we need to hear. No one here today made all of these things happen, but we are the ones who are living now. So what are our opportunities to work with indigenous peoples, to engage them, to ask them, “What would right relationship look like?”
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.
What can be done to heal the damage done to native communities by colonists, including Quakers? As Paula Palmer shares, it begins with telling the truth.
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READ Paula's Friends Journal article on Quaker Indian Boarding Schools: friendsjournal.org/quaker-indian-boarding-schools
Filmed and edited by Jon Watts: jonwatts.com
Music from this episode: jonwattsmusic.com
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Transcript:
Native people say that for healing to occur—and I think what Quakers are looking for when thinking about what the world needs is healing of many kinds… for healing to occur, the first thing that needs to happen is for us to acknowledge the harm that was done.
Seeking Right Relationship With Native Americans
My name is Paula Palmer. I live in Louisville, Colorado, which is the territory of the Arapaho people. They call themselves the Hinono'eino. My meeting is the Boulder Monthly Meeting and the Intermountain Yearly Meeting.
About 8 years ago, I experienced a leading to educate—myself first, and others—about the real history of what happened here in this country, the real history of the colonization of this country and the genocide of the indigenous peoples and the ongoing consequences for indigenous people here in this country and for all of us, really. For all of us as a nation and as communities.
Seeking the Truth
The first step toward reconciliation is truth telling. This is something that’s been important to Quakers since the beginning. We were called “seekers of the truth.” We need now to be seekers of the truth. I think one of the main problems is that we as a country are in such denial about the history of this land. We just so rarely mention genocide and colonization as foundational sins of our society, and—along with slavery—these are the foundational sins of our country and we continue to be wounded by these crimes against humanity.
Working Toward Right Relationship
I ended up creating a workshop, which we’ve now taken to almost 300 churches and colleges and universities, educating and motivating people to think about the land that we live on. Think about the peoples who lived on that land before European settlement. Think about those people and reach out to them.
We start with looking at what is the source of the injustices that have been committed and continue to be committed against indigenous peoples, and we find those roots essentially in a doctrine that’s called the doctrine of discovery, which is the justification that Europeans used to conquer and take the lands of indigenous peoples all over the world.
Facing the Quaker Legacy
For Quakers, one of the periods of this history that we have to look at ourselves is the era of the Indian Boarding Schools, because Quakers took a leadership role among the different churches in collaborating with the U.S. government in the forced assimilation of native children by means of the Indian Boarding Schools. We operated something like 30 day schools and boarding schools, most of them boarding schools for indigenous children, whose purpose was assimilation.
This is part of Quaker history that I’ve struggled to face and that I’ve tried to share, I am trying to share with Quakers around the country, and asking us to ask, “what are our responsibilities and what are our opportunities?”
An Opportunity for Healing
One thing that some Quaker meetings have started doing in Canada and in the United States is acknowledging the indigenous peoples on whose land we are living and worshiping. It’s a way to begin to ask the question, “what kind of relationship might we have with the native peoples who have lived here and who are living her now?”
A young Tohono Oʼodham man said in one of our workshops, “No one here today made these things happen, but we are the ones who are living now. And we’re all in this together.” And I think that’s what we need to hear. No one here today made all of these things happen, but we are the ones who are living now. So what are our opportunities to work with indigenous peoples, to engage them, to ask them, “What would right relationship look like?”
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.






![Practicing the Spirituality of Lightheartedness
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I can remember Margret Baker and I getting the giggles at a business meeting one time when everybody was just horrified that nobody had answered the telephone for two years. Just nobody had ever been assigned the task! We have all these hundred committees and that one just never got assigned, and she and I just cracked up. Everybody else was stroking their beard over it but you know, we bumble through life as best we can and you might as well laugh.
Practicing the Spirituality of Lightheartedness
Im Mosi Harrington. I live in Hyattsville, Maryland (at the edge of DC), and I am a member of Adelphi Friends Meeting.
Theres a Pendle Hill pamphlet, which is a series of Quaker pamphlets, called The Spirituality of Lightheartedness, and in the pamphlet she [Helen Steere Horn] maintains that were called to joy, and that Jesus said that we could lay down our burdens and rest, and that the psalms say that we can find a path of joy. She feels that there was, uh that Jesus had a sense of humor; that calling Peter the rock was a nickname, a playful nickname, and that a lot of the analogies he used were casual talk. When you said, um, You cant go through the eye of a needle, or something like that it was the equivalent of us saying, you know, A snowballs chance in hell or something. It was that kind of language, and that weve lost a lot of that. Its definitely one of our Quaker faults that we take ourselves too seriously, and it gets in the way sometimes of us doing good work. And... We tend to be judgmental sometimes. You dont associate with someone who doesnt recycle? Well, that person might be doing prison visitation and youre not! So there are all kinds of ways of being more forgiving. God has put us in this gorgeous world and if we just go like little moles, looking neither to the right or left, I think that frankly, God gets pissed and thats when we are unhappy.
Lightheartedness in Dark Times
Part of the spirituality of lightheartedness is that it can get us through dark times and I have just numerous examples of times when it has done that. We had a friend in meeting who, in her will, wanted to leave her kids laughing and she left the thing that they hated the most to each child. So somebody got the old fainting couch with the stuffing coming out and somebody got the 20 year collection of National Geographics, and they roared, you know, at this somber, tearful scene of getting the will read, they laughed. Someone else was in a mens group with somebody in meeting, and the person was dying and he went to visit and he took a joke book, and his wife said, I dont think thats the right thing, but he took it anyway and they just roared with laughter. And sometimes if youre in an ongoing situation you develop a little bit of dark humor that get you through things, and I think its a gift and I think its the spirit moving in us, not to take ourselves so seriously. Youre a child of God, but there are billions of children of God, and theyre all working many of them want to leave the world a better place. Its really not all on you, and to take yourself too seriously is really an act of arrogance, and we just need to relax and enjoy.
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