Uploaded June 2015 | Updated September 2026, 57 minutes ago
PLEASE READ: (Lyrics & dialogue below) – update (4/2018): an apology- over the years, since I posted this, the dialogue I put in has gotten strange sounding - I guess over time it wears down. It did not sound anywhere near as bad as it does here- and you could actually hear it well...The good news is I have been learning a few tricks to make the dialogue stronger and clearer - bad news, I won't know if the tricks work until a few years from now when I go back and look at those vids. ha! Oh, well. I tried, and will keep on trying... Watch in HD for best experience. :) Story follows lyrics- mostly in Jamie’s POV, some in Claire’s. After hearing Jamie tell Claire for the first time, in the 12th eppie that he loved her since their 1st night at Leoch, I felt this song perfect for them, to show Jamie’s struggle with his love for Claire, since Day One, and later after they married, hiding his true feelings, since he believed she didn’t feel the same and only married him for protection. In the last verse, the song also becomes Claire’s, showing that all the months Jamie struggled, she also struggled not to love him (which I showed bits and pieces of earlier, though he didn't know it til she came back to him, and didn't say it, until he did ;-))…symbolism- some literal, some abstract- i.e.- “But if there’s a pill to help me forget”- I show Claire at her work, using medicines to try to forget her situation, etc. The sparks effect shows the passion/love always present between them, despite their fights and distance, and later, how their love strengthened and held them together through the harsh trials they suffered. The cloudy/colored clips are memories they are having at the time. The rest of symbolism take as you will- no more room to write. lol – sparkle clips credit- spheres of love and Screen Art.
Dialogue (within song):
Claire- I was just thinking about my husband
Jamie- Is he not alive?
C- No, actually…he’s not alive
Colum to Jamie- So that I know your mind is focused on my wishes, leave that wife of yours here
C- Dougal wants us to be married
J- I know
C- And you’re willing?
J- Well, you’ve mended my wounds more than once…I feel I owe you something for all that.
J – Promise me, Claire, swear you’ll be here when I get back
C- Fine!
J- Good! … You are my wife whether you like it or not...
C- Well, I don’t like it!
J- You’re tearing my guts out, Claire
C- I’m from the future…I was born in the year 1918, that’s two hundred years from now.
J- It’s what you wanted, what you’ve always wanted. To go home…
C- Yes...
J- Goodbye, Sassenach
C- Take me home to Lallybroch…I never counted on loving you
"Trying Not To Love You" performed by Nickelback
You call to me, and I fall at your feet
How could anyone ask for more?
And our time apart, like knives in my heart
How could anyone ask for more?
But if there's a pill to help me forget,
God knows I haven't found it yet
But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
'Cause trying not to love you, only goes so far
And trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
'Cause trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
Only makes me love you more
And this kind of pain, only time takes away
That's why it's harder to let you go (That's why it's harder to let you go)
And nothing I can do, without thinking of you
That's why it's harder to let you go (That's why it's harder to let you go)
But if there's a pill to help me forget,
God knows I haven't found it yet
But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
'Cause trying not to love you, only goes so far
Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
'Cause trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
So I sit here divided, just talking to myself
Was it something that I did?
Was there somebody else?
When a voice from behind me, that was fighting back tears
Sat right down beside me, whispered right in my ear
Said, I've been dying to tell you -
That trying not to love you, only went so far
Trying not to need you, was tearing me apart
Now I see the silver lining, from what we're fighting for
We just keep on trying, we could be much more
'Cause trying not to love you
Oh, yeah, trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
Only makes me love you more
(No copyright infringement intended. This falls under the Fair Use copyright act- Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for fair use for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.)
PLEASE READ: (Lyrics & dialogue below) – update (4/2018): an apology- over the years, since I posted this, the dialogue I put in has gotten strange sounding - I guess over time it wears down. It did not sound anywhere near as bad as it does here- and you could actually hear it well...The good news is I have been learning a few tricks to make the dialogue stronger and clearer - bad news, I won't know if the tricks work until a few years from now when I go back and look at those vids. ha! Oh, well. I tried, and will keep on trying... Watch in HD for best experience. :) Story follows lyrics- mostly in Jamie’s POV, some in Claire’s. After hearing Jamie tell Claire for the first time, in the 12th eppie that he loved her since their 1st night at Leoch, I felt this song perfect for them, to show Jamie’s struggle with his love for Claire, since Day One, and later after they married, hiding his true feelings, since he believed she didn’t feel the same and only married him for protection. In the last verse, the song also becomes Claire’s, showing that all the months Jamie struggled, she also struggled not to love him (which I showed bits and pieces of earlier, though he didn't know it til she came back to him, and didn't say it, until he did ;-))…symbolism- some literal, some abstract- i.e.- “But if there’s a pill to help me forget”- I show Claire at her work, using medicines to try to forget her situation, etc. The sparks effect shows the passion/love always present between them, despite their fights and distance, and later, how their love strengthened and held them together through the harsh trials they suffered. The cloudy/colored clips are memories they are having at the time. The rest of symbolism take as you will- no more room to write. lol – sparkle clips credit- spheres of love and Screen Art.
Dialogue (within song):
Claire- I was just thinking about my husband
Jamie- Is he not alive?
C- No, actually…he’s not alive
Colum to Jamie- So that I know your mind is focused on my wishes, leave that wife of yours here
C- Dougal wants us to be married
J- I know
C- And you’re willing?
J- Well, you’ve mended my wounds more than once…I feel I owe you something for all that.
J – Promise me, Claire, swear you’ll be here when I get back
C- Fine!
J- Good! … You are my wife whether you like it or not...
C- Well, I don’t like it!
J- You’re tearing my guts out, Claire
C- I’m from the future…I was born in the year 1918, that’s two hundred years from now.
J- It’s what you wanted, what you’ve always wanted. To go home…
C- Yes...
J- Goodbye, Sassenach
C- Take me home to Lallybroch…I never counted on loving you
"Trying Not To Love You" performed by Nickelback
You call to me, and I fall at your feet
How could anyone ask for more?
And our time apart, like knives in my heart
How could anyone ask for more?
But if there's a pill to help me forget,
God knows I haven't found it yet
But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
'Cause trying not to love you, only goes so far
And trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
'Cause trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
Only makes me love you more
And this kind of pain, only time takes away
That's why it's harder to let you go (That's why it's harder to let you go)
And nothing I can do, without thinking of you
That's why it's harder to let you go (That's why it's harder to let you go)
But if there's a pill to help me forget,
God knows I haven't found it yet
But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
'Cause trying not to love you, only goes so far
Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
'Cause trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
So I sit here divided, just talking to myself
Was it something that I did?
Was there somebody else?
When a voice from behind me, that was fighting back tears
Sat right down beside me, whispered right in my ear
Said, I've been dying to tell you -
That trying not to love you, only went so far
Trying not to need you, was tearing me apart
Now I see the silver lining, from what we're fighting for
We just keep on trying, we could be much more
'Cause trying not to love you
Oh, yeah, trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
Only makes me love you more
(No copyright infringement intended. This falls under the Fair Use copyright act- Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for fair use for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.)
