Uploaded March 2025 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago

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timestamps:
00:00-00:59 intro
00:59-02:40 a man should pay
02:40-04:07 character development
04:07-07:40 dating a rich man
07:40-14:48 obsession & delusion
14:48-18:31 the other guy
18:31-22:00 paying on a 1st date
22:00-23:50 ghosting

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