Lisa Bilyeu | This Is Why they STILL CHEAT In Relationships -IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK! | Lewis Howes @LisaBilyeu | Uploaded March 2023 | Updated October 2024, 5 hours ago.
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On Today's Episode:
The men you attract and find yourself in relationships with reveal more about you, your wounds, your insecurities and the parts of you that need healing and growth. Looking externally for safety, love, and validation is not only an unhealthy way to move through relationships, it’s also a toxic way of living that doesn’t serve your higher purpose and it will never create the peace you’re looking for.
Not every woman has experienced seeing a man completely open, vulnerable, and exposed. Honestly speaking, sadly, not many women are able to deal with the rawness of men’s emotions. Yet, there is something comforting from hearing today’s guest, Lewis Howes, share about the emotional trigger and pain that men go through.
Lewis went from the cheating ladies man, emotionally closed off, and easily triggered insecure jealous partner-type to a man looking forward to marriage in a committed loving relationship that has healed his some serious past traumas and emotional triggers.
Lewis Howes is the bestselling author of the book, The Mask of Masculinity, ultra successful entrepreneur, host of the podcast and YouTube channel, The School of Greatness.
In this conversation with Lisa, Lewis brings up some challenging questions that are worth sitting with and giving some extra time and attention as you either navigate through your current relationship or spend time alone before your next relationship.
Who do you need to be in your relationship? How do you want to show up for yourself in that relationship? How do you expect your partner to show up in the relationship?
Are you looking to your partner to meet your needs, make you happy, and make you feel safe?
Do you expect your partner to walk on eggshells to avoid triggering your insecurities and past traumas?
What vision do you have for your relationship and does it support you living in your purpose and highest self?
Are you gravitating towards relationships because you need and want love from someone to feel whole, validated and accepted?
Surprisingly Lewis Howes goes in and delivers some hard truths about relationships for women to consider that can feel super uncomfortable if you’ve been living with a perception of what relationships should be that are unhealthy.
A few worthwhile goals from this interview with Lewis Howes:
Become aligned with the right person for you
Learn how to be fulfilled and healed and at peace with yourself
Date yourself first and fall in love with you before adding another person into the picture
Check out Lewis Howes latest book, The Greatness Mindset: amazon.com/Greatness-Mindset-Unlock-Power-Today-ebook/dp/B0B6ML61NP
QUOTES:
“That drive was coming from a wound where I was not willing to accept and fully love who I was and all the things I was ashamed of from the past
“You cannot buy peace, you must be ‘peace’ in all situations and that means standing in the face of people being upset with you constantly for not giving them what they want.”
“A man without a mission is a scary man. A man who is not on his purpose has more potential to be harmful than good.”
“If you don’t accept someone you’re with, don’t be with them, and if they don’t accept you, then why are you guys together?”
“You’ve got to learn certain things without running from them in the face of adversity.”
“I will not allow myself to abandon myself ever again in this relationship or in any relationship.”
“If you’re single make sure you develop a conscious relationship with yourself and get clear on your relationship vision.”
“I don’t need a relationship, I want a conscious, healthy, loving abundant relationship, that’s what I want.”
“More closed off men cause more harm.”
Follow Lewis Howes:
Website: lewishowes.com
YouTube: youtube.com/@lewishowes
Twitter: twitter.com/LewisHowes
Instagram: instagram.com/lewishowes
Download For FREE: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here! - bit.ly/3dWyB2d
Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - bit.ly/3fZcbO5
On Today's Episode:
The men you attract and find yourself in relationships with reveal more about you, your wounds, your insecurities and the parts of you that need healing and growth. Looking externally for safety, love, and validation is not only an unhealthy way to move through relationships, it’s also a toxic way of living that doesn’t serve your higher purpose and it will never create the peace you’re looking for.
Not every woman has experienced seeing a man completely open, vulnerable, and exposed. Honestly speaking, sadly, not many women are able to deal with the rawness of men’s emotions. Yet, there is something comforting from hearing today’s guest, Lewis Howes, share about the emotional trigger and pain that men go through.
Lewis went from the cheating ladies man, emotionally closed off, and easily triggered insecure jealous partner-type to a man looking forward to marriage in a committed loving relationship that has healed his some serious past traumas and emotional triggers.
Lewis Howes is the bestselling author of the book, The Mask of Masculinity, ultra successful entrepreneur, host of the podcast and YouTube channel, The School of Greatness.
In this conversation with Lisa, Lewis brings up some challenging questions that are worth sitting with and giving some extra time and attention as you either navigate through your current relationship or spend time alone before your next relationship.
Who do you need to be in your relationship? How do you want to show up for yourself in that relationship? How do you expect your partner to show up in the relationship?
Are you looking to your partner to meet your needs, make you happy, and make you feel safe?
Do you expect your partner to walk on eggshells to avoid triggering your insecurities and past traumas?
What vision do you have for your relationship and does it support you living in your purpose and highest self?
Are you gravitating towards relationships because you need and want love from someone to feel whole, validated and accepted?
Surprisingly Lewis Howes goes in and delivers some hard truths about relationships for women to consider that can feel super uncomfortable if you’ve been living with a perception of what relationships should be that are unhealthy.
A few worthwhile goals from this interview with Lewis Howes:
Become aligned with the right person for you
Learn how to be fulfilled and healed and at peace with yourself
Date yourself first and fall in love with you before adding another person into the picture
Check out Lewis Howes latest book, The Greatness Mindset: amazon.com/Greatness-Mindset-Unlock-Power-Today-ebook/dp/B0B6ML61NP
QUOTES:
“That drive was coming from a wound where I was not willing to accept and fully love who I was and all the things I was ashamed of from the past
“You cannot buy peace, you must be ‘peace’ in all situations and that means standing in the face of people being upset with you constantly for not giving them what they want.”
“A man without a mission is a scary man. A man who is not on his purpose has more potential to be harmful than good.”
“If you don’t accept someone you’re with, don’t be with them, and if they don’t accept you, then why are you guys together?”
“You’ve got to learn certain things without running from them in the face of adversity.”
“I will not allow myself to abandon myself ever again in this relationship or in any relationship.”
“If you’re single make sure you develop a conscious relationship with yourself and get clear on your relationship vision.”
“I don’t need a relationship, I want a conscious, healthy, loving abundant relationship, that’s what I want.”
“More closed off men cause more harm.”
Follow Lewis Howes:
Website: lewishowes.com
YouTube: youtube.com/@lewishowes
Twitter: twitter.com/LewisHowes
Instagram: instagram.com/lewishowes
