Lisa Bilyeu | STAND UP! - The 6 Boundaries EVERY WOMAN Must Set To Become HIGH-VALUE | Lisa Bilyeu @LisaBilyeu | Uploaded December 2022 | Updated October 2024, 5 hours ago.
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On Today's Episode:
Looking to your partner, your friends, or your family for direction on what to think, how to react, when you should react, and if you should or shouldn’t be upset or not sounds like a personal prison no one wants to put themself in.
Your lack of ability to set boundaries is not a habit you want to continue carrying with you from one relationship to another. So, homie, that sh*t stops today!
In this episode, Lisa is giving you 5 personal boundaries she has to not keep people in line, and not to isolate people from her life, but 5 boundaries she uses to build tighter, closer, more meaningful relationships.
The only question now is, are you willing to do the hard work, be committed, become the hero of your own frikin life?
QUOTES:
“Be honest with your partner about your non frikin negotiables.” [1:31]
“Have those discussions if you want to be with this person for the rest of your life [10:05]
“I trust him now to go and act in accordance to the boundaries we’ve set together.” [12:56]
“It is about the evolution of the boundary. It is about how you implement it, how you acknowledge it, how you refine it, and then if, and hopefully when, you're at the point where you don’t need the boundary anymore.” [18:01]
“Resentment and contempt is the biggest problem you may face in your relationship [20:33]
“Everything is a choice.” [41:00]
“Are you willing to rattle the cage and set the boundary knowing that people may not respect it?” [43:41]
“Either you hold to your boundary or you don’t, it’s not about whether you’re capable or not.” [58:54]
“Learning the language, becoming fluent in the language of boundaries liberates you from this ground hog day of frustration in life.” [1:12:55] Terri Cole
“Your feelings are your side of the street, my feelings are my side of the street, [...] that’s having good emotional boundaries.” [1:26:22]
Follow Lisa Bilyeu:
Website: radicalconfidence.com
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Twitter: twitter.com/lisabilyeu
Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: bit.ly/3dWyB2d
FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: bit.ly/3fZcbO5
On Today's Episode:
Looking to your partner, your friends, or your family for direction on what to think, how to react, when you should react, and if you should or shouldn’t be upset or not sounds like a personal prison no one wants to put themself in.
Your lack of ability to set boundaries is not a habit you want to continue carrying with you from one relationship to another. So, homie, that sh*t stops today!
In this episode, Lisa is giving you 5 personal boundaries she has to not keep people in line, and not to isolate people from her life, but 5 boundaries she uses to build tighter, closer, more meaningful relationships.
The only question now is, are you willing to do the hard work, be committed, become the hero of your own frikin life?
QUOTES:
“Be honest with your partner about your non frikin negotiables.” [1:31]
“Have those discussions if you want to be with this person for the rest of your life [10:05]
“I trust him now to go and act in accordance to the boundaries we’ve set together.” [12:56]
“It is about the evolution of the boundary. It is about how you implement it, how you acknowledge it, how you refine it, and then if, and hopefully when, you're at the point where you don’t need the boundary anymore.” [18:01]
“Resentment and contempt is the biggest problem you may face in your relationship [20:33]
“Everything is a choice.” [41:00]
“Are you willing to rattle the cage and set the boundary knowing that people may not respect it?” [43:41]
“Either you hold to your boundary or you don’t, it’s not about whether you’re capable or not.” [58:54]
“Learning the language, becoming fluent in the language of boundaries liberates you from this ground hog day of frustration in life.” [1:12:55] Terri Cole
“Your feelings are your side of the street, my feelings are my side of the street, [...] that’s having good emotional boundaries.” [1:26:22]
Follow Lisa Bilyeu:
Website: radicalconfidence.com
Instagram: instagram.com/lisabilyeu
Facebook: facebook.com/lisabilyeu
Twitter: twitter.com/lisabilyeu