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In this video, we dive into the importance of finding a romantic partner who provides emotional safety and stability. Whether you're navigating the dating world or reflecting on your current relationship, understanding the value of a partner who can be your "calm in the storm" is essential.
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Cree Summer Episode
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Lena Waithe Episode
youtu.be/uWkR5yxQ7lQ?feature=shared
In this video, we dive into the importance of finding a romantic partner who provides emotional safety and stability. Whether you're navigating the dating world or reflecting on your current relationship, understanding the value of a partner who can be your "calm in the storm" is essential.
We’ll explore:
What it means for a partner to offer provision and emotional shelter.
Why safety in a relationship isn’t just about finances—it’s about trust, reassurance, and a positive outlook on the future.
How lacking these qualities can impact intimacy, connection, and even your sex drive.
Red flags to watch for and how to identify a partner who offers true emotional security.
Drawing from real-life experiences and psychological insights, this video is a must-watch for anyone seeking a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship. Whether you're single, dating, or in a committed partnership, these lessons can help you build a stronger foundation for love.
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![How Could You Let Your Kids Dress Up for Caribana? Gladly.
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Toronto is home, and this year my sister and I went back as curators to play mas at Caribana. Every year I see the same comments (lewd, disgraceful, bad parenting) about the fact that I let my kids grow up inside this tradition. So this time I want to show you what Carnival actually is. Pretty mas was born from people who were told their skin was something to hide, deciding instead to make it the main piece of the outfit and decorate it in jewels, feathers and rhinestones. My friend Naomi Cowan put it perfectly: Carnival day is like a wedding day, the one day every girl gets her moment. Youll also catch us getting soaked at Niagara Falls and squeezing everything we could out of my city. Two truths can exist at the same time, and Im raising my daughters to hold both.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 [opener — locks with title]
00:07 A word from Squarespace
01:01 Back home in Toronto
03:21 They call it disgraceful
05:25 Every girl is a celebrity (ft. Naomi Cowan)
06:21 Why my kids will play mas someday
07:38 Two truths at the same time
09:44 Were going on the boat (Niagara Falls)
10:55 A word from Squarespace
13:58 One last look at Toronto
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