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REAL MARRIAGE IS A CRITICAL SYSTEM, SAYS ROCKET SCIENTIST
Dear marriage supporter,
Real marriage is part of a complex social system, which we tweak at our peril. That’s the view of a Professor at Bristol University, Stuart Burgess, a leading academic and complex systems engineer. Prof Burgess stands openly and firmly in support of man-woman marriage. You can watch our discussion here:
In our conversation, Prof Burgess, an actual ‘rocket scientist’, compares marriage to the intricate engineering of spacecraft. Just as tampering with a spacecraft’s delicate systems can lead to failure, redefining marriage without understanding its complexity can lead to societal breakdown. He asserts that marriage is not merely a personal choice but a “complex, fine-tuned delicate system” that plays a critical role in the stability of society.
Prof Burgess emphasises that marriage serves as a “real restraint on human behaviour.” He explains that the commitment to lifelong union discourages impulsive decisions driven by fleeting desires. He notes that “people who save themselves for marriage and believe in lifelong union” are more likely to have a “fulfilling and satisfying” relationship.
Our discussion also addresses the significant shift in societal attitudes towards marriage and relationships. Prof Burgess laments that the default for sex before marriage has shifted from no to yes.
Interestingly, Prof Burgess reveals that many of his academic colleagues quietly support his views on marriage, but are hesitant to express their beliefs openly due to fear of backlash. This highlights the importance of courage and visibility in defending traditional values in today’s society.
At C4M, we know the value of real marriage to society and can see all too well the consequences of having redefined it to include same-sex couples and no-fault divorce. We believe real marriage will experience a renaissance. Our aim is to bring this about sooner rather than later, and to stand against the social decay in the meantime.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
REAL MARRIAGE IS A CRITICAL SYSTEM, SAYS ROCKET SCIENTIST
Dear marriage supporter,
Real marriage is part of a complex social system, which we tweak at our peril. That’s the view of a Professor at Bristol University, Stuart Burgess, a leading academic and complex systems engineer. Prof Burgess stands openly and firmly in support of man-woman marriage. You can watch our discussion here:
In our conversation, Prof Burgess, an actual ‘rocket scientist’, compares marriage to the intricate engineering of spacecraft. Just as tampering with a spacecraft’s delicate systems can lead to failure, redefining marriage without understanding its complexity can lead to societal breakdown. He asserts that marriage is not merely a personal choice but a “complex, fine-tuned delicate system” that plays a critical role in the stability of society.
Prof Burgess emphasises that marriage serves as a “real restraint on human behaviour.” He explains that the commitment to lifelong union discourages impulsive decisions driven by fleeting desires. He notes that “people who save themselves for marriage and believe in lifelong union” are more likely to have a “fulfilling and satisfying” relationship.
Our discussion also addresses the significant shift in societal attitudes towards marriage and relationships. Prof Burgess laments that the default for sex before marriage has shifted from no to yes.
Interestingly, Prof Burgess reveals that many of his academic colleagues quietly support his views on marriage, but are hesitant to express their beliefs openly due to fear of backlash. This highlights the importance of courage and visibility in defending traditional values in today’s society.
At C4M, we know the value of real marriage to society and can see all too well the consequences of having redefined it to include same-sex couples and no-fault divorce. We believe real marriage will experience a renaissance. Our aim is to bring this about sooner rather than later, and to stand against the social decay in the meantime.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage

![Dismissed for Defending Reality - Kevin Lister interview with Tony Rucinski
DISMISSED FOR DEFENDING REALITY – KEVIN FIGHTS ON!
Dear marriage supporter,
Mathematics teacher Kevin Lister says he was dismissed from New College Swindon for standing firmly by his conviction that biological sex is immutable. He joins me to discuss his ongoing efforts to clear his name and to hold accountable those he believes are guilty of the safeguarding violations he himself was accused of. Kevin’s courage, positivity, and determination to stand for the truth about the immutability of sex should inspire anyone committed to defending real marriage. Watch the full interview here.
Kevin explains how the issue began when he refused to socially transition a 16-year-old female student without parental consent or appropriate safeguarding reassurances. “I immediately raised a safeguarding concern,” Kevin states. Yet, shockingly, he reports the college informed him it was “policy not to tell the parents” about significant decisions involving minors.
Despite intense pressure to affirm gender ideology, Kevin remained steadfast, plainly telling the student, “Of course you can [enter the girls’ maths competition] ’cos you’re a girl.” His principled stance led to a formal complaint, an internal investigation, and ultimately his dismissal – which he says the college justified by accusing him of holding “right-wing views”.
Refusing to accept this quietly, Kevin represented himself at an employment tribunal due to financial constraints. Although initially unsuccessful, he remains undeterred and is now vigorously pursuing an appeal with the support of a highly capable barrister financed through crowdfunding. Kevin highlights the broader significance of his case, explaining that the way the college handled the complaint against him “completely violates all safeguarding principles”.
Kevin emphasises the need for personal accountability, stating, “unless we can hold people personally accountable for the damages they have caused young people…this will not stop”. Despite the considerable personal and professional cost, he remains resolute, seeing his battle as fundamentally about protecting “the rights of teachers to have freedom to discuss issues and not to be forced into pursuing ideological premises”.
C4M will continue to highlight threats to the fundamental distinction between male and female – a distinction crucial to the definition and integrity of man-woman marriage. We stand alongside individuals like Kevin, who bravely fight to defend and restore the truths underpinning real marriage.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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