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Dear marriage supporter,
I recently had the opportunity to speak with Rev David Robertson, former Moderator of the Free Church of Scotland, also known as TheWeeFlea, about the attack on marriage in the West and his proposals for defending the family. You can listen to David’s typically witty and insightful comments here.
David shared his views on why he defends real marriage, stating that it’s because he cares about other human beings and the poor who are hit the hardest.
David spoke about the devastating effects of redefining marriage for everyone and how it can be seen among the poor and in housing estates across the land. According to him, the progressive agenda in Scotland is being pushed by “civic elites” within academia, politics, the media and corporations, which only make up “about 5,000 people”, while the Church has become quite “inward looking” and “got caught out”.
Expressing concerns about the proposed ban on so-called conversion therapy, David claimed “it’s a trick, it’s a con”. He argued that when most people hear the term ‘conversion therapy’ they will think of physical coercion or torture, when activists use it to include “praying with somebody” and not “affirming someone’s sexuality”. A conversion therapy ban on their terms would threaten religious freedom which, he said, “is the basis of all the other freedoms we have in our culture”.
David stressed that this is not a time for marriage supporters and the Church to be silent. He said that the “most important thing that people need is a solid family” and if “you remove that glue, things will fall apart”. He urged politicians to stop playing games and speak up, and emphasised that marriage supporters have to model what a good marriage is like.
C4M stands for real marriage because the lifelong, exclusive union of one man and one woman, brings about the best version of the next generation. At a population level, it has optimal outcomes for women, men, children and society – nothing else comes close.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button below on our website at c4m.org.uk
Yours faithfully,
Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
Dear marriage supporter,
I recently had the opportunity to speak with Rev David Robertson, former Moderator of the Free Church of Scotland, also known as TheWeeFlea, about the attack on marriage in the West and his proposals for defending the family. You can listen to David’s typically witty and insightful comments here.
David shared his views on why he defends real marriage, stating that it’s because he cares about other human beings and the poor who are hit the hardest.
David spoke about the devastating effects of redefining marriage for everyone and how it can be seen among the poor and in housing estates across the land. According to him, the progressive agenda in Scotland is being pushed by “civic elites” within academia, politics, the media and corporations, which only make up “about 5,000 people”, while the Church has become quite “inward looking” and “got caught out”.
Expressing concerns about the proposed ban on so-called conversion therapy, David claimed “it’s a trick, it’s a con”. He argued that when most people hear the term ‘conversion therapy’ they will think of physical coercion or torture, when activists use it to include “praying with somebody” and not “affirming someone’s sexuality”. A conversion therapy ban on their terms would threaten religious freedom which, he said, “is the basis of all the other freedoms we have in our culture”.
David stressed that this is not a time for marriage supporters and the Church to be silent. He said that the “most important thing that people need is a solid family” and if “you remove that glue, things will fall apart”. He urged politicians to stop playing games and speak up, and emphasised that marriage supporters have to model what a good marriage is like.
C4M stands for real marriage because the lifelong, exclusive union of one man and one woman, brings about the best version of the next generation. At a population level, it has optimal outcomes for women, men, children and society – nothing else comes close.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button below on our website at c4m.org.uk
Yours faithfully,
Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage


![Poland Chooses Pro-Family President - Olivier Bault interview with Tony Rucinski
POLAND CHOOSES PRO-FAMILY PRESIDENT
Dear marriage supporter,
Poland has elected a pro-family president, Karol Nawrocki. I chat to Olivier Bault, Communications Director at the Ordo Iuris Institute for Legal Culture, about what this means for marriage and the family. Poland already gives a large income tax break to mothers and fathers of four or more children within set thresholds. Watch our full interview here.
Poland treats marriage as the union of one man and one woman in its Constitution. This gives policymakers a clear anchor for family policy. In our discussion, Olivier explains how this constitutional clarity protects children and strengthens society, and why redefining marriage unravels that clarity.
He sets out what the new President means for marriage policy. Olivier outlines a plan to further increase and extend tax benefits to parents with two or more children, submitted as a Presidential Bill to parliament. Nawrocki will also block progressive legislation proposed by the Government. The Presidency, he explains, carries a veto that the current Sejm – the lower house of Poland’s Parliament – cannot override without three fifths. He says Nawrocki will not sign laws that bring civil partnerships, open to same-sex couples, into law. Olivier explains that the new President’s position is a stalemate with Parliament, but that this is better than capitulation on moral truth.
The battle for the classroom is discussed too. Olivier details a new “health education” class that wraps in sex education with gender-identity content. Parents can opt out by written declaration. His point is plain. Parental rights need defending in law and in practice.
Turning to the UK, the record is a cautionary tale. Parliament broadened legal parenthood routes in 2002 (Adoption and Children Act 2002), created civil partnerships in 2004 (Civil Partnership Act 2004), widened parental routes again in 2008 (Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008), and then redefined marriage in 2013 (Marriage [Same Sex Couples] Act 2013). At present, Poland’s constitutional definition and a President with a veto block that sequence.
At C4M our focus is real marriage because it gives children their best start in life, and gives the nation a more hopeful future. Poland shows that law can back the truth about marriage and that policy can reward responsibility. The challenge now is to renew a marriage culture in the UK with clear laws, parental rights and practical support for young couples. That is a positive policy aim, and one that C4M believe is definitely attainable.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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![PRIDE is wrecking the family - Rev Keith Waters Interview with Tony Rucinski
INTERVIEW: PRIDE IS ‘WRECKING THE FAMILY UNIT’
Dear marriage supporter,
I recently interviewed Keith Waters, a pastor who left his job at a prestigious Cambridge college to shepherd a local church, while also working as a school caretaker. Keith braved disciplinary action from the school for his candid expression of support for man-woman marriage. He goes into both his stance and his triumph, aided by the Christian Legal Centre, in our full discussion here:
Keith shares how he initially enjoyed a “good relationship” with the school, even leading assemblies and RE lessons. However, this changed dramatically after he tweeted his opinion that “Christians should not support or attend” Pride marches as they “are especially harmful for children”. Keith was subjected to disciplinary action after parents complained about the tweet, which he challenged successfully at an employment tribunal. He was even invited by the police to be “retrained in [his] thinking”.
Keith is unequivocal about the broader societal implications, stating that the issue of Pride “is wrecking the family unit” and that allowing same-sex marriage has acted as “a massive catalyst to … aggression” against those who advocate for authentic man-woman unions. He urges supporters to be “bold enough and compassionate enough and wise enough, all at the same time”, and to arm themselves with data that illuminates the benefits of real marriage.
Keith encapsulates the issue by saying, “It all comes back to that central family unit, to marriage”, urging people to stand up and be “willing to put heads above parapets”.
At C4M, we’re keenly aware that courage is a cornerstone of meaningful change. With the strong backing of our supporters, and taking a firm stand for the importance of man-woman marriage together, we can and will make a difference.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button on our website at
http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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![Westminster Summer of Sex from ages 0-18! Richard Lucas interview with Tony Rucinski
WESTMINSTER’S “SUMMER OF SEX” – FROM 0 TO 18
Dear marriage supporter,
Last time I sat with Richard Lucas, leader of the Scottish Family Party, we went through Scotland’s new statutory guidance on what every child must be taught about sex, relationships and identity, from the age of three. This time he showed me the actual classroom materials. I will not reproduce them. Even quoting the slides would put this email past Ofcom’s 9pm watershed – and that is the news. Material the State broadcaster cannot lawfully put before adults at 8.59pm is what the Scottish Government recommends its teachers put before three-year-olds in school.
These resources are recommended by Scotland’s First Minister, John Swinney, by name, and used in most Scottish state schools. Richard walks us through them age band by age band in our discussion here: [WARNING: some explicit curriculum material]
Richard Lucas interview
From three years old, children can be taught that babies are assembled from sperm, egg and uterus from any combination of bodies, erasing mum and dad. From the age of five, two mothers or two fathers is taught as no different from a mother and a father. From age twelve, lessons include telling children they have a “right” to have sex with each other, though Parliament sets the age of consent at sixteen. From fifteen, teachers walk pupils through specific sexual acts decency forbids me from naming – Government-recommended content.
‘This corrupts young minds’, Richard tells me. Looking at one of the lessons that walks twelve-year-olds through having sex for the first time, he asks: “Anything about being married in there? Forget that. No way.” He suggests that if you can get sex with who you want and when you want, why would you bother with marriage?
In England, this is not isolated. It is the pattern. Christian Concern documented Warwickshire’s “All About Me” programme – delivered in over two hundred primary schools – as one that encouraged six-year-olds in things we cannot in decency describe, showed explicit images to nine-year-olds, and so much worse besides. It took a legal threat from The Christian Institute before Warwickshire County Council finally withdrew it.
The Daily Telegraph exposed a drag queen visiting a school on the Isle of Man to instruct eleven-year-olds in sexual practices we cannot name here – and to tell them there are 73 genders. There are many other examples.
In Westminster, Labour MP Samantha Niblett has launched a “summer of sex” campaign, partnering with Cindy Gallop, who runs the pornography subscription platform MakeLoveNotPorn and a sex-education site aimed, in Gallop’s own words on Spectator TV, at ages “0 to 18 and beyond”. Read that again. Zero to eighteen. Sex education for children in cots, built by the founder of a pornography platform with a sitting MP. Niblett intends to bring sex toys into Parliament. It is what Scotland is already doing to three-year-olds, brought to Westminster.
There is a remedy on the statute book. Last Saturday, at the Family Education Trust annual conference, the former Home Secretary Suella Braverman called for the enforcement of sections 406 and 407 of the Education Act 1996, provisions that already prohibit indoctrination in schools but are all too often ignored. “It is indoctrination, pure and simple”, she says, “and it’s against the law”.
Marriage between one man and one woman is the gold standard for the rearing of children, giving every child the unconditional link to mother and father. What Scotland teaches its three-year-olds, what English schools have already been caught teaching, and what Westminster’s “summer of sex” wants to push further, is the dismantling of that institution. Coalition for Marriage exists to protect children from paying the cost.
Two things this week. Firstly, forward this email to one parent or grandparent. Secondly, write to your MP at https://www.writetothem.com and demand enforcement of sections 406 and 407 of the Education Act 1996. Insist they stop sexualising our children.
If you are not yet supporting C4M financially, please help us defend marriage and the family by clicking the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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