Uploaded January 2023 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Dear marriage supporter,
For over 25 years, Dave Percival has produced a weekly bulletin on all aspects of marriage aimed at professionals working in the area. I asked Dave what drives his passion, and why he feels there’s a greater need than ever to encourage people working in the marriage support community. You can listen to our discussion here.
Back in the 90s, Dave tells me, the Government was still putting money into supporting marriage. But there was no regular collation of information for people working in marriage support. Dave thought he’d fill that gap. It acts, he says, “as a constant reminder that actually this ancient, valuable ... God-given institution matters”.
I asked Dave what he had learned from processing all that information over the years. While marriage is often challenging and requires hard work, he says, “It is undoubtedly the most valuable way that a couple can live and raise children and contribute to society”. This is because of the permanency marriage brings: “You cannot commit ... to complete openness, vulnerability and intimacy in an environment where you are unsure as to the long-term response of your partner.”
“There is a deep, deep joy”, Dave goes on, “in a couple relationship which is founded on unconditional love”.
At C4M, we appreciate the authentic joy and wider benefits that real marriage brings to individuals and society. That’s why it has been and always will be the stabilising bedrock of any thriving nation. And that’s why we continue to support and promote it.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button on our website at c4m.org.uk
Yours faithfully,
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
Dear marriage supporter,
For over 25 years, Dave Percival has produced a weekly bulletin on all aspects of marriage aimed at professionals working in the area. I asked Dave what drives his passion, and why he feels there’s a greater need than ever to encourage people working in the marriage support community. You can listen to our discussion here.
Back in the 90s, Dave tells me, the Government was still putting money into supporting marriage. But there was no regular collation of information for people working in marriage support. Dave thought he’d fill that gap. It acts, he says, “as a constant reminder that actually this ancient, valuable ... God-given institution matters”.
I asked Dave what he had learned from processing all that information over the years. While marriage is often challenging and requires hard work, he says, “It is undoubtedly the most valuable way that a couple can live and raise children and contribute to society”. This is because of the permanency marriage brings: “You cannot commit ... to complete openness, vulnerability and intimacy in an environment where you are unsure as to the long-term response of your partner.”
“There is a deep, deep joy”, Dave goes on, “in a couple relationship which is founded on unconditional love”.
At C4M, we appreciate the authentic joy and wider benefits that real marriage brings to individuals and society. That’s why it has been and always will be the stabilising bedrock of any thriving nation. And that’s why we continue to support and promote it.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button on our website at c4m.org.uk
Yours faithfully,
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage








![FET interview
Dear marriage supporter,
This week I catch up with Piers Shepherd from the Family Education Trust (FET), to find out more about their work and resources. You can listen to our conversation here.
Piers tells me how the FET’s work covers all issues that relate to marriage, the family and the welfare of young people.
Founded fifty years ago to combat the “breakdown of the family and consequences of casual sexual behaviour following the sexual revolution”, Piers explains how the FET now produces information resources on a wide range of topics.
Their publications include: ‘Sex Education or Indoctrination’, ‘Broken Homes and Battered Children’, and ‘Unprotected’, highlighting child sexual exploitation in the UK.
The FET have also published a booklet written by C4M, containing evidence and arguments in support of real marriage, ‘Marriage and Divorce in the Liberal Imagination’. You can download a PDF version from our website.
Piers tells me how the FET’s work seeks to highlight the “extra moral element” that is often ignored by the mainstream media. Examples include the “obscene things” being taught in some schools, as well as resources that give “a green light to sexual behaviour [to children] as young as 13”.
The FET were one of the organisations, together with hundreds of thousands of individuals, who came together to form C4M. We continue to stand for one man, one woman marriage in the public square, and the importance of real marriage as the basic building block of a stable society.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the DONATE button on our website at
http://www.c4m.org.uk
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