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POPULATION EXPERT WARNS, MARRIAGE IS OUR LAST BEST HOPE
Dear marriage supporter,
A powerful article by leading demographer Lyman Stone highlights that marriage is “by far the most important factor shaping fertility”. I caught up with Lyman, whose research points out that 75% of the fertility decline since 2007 is directly tied to falling marriage rates. Watch our full interview online here or a shorter 14 minute version here.
In our full conversation, Lyman stresses the urgency of understanding that marriage isn’t just about tradition – it’s the cornerstone of thriving societies. He makes it crystal clear: “Married people still have way more kids”, and marriage itself directly increases fertility. He emphasises that “the more years you spend in marriage, the more babies you have”, demonstrating why earlier marriages are crucial.
Our current replacement rate of 1.44 means the population shrinks by a third every generation, a drastic decline with profound implications. Immigration often comes up as a potential solution, but this is not a sustainable long-term fix. Lyman emphasises that real marriage remains the only viable and proven solution for societies to thrive long-term.
We also tackled common myths around overpopulation and climate change. Lyman argues convincingly that children drive future innovation, not environmental harm. He also debunks the idea that waiting to marry reduces the risk of divorce, pointing out that according to data, “delaying doesn’t make you more likely to stay together”.
Critically, Lyman identifies pressing issues facing young people, especially economic instability among young men and the crippling cost of housing. He insists on the urgent need to “help young men have less failure to launch”. Practical measures, such as removing marriage penalties from welfare systems, subsidising marriage directly, and creating family-friendly educational policies, are essential steps forward. From pastors to policymakers, it’s vital that everyone becomes aware of the urgent need to actively promote real marriage.
At C4M, we remain deeply committed to advocating for real marriage as the foundation for healthier families and flourishing societies. The evidence is clear – promoting marriage isn’t just beneficial; it’s absolutely vital to our existence. Please forward this email to others who might be uncertain about the importance of reversing declining birth rates by supporting real marriage.
If you would like to support us financially as we challenge this nonsense, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
POPULATION EXPERT WARNS, MARRIAGE IS OUR LAST BEST HOPE
Dear marriage supporter,
A powerful article by leading demographer Lyman Stone highlights that marriage is “by far the most important factor shaping fertility”. I caught up with Lyman, whose research points out that 75% of the fertility decline since 2007 is directly tied to falling marriage rates. Watch our full interview online here or a shorter 14 minute version here.
In our full conversation, Lyman stresses the urgency of understanding that marriage isn’t just about tradition – it’s the cornerstone of thriving societies. He makes it crystal clear: “Married people still have way more kids”, and marriage itself directly increases fertility. He emphasises that “the more years you spend in marriage, the more babies you have”, demonstrating why earlier marriages are crucial.
Our current replacement rate of 1.44 means the population shrinks by a third every generation, a drastic decline with profound implications. Immigration often comes up as a potential solution, but this is not a sustainable long-term fix. Lyman emphasises that real marriage remains the only viable and proven solution for societies to thrive long-term.
We also tackled common myths around overpopulation and climate change. Lyman argues convincingly that children drive future innovation, not environmental harm. He also debunks the idea that waiting to marry reduces the risk of divorce, pointing out that according to data, “delaying doesn’t make you more likely to stay together”.
Critically, Lyman identifies pressing issues facing young people, especially economic instability among young men and the crippling cost of housing. He insists on the urgent need to “help young men have less failure to launch”. Practical measures, such as removing marriage penalties from welfare systems, subsidising marriage directly, and creating family-friendly educational policies, are essential steps forward. From pastors to policymakers, it’s vital that everyone becomes aware of the urgent need to actively promote real marriage.
At C4M, we remain deeply committed to advocating for real marriage as the foundation for healthier families and flourishing societies. The evidence is clear – promoting marriage isn’t just beneficial; it’s absolutely vital to our existence. Please forward this email to others who might be uncertain about the importance of reversing declining birth rates by supporting real marriage.
If you would like to support us financially as we challenge this nonsense, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
![Dismissed for Defending Reality - Kevin Lister interview with Tony Rucinski
DISMISSED FOR DEFENDING REALITY – KEVIN FIGHTS ON!
Dear marriage supporter,
Mathematics teacher Kevin Lister says he was dismissed from New College Swindon for standing firmly by his conviction that biological sex is immutable. He joins me to discuss his ongoing efforts to clear his name and to hold accountable those he believes are guilty of the safeguarding violations he himself was accused of. Kevin’s courage, positivity, and determination to stand for the truth about the immutability of sex should inspire anyone committed to defending real marriage. Watch the full interview here.
Kevin explains how the issue began when he refused to socially transition a 16-year-old female student without parental consent or appropriate safeguarding reassurances. “I immediately raised a safeguarding concern,” Kevin states. Yet, shockingly, he reports the college informed him it was “policy not to tell the parents” about significant decisions involving minors.
Despite intense pressure to affirm gender ideology, Kevin remained steadfast, plainly telling the student, “Of course you can [enter the girls’ maths competition] ’cos you’re a girl.” His principled stance led to a formal complaint, an internal investigation, and ultimately his dismissal – which he says the college justified by accusing him of holding “right-wing views”.
Refusing to accept this quietly, Kevin represented himself at an employment tribunal due to financial constraints. Although initially unsuccessful, he remains undeterred and is now vigorously pursuing an appeal with the support of a highly capable barrister financed through crowdfunding. Kevin highlights the broader significance of his case, explaining that the way the college handled the complaint against him “completely violates all safeguarding principles”.
Kevin emphasises the need for personal accountability, stating, “unless we can hold people personally accountable for the damages they have caused young people…this will not stop”. Despite the considerable personal and professional cost, he remains resolute, seeing his battle as fundamentally about protecting “the rights of teachers to have freedom to discuss issues and not to be forced into pursuing ideological premises”.
C4M will continue to highlight threats to the fundamental distinction between male and female – a distinction crucial to the definition and integrity of man-woman marriage. We stand alongside individuals like Kevin, who bravely fight to defend and restore the truths underpinning real marriage.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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![Poland Chooses Pro-Family President - Olivier Bault interview with Tony Rucinski
POLAND CHOOSES PRO-FAMILY PRESIDENT
Dear marriage supporter,
Poland has elected a pro-family president, Karol Nawrocki. I chat to Olivier Bault, Communications Director at the Ordo Iuris Institute for Legal Culture, about what this means for marriage and the family. Poland already gives a large income tax break to mothers and fathers of four or more children within set thresholds. Watch our full interview here.
Poland treats marriage as the union of one man and one woman in its Constitution. This gives policymakers a clear anchor for family policy. In our discussion, Olivier explains how this constitutional clarity protects children and strengthens society, and why redefining marriage unravels that clarity.
He sets out what the new President means for marriage policy. Olivier outlines a plan to further increase and extend tax benefits to parents with two or more children, submitted as a Presidential Bill to parliament. Nawrocki will also block progressive legislation proposed by the Government. The Presidency, he explains, carries a veto that the current Sejm – the lower house of Poland’s Parliament – cannot override without three fifths. He says Nawrocki will not sign laws that bring civil partnerships, open to same-sex couples, into law. Olivier explains that the new President’s position is a stalemate with Parliament, but that this is better than capitulation on moral truth.
The battle for the classroom is discussed too. Olivier details a new “health education” class that wraps in sex education with gender-identity content. Parents can opt out by written declaration. His point is plain. Parental rights need defending in law and in practice.
Turning to the UK, the record is a cautionary tale. Parliament broadened legal parenthood routes in 2002 (Adoption and Children Act 2002), created civil partnerships in 2004 (Civil Partnership Act 2004), widened parental routes again in 2008 (Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008), and then redefined marriage in 2013 (Marriage [Same Sex Couples] Act 2013). At present, Poland’s constitutional definition and a President with a veto block that sequence.
At C4M our focus is real marriage because it gives children their best start in life, and gives the nation a more hopeful future. Poland shows that law can back the truth about marriage and that policy can reward responsibility. The challenge now is to renew a marriage culture in the UK with clear laws, parental rights and practical support for young couples. That is a positive policy aim, and one that C4M believe is definitely attainable.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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