Uploaded December 2022 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Today's coffee talk is about how to overcome our insecurities and in turn, take our power back from society along with a mindset shift to hopefully power us through the winter blues.
If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the channel & become a member ✨
All Things Koze Blog & Shop ▹ allthingskoze.com
All Things Koze Instagram ▹ instagram.com/allthingskoze
Koze Flow Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kozeflow
Kalyn's Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kalynnicholson13
Coffee Talk Chapters ☕️
00:00 - Where does 'insecurity' come from?
02:57 - Internalizing problems and taking back your power
08:23 - Operating with your insecurity
11:23 - Ad break
14:52 - How to deal with winter gloom
Kalyn's Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
#FEELS [self-development] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is sponsored by Organifi & KiwiCo ❤
Stay Koze-y
Today's coffee talk is about how to overcome our insecurities and in turn, take our power back from society along with a mindset shift to hopefully power us through the winter blues.
If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the channel & become a member ✨
All Things Koze Blog & Shop ▹ allthingskoze.com
All Things Koze Instagram ▹ instagram.com/allthingskoze
Koze Flow Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kozeflow
Kalyn's Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kalynnicholson13
Coffee Talk Chapters ☕️
00:00 - Where does 'insecurity' come from?
02:57 - Internalizing problems and taking back your power
08:23 - Operating with your insecurity
11:23 - Ad break
14:52 - How to deal with winter gloom
Kalyn's Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
#FEELS [self-development] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is sponsored by Organifi & KiwiCo ❤
Stay Koze-y

![What You Can Control vs. What You Cant
Welcome back to another Coffee Talk. Todays chat is an empowering reminder of the things within your control versus the things that arent ☕️
If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the channel & become a member ✨
All Things Koze Blog & Shop ▹ https://allthingskoze.com/
All Things Koze Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/allthingskoze/
Koze Flow Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kozeflow/
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Coffee Talk Chapters:
00:00 - What you cant control
11:45 - Ad break
14:14 - The things you do have control over
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
#FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is sponsored by KiwiCo & Nutrafol ❤
Stay Koze-y What You Can Control vs. What You Cant](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_kxgNv9j8kQ/mqdefault.jpg)
![The Season of Becoming: Play, Power, Instinct | Day 25
Welcome to the Season of Becoming: Winter Edition 🤍 aka a softer version of a winter arc.
HERES THE DIGITAL BOOK: The Season of Becoming: Winter Edition ▹ https://www.kalynnicholson.com/product-page/the-season-of-becoming-winter-edition
My Digital Diary ▹ https://linktr.ee/kalynnicholson
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to join my book club, get extra coffee talks, or tune in for community movie watch parties etc., click the Join button and become part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am solely a fellow earthling with an inquisitive soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth, virtual connection and hopefully positive change, not an expert in any sense. Take what resonates, leave what doesnt, or let me hear your thoughts!
❤ This Coffee Talk is not sponsored. The Season of Becoming: Play, Power, Instinct | Day 25](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_zLoZUOjwTY/mqdefault.jpg)

![The Pressures of Perfectionism & Procrastination
Welcome back to another Coffee Talk. Todays video is about the pressures of perfectionism and how it leads to procrastination ☕️
If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the channel & become a member ✨
All Things Koze Blog & Shop ▹ https://allthingskoze.com/
All Things Koze Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/allthingskoze/
Koze Flow Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kozeflow/
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Coffee Talk Chapters ☕️
00:00 - Welcome to todays topic ✨
02:42 - Social Media & Aesthetics
04:47 - How does perfectionism affect you?
08:26 - A personal story about perfectionism
10:16 - Why do we need to be perfect?
14:26 - A practice when struggling with expectations
17:30 - What do you distract and procrastinate with?
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is not sponsored, no links are affiliate ❤
Stay Koze-y The Pressures of Perfectionism & Procrastination](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/a66Uq6wAuwM/mqdefault.jpg)
![Dispelling Sadness and Activating Joy ✨ Healing Mantra Oracle Talk
Welcome to another card reading of Talktober. This weeks card reading is from the Healing Mantra deck.
Linked here: https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Mantra-Deck-52-Card/dp/1401957676/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1ZZCOBXFKK6QH&keywords=healing+mantra+deck&qid=1697885057&sprefix=healing+mantra+dec%252Caps%252C106&sr=8-1&_encoding=UTF8&tag=kalynnicholso-20&linkCode=ur2&linkId=ce5a822f7a486904fcd0e7422010bb82&camp=1789&creative=9325
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
If you want early access to videos, bonus seasonal content every Sunday, access to my book club, 200+ flow classes, invite to live community events, join in on monthly community challenges or be part of the members Discord, be sure to join the channel & become a Sunday Club member ✨
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This video is not sponsored. The link for the Healing Mantra deck is affiliate.
Thank you so much for your support. I hope youre enjoying Talktober. Turn on the notification bell or check back Monday - Friday for mini talks all throughout October. Dispelling Sadness and Activating Joy ✨ Healing Mantra Oracle Talk](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/a88DwuC3Axo/mqdefault.jpg)
![The Season of Becoming: Screen Time & the Glow We’re Losing | Day 23
Welcome to the Season of Becoming: Winter Edition 🤍 aka a softer version of a winter arc.
HERES THE DIGITAL BOOK: The Season of Becoming: Winter Edition ▹ https://www.kalynnicholson.com/product-page/the-season-of-becoming-winter-edition
My Digital Diary ▹ https://linktr.ee/kalynnicholson
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to join my book club, get extra coffee talks, or tune in for community movie watch parties etc., click the Join button and become part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am solely a fellow earthling with an inquisitive soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth, virtual connection and hopefully positive change, not an expert in any sense. Take what resonates, leave what doesnt, or let me hear your thoughts!
❤ This Coffee Talk is not sponsored. The Season of Becoming: Screen Time & the Glow We’re Losing | Day 23](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/aQ5FA2WHQsU/mqdefault.jpg)
![IM PRETENDING TO BE OK: when your self-care stops working and you feel stuck.
Welcome to my new spring series: Ask Kalyn! Every other talk over the next few weeks will be giving advice sent in anonymously by listeners. Todays topic is how to stop pretending to be ok, despite doing all the self care, and actually feel your not-okayness.
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Coffee Talk Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynscoffeetalk/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to support my channel, get early, ad-free access to Coffee Talks, a monthly bonus video, access to my community discord chat, an invite to the book club I host every Sunday or to use the special emoji on this channel, click the Join button and be part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ Thank you to the sponsors of todays Coffee Talk!
❤ Marley Spoon: Head to http://MarleySpoon.com/OFFER/TALK and use code TALK for up to 25 FREE meals!
❤ Trumeta: Get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee, PLUS free shipping in US, so go right now to http://www.trumeta.com/coffee
❤ One Skin: Get started today with 15% off using code TALK at http://www.oneskin.co IM PRETENDING TO BE OK: when your self-care stops working and you feel stuck.](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/assEcfWBssg/mqdefault.jpg)
![How I’m staying grounded (barely) in motherhood
Popping in over a coffee with my littles to share what’s been helping me feel more grounded lately in the chaos of motherhood; the little shifts, mindsets, and rituals I keep coming back to when I’m feeling anxious, overstimulated, or like I just can’t keep up.
My digital existence ✨: https://linktr.ee/kalynnicholson
Listen to the long version of this talk: https://open.spotify.com/show/6kZlGdOUp18LwW7FJHSjsl?si=0f00a1fc338b4585
If you want to support my channel, get early, ad-free access to Coffee Talks, a monthly bonus video, access to my community discord chat, an invite to the book club I host every Sunday or to use the special emoji on this channel, click the Join button and be part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a fellow earthling with an inquisitive soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth, virtual connection and hopefully positive change.
❤This coffee talk is not sponsored. Feel free to like, comment and subscribe if you want to share some love! How I’m staying grounded (barely) in motherhood](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/b2UwYxWezfc/mqdefault.jpg)

![The Season of Becoming: Supporting Your Winter Body | Day 18
Welcome to the Season of Becoming: Winter Edition 🤍 aka a softer version of a winter arc.
HERES THE DIGITAL BOOK: The Season of Becoming: Winter Edition ▹ https://www.kalynnicholson.com/product-page/the-season-of-becoming-winter-edition
My Digital Diary ▹ https://linktr.ee/kalynnicholson
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to join my book club, get extra coffee talks, or tune in for community movie watch parties etc., click the Join button and become part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am solely a fellow earthling with an inquisitive soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth, virtual connection and hopefully positive change, not an expert in any sense. Take what resonates, leave what doesnt, or let me hear your thoughts!
❤ This Coffee Talk is not sponsored. The Season of Becoming: Supporting Your Winter Body | Day 18](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/bqaSRM-pHgw/mqdefault.jpg)