Letters to an Asexual #109 ("I don't want to come out.") @swankivy

Uploaded December 2023 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

This is #109 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or--more often--misconceptions about asexuality. In this video, I share three Anonymous questions sent to me about various reasons for not wanting to come out and my advice for them.

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