Uploaded February 2014 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
This is #18 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or--more often--misconceptions about asexuality.
This letter-writer propositioned me on OKCupid with some vile commentary about how asexuality isn't real, that I was too sexy to not have sex and was wasting my life, and that he wanted to offer me sex for my own benefit--but only if I called him in the next six days to "start [my] new adventure." As you might imagine, I was thrilled at this prospect and thanked him profusely for such a selfless, eye-opening opportunity. Not.
This is #18 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or--more often--misconceptions about asexuality.
This letter-writer propositioned me on OKCupid with some vile commentary about how asexuality isn't real, that I was too sexy to not have sex and was wasting my life, and that he wanted to offer me sex for my own benefit--but only if I called him in the next six days to "start [my] new adventure." As you might imagine, I was thrilled at this prospect and thanked him profusely for such a selfless, eye-opening opportunity. Not.
