Uploaded March 2024 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Talking with Jessica Baum, psychotherapist, speaker and author of the book Anxiously Attached about attachment styles, dysfunction, healing our attachment wounds and learning to thrive in an insecurely attached society.
Find out more about Jessica here: beselffull.com
My Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kalynnicholson13
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If you want to support my channel, get early, ad-free access to Coffee Talks, a monthly bonus video, access to my community discord chat, an invite to the book club I host every Sunday or to use the special emoji on this channel, click the 'Join' button and be part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is an early, ad-free members version.
Talking with Jessica Baum, psychotherapist, speaker and author of the book Anxiously Attached about attachment styles, dysfunction, healing our attachment wounds and learning to thrive in an insecurely attached society.
Find out more about Jessica here: beselffull.com
My Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kalynnicholson13
Coffee Talk Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kalynscoffeetalk
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to support my channel, get early, ad-free access to Coffee Talks, a monthly bonus video, access to my community discord chat, an invite to the book club I host every Sunday or to use the special emoji on this channel, click the 'Join' button and be part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is an early, ad-free members version.

![FINDING MOTIVATION | How To Push Through on Low Energy Days
What to do on those days (or weeks) when the motivation and energy disappears and you need some inspiration to keep going.
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Coffee Talk Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynscoffeetalk/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to support my channel, get early, ad-free access to Coffee Talks, a monthly bonus video, access to my community discord chat, an invite to the book club I host every Sunday or to use the special emoji on this channel, click the Join button and be part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ Big thank you to Marley Spoon for sponsoring todays episode!
Head to http://www.MarleySpoon.com/OFFER/TALK and use code TALK for up to 25 FREE meals! FINDING MOTIVATION | How To Push Through on Low Energy Days](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/JX7y2vzdR90/mqdefault.jpg)
![Lets Discover New Music Together [Part One]
Come discover new indie pop acoustic folk songs for the summer with me!
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Spotify Session Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome ✨
01:31 - concussion by girlhouse
06:16 - Never-Ending Summer by Wes Reeve (FAV OF THE DAY)
10:20 - Kiss Me (Cover) by Wass
12:50 - Kiss Me (Original) by Sixpence None The Richer
15:10 - Wild Child by The Ghost of Paul Revere
19:58 - Final Thoughts: Should we do this again?
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
❤ This video is not sponsored. Lets Discover New Music Together [Part One]](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/JrUQXmyLWf0/mqdefault.jpg)
![Beat Perfectionism & Procrastination: Coffee Talk with Thomas Curran
Tune in for a conversation with Thomas Curran, professor at the London School of Economics, a social psychologist and author of the book The Perfection Trap.
The Perfection Trap Book ▹ https://www.amazon.ca/Perfection-Trap-Embracing-Power-Enough/dp/1982149531
More about Thomas ▹ https://www.linkedin.com/in/thom-curran
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This is an ad-free Coffee Talk for Sunday Club members. Beat Perfectionism & Procrastination: Coffee Talk with Thomas Curran](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/K9DFmMb8HAQ/mqdefault.jpg)
![Should We Stop Using Masculinity and Femininity?
Join me for a healthy debate over whether or not the terms masculine and feminine have become outdated or not.
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Coffee Talk Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynscoffeetalk/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to support my channel, get early, ad-free access to Coffee Talks, a monthly bonus video, access to my community discord chat, an invite to the book club I host every Sunday or to use the special emoji on this channel, click the Join button and be part of the coffee club! ✨
Talk Topics:
00:00 - Welcome!
04:12 - Traditional ideas of masculine and feminine
10:55 - Do our hormones play a roll?
13:02 - Why it is outdated
21:09 - Why it isnt outdated
24:13 - Listener input
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is sponsored by Trumeta & Vegamour.
Get a free electric mixer, %40 off the coffee, and free shipping in the US by going to http://www.trumeta.com/coffee
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![Getting Older Chat: pretty vs. beautiful, rejecting fear & aging gracefully
What are your thoughts? 🤍
My new Winter DIGITAL BOOK: The Season of Becoming: Winter Edition ▹ https://www.kalynnicholson.com/product-page/the-season-of-becoming-winter-edition
My Digital Diary ▹ https://linktr.ee/kalynnicholson
My Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Flow Corner Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynsflowcorner
If you want to join my book club, get extra coffee talks, or tune in for community movie watch parties etc., click the Join button and become part of the coffee club! ✨
My Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am solely a fellow earthling with an inquisitive soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth, virtual connection and hopefully positive change, not an expert in any sense. Take what resonates, leave what doesnt, or let me hear your thoughts!
❤ This Coffee Talk is for members of the channel. Getting Older Chat: pretty vs. beautiful, rejecting fear & aging gracefully](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/LY4CenwUOGM/mqdefault.jpg)
![Why Ive Decided Not To Become a Mommy Vlogger
Welcome back to another Coffee Talk. Todays video is about the new era of sharing kids online via the form of family vlogging and mommy vlogging and my personal worries about it ☕️
If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the channel & become a member ✨
All Things Koze Blog & Shop ▹ https://allthingskoze.com/
All Things Koze Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/allthingskoze/
Koze Flow Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kozeflow/
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Coffee Talk Chapters ☕️
00:00 - Welcome ✨
01:30 - Lessons Ive learned sharing my life online
11:15 - What sparked my need to figure this out
13:01 - My concerns with sharing my child online
22:11 - The pros of mommy and family content
25:55 - My final decision of what I will share
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is not sponsored, no links are affiliate ❤
Stay Koze-y Why Ive Decided Not To Become a Mommy Vlogger](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Mi6qEMZWgLo/mqdefault.jpg)
![Get Out of the Mental Fog and Find Inner Peace
How do we get out of our confused state of minds to seek happiness connection? This is the question we’re talking about and I’m attempting to answer today.
I’ll be spending the next few episodes giving advice to members and podcast listeners - if you’d like to submit an anonymous advice or topic request, use this form here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfATFWWKvDjRz07fBp_yxiC-6nMbLDiV0tA2Voc_uQ3ECT9Zw/viewform?usp=sf_link
All Things Koze Blog & Shop ▹ https://allthingskoze.com/
All Things Koze Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/allthingskoze/
Koze Flow Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kozeflow/
Kalyns Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
Kalyns Books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ This Coffee Talk is not sponsored, no links are affiliate ❤
Stay flowing and free. Get Out of the Mental Fog and Find Inner Peace](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/MjN_RrZERDw/mqdefault.jpg)

![Welcome to Talktober ☕️🍂
Welcome to Talktober, a Monday to Friday mini Coffee Talk series.
Mondays are a journal prompt and talk, Tuesdays are a card reading, Wednesdays are a full length Coffee Talk, Thursdays are fun theories and Fridays are mini flows!
My Fall Vlogs ▹ https://www.youtube.com/@UC-CZmKnJbjGWAzJd6cIVUMg
Follow along on Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/
If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the channel & become a Sunday Club member ✨
I wrote some books:
Catcher [dystopian fiction] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE
Dancing With Elephants [poetry] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF
FEELS [self-development] ▹ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
❤ Thank you so much for your support. Turn on the notification bell or check back Monday - Friday for mini talks all throughout October. Welcome to Talktober ☕️🍂](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Mzrkj3nJdao/mqdefault.jpg)