Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Women keep asking why men aren't approaching anymore.
Why aren't men asking women out? Why are so many walking away from dating, relationships, and even marriage altogether?
Well, maybe it's time somebody actually answered the question.
More and more men are looking at what relationships require, what they receive in return, and the risks that come with them, and deciding they'd rather keep something they didn't realize they valued quite this much:
Peace.
In this video, I answer a woman's seemingly simple question about what we wish we'd learned earlier in life. And I suspect a whole lot of women aren't going to like the answer.
Because men didn't suddenly forget how to date.
They didn't forget how to approach.
And they didn't stop wanting companionship.
A lot of them simply decided they were done chasing.
And once they discovered how peaceful life could be when they stopped, convincing them to start again became a whole lot harder.
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Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
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Women keep asking why men aren't approaching anymore.
Why aren't men asking women out? Why are so many walking away from dating, relationships, and even marriage altogether?
Well, maybe it's time somebody actually answered the question.
More and more men are looking at what relationships require, what they receive in return, and the risks that come with them, and deciding they'd rather keep something they didn't realize they valued quite this much:
Peace.
In this video, I answer a woman's seemingly simple question about what we wish we'd learned earlier in life. And I suspect a whole lot of women aren't going to like the answer.
Because men didn't suddenly forget how to date.
They didn't forget how to approach.
And they didn't stop wanting companionship.
A lot of them simply decided they were done chasing.
And once they discovered how peaceful life could be when they stopped, convincing them to start again became a whole lot harder.
👀 Watch This Next: youtu.be/p9U0-tIpI5w
🔴 Join me LIVE every Wednesday from 4:00-5:30pm ET over on @TheBoyMeetsSquirrelShow where my partner Lindsay aka @squirrelygirl1988 talk about the issues men and boys face in today's modern society. Come be part of the conversation, have a few laughs and learn more about how you can help bring change to the world
Here are links to even more great stuff!
📘 Check Out My Best Selling Book: Unveiling The Forgotten: The Plight of Male Victims of Domestic Violence & How We Can Help Them
Here: unveilingtheforgotten.com
👬 Join the Brotherhood of Men: Our Private Members Only Community Where You'll Get Access to Exclusive Videos & More Here: patreon.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
⚡ Support The Channel & Get Cool Merch: men-need-to-be-heard.creator-spring.com
🕸️ Visit Our Website: menneedtobeheard.com
Connect with Me On Social Media:
📱 Tik Tok: tiktok.com/@menneedtobeheard3
📱 Instagram: instagram.com/menneedtobeheard
📱 Twitter: twitter.com/MenNeed2BeHeard
📱 Facebook: facebook.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
📱 Rumble: rumble.com/user/MenNeedToBeHeard
This video was created & edited using Filmora: Get a Free Trial and 10% off by clicking here: filmora.wondershare.com/fission/invite?share_code=1Tiu4i6F0qY&referral_id=365
Men Need To Be Heard, is dedicated to bringing awareness to the issues men and boys face in today's society. Our goal is to help break the double standards and myths that surround boys and end the bias against them.
Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
Please Note: Some of these links go to one of my websites and some are affiliate links where I'll earn a small commission if you make a purchase at no additional cost to you.
