Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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I have a big announcement, and am just so excited to share!

My life is famous for a bad marriage, and after escaping trad wife life and an abusive home, I wasn’t ever planning to marry again. But, that has changed.

In this video I share why and how my partner and I decided to get married, despite my feminist advocacy.

It's time to overhaul marriage top to bottom in America, and I'm starting with my own.

"A Man is Not A Plan merch":

lifeismyreligion.com/jen-ex

Cults to Consciousness Interview:
youtu.be/n_N_P5RHhfM?si=eEMnZD01NIRwTK9D

My green ring is so pretty:

#marriage #feminism #womenempowerment #proposal #divorce #secondmarriage #stepmom #over50 #lovestory #tradwife #exmormon #womensrights #couple #love #family #wedding

00:00 Engagement Announcement
00:20 Meet Ferni
01:02 Mormon Roots and Gender Roles
02:31 Early Proposals and Hard Lessons
04:23 Why I Rejected Marriage
05:45 Commitment Ceremony Not Legal
07:18 Turning 52 and Doing the Math
10:02 Protections Health and Taxes
10:57 The Proposal Conversation
12:35 Prenup Boundaries and Yes
13:30 Wedding Plans and Name Choice
15:43 Empowered Love and Wrap Up