Uploaded August 2019 | Updated September 2026, 3 hours ago

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Do you ever get pressure from parents or friends to get married, have kids, or become a doctor? (I’m East Indian. I know I’m projecting.) I get asked about this a lot, especially when I’m speaking to college or university audiences. Well, here’s my take on how to deal with that peer pressure.

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Hey there,

I'm Neil and I spend a ton of time thinking, writing, podcasting, and speaking about living intentionally. I'm the New York Times bestselling author of six books including The Book of Awesome and The Happiness Equation. I've been lucky to speak at places like TED, SXSW, and Google. And I host a huge passion project called the 3 Books podcast.

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Neil
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