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Dr. Ben discusses Main Character Syndrome in TTRPGS (Episode #175). #dnd #pathfinder #ttrpg #wfrp
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Why does one player always dominate your TTRPG table? In this episode of RPG PHD, Dr. Ben applies six psychology frameworks including Interpersonal Complementarity Theory, Social Identity Theory, and Sociometer Theory to explain Main Character Syndrome at the tabletop. Learn why the spotlight hog and the bystander player are opposite ends of the same loop, what's actually causing the pattern at your table, and how to fix it with a practical step-by-step GM toolkit. Whether you're a forever DM dealing with a dominant player or just trying to make sure everyone gets their moment, this video gives you the research and the tools to design a better table.
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00:00 Intro
00:47 Interpersonal Complementarity
09:39 How the Loop Forms
12:05 Other Causes
17:40 What Can GMs Do?
21:46 Pitfalls
26:23 Step-by-step Guide
32:44 Thoughts?
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Works Cited
Berger, Joseph, M. Hamit Fisek, Robert Z. Norman, and Morris Zelditch, Jr. Status Characteristics and Social Interaction: An Expectation-States Approach. Elsevier, 1977.
Carson, Robert C. Interaction Concepts of Personality. Aldine Publishing Company, 1969.
Deci, Edward L., and Richard M. Ryan. Intrinsic Motivation and Self-Determination in Human Behavior. Plenum Press, 1985.
Leary, Mark R., Ellen S. Tambor, Sonja K. Terdal, and Deborah L. Downs. "Self-Esteem as an Interpersonal Monitor: The Sociometer Hypothesis." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 68, no. 3, 1995, pp. 518–530.
Leary, Timothy. Interpersonal Diagnosis of Personality: A Functional Theory and Methodology for Personality Evaluation. Ronald Press, 1957.
Morf, Carolyn C., and Frederick Rhodewalt. "Unraveling the Paradoxes of Narcissism: A Dynamic Self-Regulatory Processing Model." Psychological Inquiry, vol. 12, no. 4, 2001, pp. 177–196.
Niella, Tamara, Nicolás Stier-Moses, and Mariano Sigman. "Nudging Cooperation in a Crowd Experiment." PLOS ONE, vol. 11, no. 1, 21 Jan. 2016, e0147125.
Orford, Jim. "The Rules of Interpersonal Complementarity: Does Hostility Beget Hostility and Dominance, Submission?" Psychological Review, vol. 93, no. 3, 1986, pp. 365–377.
Tajfel, Henri, and John C. Turner. "An Integrative Theory of Intergroup Conflict." The Social Psychology of Intergroup Relations, edited by William G. Austin and Stephen Worchel, Brooks/Cole, 1979, pp. 33–47.
Tiedens, Larissa Z., and Alison R. Fragale. "Power Moves: Complementarity in Dominant and Submissive Nonverbal Behavior." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 84, no. 3, 2003, pp. 558–568.
Wu, Fang, et al. "The Establishment and Maintenance of Dominance Hierarchies." Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences, vol. 377, no. 1845, 28 Feb. 2022.
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Dr. Ben discusses Main Character Syndrome in TTRPGS (Episode #175). #dnd #pathfinder #ttrpg #wfrp
Bystander: youtu.be/rhMi6Ob52VI
Website rpgphd.com
Discord discord.gg/3TATFrkfd
RPG PHD swag!!! rpg-phd.myspreadshop.com
Facebook facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089593636905
Instagram instagram.com/rpg_phd
Bluesky @rpg-phd.bsky.social
Special thanks to Evelina for the thumbnail template, much appreciated!! 😊
Why does one player always dominate your TTRPG table? In this episode of RPG PHD, Dr. Ben applies six psychology frameworks including Interpersonal Complementarity Theory, Social Identity Theory, and Sociometer Theory to explain Main Character Syndrome at the tabletop. Learn why the spotlight hog and the bystander player are opposite ends of the same loop, what's actually causing the pattern at your table, and how to fix it with a practical step-by-step GM toolkit. Whether you're a forever DM dealing with a dominant player or just trying to make sure everyone gets their moment, this video gives you the research and the tools to design a better table.
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00:00 Intro
00:47 Interpersonal Complementarity
09:39 How the Loop Forms
12:05 Other Causes
17:40 What Can GMs Do?
21:46 Pitfalls
26:23 Step-by-step Guide
32:44 Thoughts?
--------------------------------------------
Works Cited
Berger, Joseph, M. Hamit Fisek, Robert Z. Norman, and Morris Zelditch, Jr. Status Characteristics and Social Interaction: An Expectation-States Approach. Elsevier, 1977.
Carson, Robert C. Interaction Concepts of Personality. Aldine Publishing Company, 1969.
Deci, Edward L., and Richard M. Ryan. Intrinsic Motivation and Self-Determination in Human Behavior. Plenum Press, 1985.
Leary, Mark R., Ellen S. Tambor, Sonja K. Terdal, and Deborah L. Downs. "Self-Esteem as an Interpersonal Monitor: The Sociometer Hypothesis." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 68, no. 3, 1995, pp. 518–530.
Leary, Timothy. Interpersonal Diagnosis of Personality: A Functional Theory and Methodology for Personality Evaluation. Ronald Press, 1957.
Morf, Carolyn C., and Frederick Rhodewalt. "Unraveling the Paradoxes of Narcissism: A Dynamic Self-Regulatory Processing Model." Psychological Inquiry, vol. 12, no. 4, 2001, pp. 177–196.
Niella, Tamara, Nicolás Stier-Moses, and Mariano Sigman. "Nudging Cooperation in a Crowd Experiment." PLOS ONE, vol. 11, no. 1, 21 Jan. 2016, e0147125.
Orford, Jim. "The Rules of Interpersonal Complementarity: Does Hostility Beget Hostility and Dominance, Submission?" Psychological Review, vol. 93, no. 3, 1986, pp. 365–377.
Tajfel, Henri, and John C. Turner. "An Integrative Theory of Intergroup Conflict." The Social Psychology of Intergroup Relations, edited by William G. Austin and Stephen Worchel, Brooks/Cole, 1979, pp. 33–47.
Tiedens, Larissa Z., and Alison R. Fragale. "Power Moves: Complementarity in Dominant and Submissive Nonverbal Behavior." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 84, no. 3, 2003, pp. 558–568.
Wu, Fang, et al. "The Establishment and Maintenance of Dominance Hierarchies." Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences, vol. 377, no. 1845, 28 Feb. 2022.
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