Uploaded October 2022 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Dear marriage supporter,
Professor W Bradley Wilcox is a leading international authority on data around marriage and the family. Director of the US National Marriage Project, Fellow of the Institute of Family Studies and Professor at the University of Virginia, Brad took time out from his busy schedule to talk with me. Listen here for more about the impact that marriage and family have on civil society:
Prof Wilcox explains that the most recent evidence shows a 20 percentage-point difference in overall life satisfaction between Americans who are married and those who are not; the data “could not be clearer”.
Similarly, regarding benefits to children, Brad points out that “marriage matters more than ever”. When it comes to criminal activity, college education and child poverty, “there’s just a very large gap” between children growing up with the biological father present compared to those who do not. “Kids are more likely to flounder when they don’t have the benefit of married parents”, he concludes.
Although UK data is more limited, he says, “the basic story is extraordinarily similar”.
“What we see in the research”, he says, “is that people who cohabit prior to marriage are more likely to get divorced and are more likely to be unhappy in their marriages”. Having multiple partners, Brad says, is “very strongly linked to marital problems and divorce”.
There are four factors making it harder for people to marry: economic inequality, increased screen-time, declining religious communities, and a breakdown of social norms. The paradox, Brad says, is that marriage actually combats all of these. The “tragedy of our moment”, he goes on, “is that marriage and family are receding at precisely the social moment when they’re more valuable”.
Restoring the national value of marriage will require, among other things, “new avenues of communicating” its advantages as well as addressing marriage penalties (e.g. in the benefit system).
Brad urges us to stop being “defensive” about marriage, and recognise that “the force is with us”! “There is a better and a worse way to do things”, Brad adds. If “you would like to end up in a better place, vote for yourself and support marriage”.
C4M recognise that one man, one woman marriage leads individuals and society to a better place. No other relationship type comes close. We call on the new Government to prioritise what’s best for the next generation, and for the nation – promoting real marriage.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the Donate button on our website at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
Dear marriage supporter,
Professor W Bradley Wilcox is a leading international authority on data around marriage and the family. Director of the US National Marriage Project, Fellow of the Institute of Family Studies and Professor at the University of Virginia, Brad took time out from his busy schedule to talk with me. Listen here for more about the impact that marriage and family have on civil society:
Prof Wilcox explains that the most recent evidence shows a 20 percentage-point difference in overall life satisfaction between Americans who are married and those who are not; the data “could not be clearer”.
Similarly, regarding benefits to children, Brad points out that “marriage matters more than ever”. When it comes to criminal activity, college education and child poverty, “there’s just a very large gap” between children growing up with the biological father present compared to those who do not. “Kids are more likely to flounder when they don’t have the benefit of married parents”, he concludes.
Although UK data is more limited, he says, “the basic story is extraordinarily similar”.
“What we see in the research”, he says, “is that people who cohabit prior to marriage are more likely to get divorced and are more likely to be unhappy in their marriages”. Having multiple partners, Brad says, is “very strongly linked to marital problems and divorce”.
There are four factors making it harder for people to marry: economic inequality, increased screen-time, declining religious communities, and a breakdown of social norms. The paradox, Brad says, is that marriage actually combats all of these. The “tragedy of our moment”, he goes on, “is that marriage and family are receding at precisely the social moment when they’re more valuable”.
Restoring the national value of marriage will require, among other things, “new avenues of communicating” its advantages as well as addressing marriage penalties (e.g. in the benefit system).
Brad urges us to stop being “defensive” about marriage, and recognise that “the force is with us”! “There is a better and a worse way to do things”, Brad adds. If “you would like to end up in a better place, vote for yourself and support marriage”.
C4M recognise that one man, one woman marriage leads individuals and society to a better place. No other relationship type comes close. We call on the new Government to prioritise what’s best for the next generation, and for the nation – promoting real marriage.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the Donate button on our website at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage




![Dismissed for Defending Reality - Kevin Lister interview with Tony Rucinski
DISMISSED FOR DEFENDING REALITY – KEVIN FIGHTS ON!
Dear marriage supporter,
Mathematics teacher Kevin Lister says he was dismissed from New College Swindon for standing firmly by his conviction that biological sex is immutable. He joins me to discuss his ongoing efforts to clear his name and to hold accountable those he believes are guilty of the safeguarding violations he himself was accused of. Kevin’s courage, positivity, and determination to stand for the truth about the immutability of sex should inspire anyone committed to defending real marriage. Watch the full interview here.
Kevin explains how the issue began when he refused to socially transition a 16-year-old female student without parental consent or appropriate safeguarding reassurances. “I immediately raised a safeguarding concern,” Kevin states. Yet, shockingly, he reports the college informed him it was “policy not to tell the parents” about significant decisions involving minors.
Despite intense pressure to affirm gender ideology, Kevin remained steadfast, plainly telling the student, “Of course you can [enter the girls’ maths competition] ’cos you’re a girl.” His principled stance led to a formal complaint, an internal investigation, and ultimately his dismissal – which he says the college justified by accusing him of holding “right-wing views”.
Refusing to accept this quietly, Kevin represented himself at an employment tribunal due to financial constraints. Although initially unsuccessful, he remains undeterred and is now vigorously pursuing an appeal with the support of a highly capable barrister financed through crowdfunding. Kevin highlights the broader significance of his case, explaining that the way the college handled the complaint against him “completely violates all safeguarding principles”.
Kevin emphasises the need for personal accountability, stating, “unless we can hold people personally accountable for the damages they have caused young people…this will not stop”. Despite the considerable personal and professional cost, he remains resolute, seeing his battle as fundamentally about protecting “the rights of teachers to have freedom to discuss issues and not to be forced into pursuing ideological premises”.
C4M will continue to highlight threats to the fundamental distinction between male and female – a distinction crucial to the definition and integrity of man-woman marriage. We stand alongside individuals like Kevin, who bravely fight to defend and restore the truths underpinning real marriage.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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