Uploaded November 2022 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Eileen Lamb, who some may recognize as The Autism Cafe, shares her thoughts on the matter of advocacy and non-speakers as an autistic mother of autistic children, one of which is also non-speaking, as well as her place in the autism community as both a parent and an autistic person.
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All Across the Spectrum: amzn.to/3SiAJk5
Be The One: amzn.to/3QdYV5P
This interview was conducted as part of a video project on the conversation around who is "allowed" to "speak for" non-speaking autistic people. You can find the overall video here: youtu.be/Gep2opzHyG8
00:00 - Can you tell me a bit about you and your family?
00:30 - How well do you feel you understand your non-speaking child, and do you feel that is influenced by you also being autistic?
02:02 - How would you describe your "place" in the autism community, given that you are both a parent of an autistic child and an autistic adult?
04:02 - Do you feel as though you are your child's voice? Why/why not?
04:49 - Do you experience people telling you they know more about what your child needs than you do?
07:05 - What do you think about the conversation around who gets to speak or advocate for non-speaking autistic people?
09:04 - Do you have any other thoughts you'd like to share?
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Eileen Lamb, who some may recognize as The Autism Cafe, shares her thoughts on the matter of advocacy and non-speakers as an autistic mother of autistic children, one of which is also non-speaking, as well as her place in the autism community as both a parent and an autistic person.
Find Eileen Online:
theautismcafe.com
instagram.com/theautismcafe
facebook.com/theautismcafe
twitter.com/theautismcafe
youtube.com/theautismcafe
pinterest.com/theautismcafe
linkedin.com/in/eileen-lamb3
Eileen's Books:
All Across the Spectrum: amzn.to/3SiAJk5
Be The One: amzn.to/3QdYV5P
This interview was conducted as part of a video project on the conversation around who is "allowed" to "speak for" non-speaking autistic people. You can find the overall video here: youtu.be/Gep2opzHyG8
00:00 - Can you tell me a bit about you and your family?
00:30 - How well do you feel you understand your non-speaking child, and do you feel that is influenced by you also being autistic?
02:02 - How would you describe your "place" in the autism community, given that you are both a parent of an autistic child and an autistic adult?
04:02 - Do you feel as though you are your child's voice? Why/why not?
04:49 - Do you experience people telling you they know more about what your child needs than you do?
07:05 - What do you think about the conversation around who gets to speak or advocate for non-speaking autistic people?
09:04 - Do you have any other thoughts you'd like to share?
MERCH: stephanie-bethany.creator-spring.com
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Or give once at ko-fi.com/stephaniebethany
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![Autism & Friendships
Were learning a bit more about autism and friendships! Theres a bit of information in this video for everybody who has an interest in autistic friendships, so stick around to learn more.
References/Resources:
Sosnowy, Collette; Silverman, Chloe; Shattuck, Paul; Garfield, Tamara (2018). Setbacks and Successes: How Young Adults on the Autism Spectrum Seek Friendship. Autism in Adulthood: Knowledge, Practice, and Policy, (), aut.2018.0009–. doi:10.1089/aut.2018.0009
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![Will better regulation for RBTs fix ABA?
Were going to be going over a recent article by Spectrum News that starts out as though it were a critique of some issues in ABA (applied behavior analysis) and basically ends up suggesting that all bad ABA is because of undertrained or bad RBTs (registered behavior technicians), and if they were better regulated with more oversight, there would be a great reduction in bad ABA, and that its these poorly trained RBTs giving ABA a bad name.
This video contains a lot of my emotions and opinions. Its quite a bit more sassy and opinionated than my average video, and if youd prefer to learn about the ABA situation from a much, much less biased standpoint, you can check out the research video I did.
A much fairer and well-researched video about ABA from its beginnings to now: https://youtu.be/tuRZrto-ZwE
References:
Spectrum News Article: https://www.spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/low-standards-corrode-quality-popular-autism-therapy/?fbclid=IwAR2QBvO9IAMR5nuSyMo6UEg9VJXnXbBG3Y_iHA0FLpBtWE-MzfokTmlaCTA
Terra Vance Correction Article: https://neuroclastic.com/2020/10/28/spectrum-news-interviewed-me-for-what-seemed-like-a-deep-dive-into-aba-i-was-very-disappointed-with-the-version-published-heres-what-i-actually-told-them/?fbclid=IwAR3GP2LZ-Ofm1i9caUvrFDB8Vk_1qv_yS37chO3jv_QpfwQtX38WDm-KjWs
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