Uploaded October 2022 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Ben shares his thoughts and perspective as a non-speaking autistic adult. Note that this interview has been significantly edited down for the convenience of the viewer. Ben uses letterboard in this interview to communicate, and Sarah, his Communication and Regulation Partner (CRP) helps. I left in some snippets to help the audience understand a little about how Ben uses letterboard. Please don't get confused thinking that Ben gave a long answer with just a few points at the board! He spent a lot of time and effort to be able to share his thoughts in a real-time conversation with me, and I am so, so appreciative of his perspective and willingness to participate.
Ben is an amazing person and advocate and you can follow him and what he does online:
facebook.com/benbreauxautisticspeakshismind
instagram.com/benb.wordsofthenonspeaking
https://anchor.fm/autism-personal-coach/episodes/Autism-Stories-Ben-Breaux-e1bs8rv
tiktok.com/@benbnonspeakingautistic
This interview was conducted as part of a video project on the conversation around who is "allowed" to "speak for" non-speaking autistic people. You can find the overall video here: youtu.be/Gep2opzHyG8
00:20 - Do you feel understood and represented by speaking or lower support needs autistic advocates who tend to dominate autistic spaces?
01:52 - At any point in life, have you felt it was accurate to say that a parent, family member, or autistic advocate was your voice?
02:43 - What are your thoughts and feelings regarding autism parents and autistic advocates?
04:04 - What do you think about the conversation around who gets to speak or advocate for non-speaking autistic people?
04:33 - Do you have any other thoughts that you'd like to share?
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Ben shares his thoughts and perspective as a non-speaking autistic adult. Note that this interview has been significantly edited down for the convenience of the viewer. Ben uses letterboard in this interview to communicate, and Sarah, his Communication and Regulation Partner (CRP) helps. I left in some snippets to help the audience understand a little about how Ben uses letterboard. Please don't get confused thinking that Ben gave a long answer with just a few points at the board! He spent a lot of time and effort to be able to share his thoughts in a real-time conversation with me, and I am so, so appreciative of his perspective and willingness to participate.
Ben is an amazing person and advocate and you can follow him and what he does online:
facebook.com/benbreauxautisticspeakshismind
instagram.com/benb.wordsofthenonspeaking
https://anchor.fm/autism-personal-coach/episodes/Autism-Stories-Ben-Breaux-e1bs8rv
tiktok.com/@benbnonspeakingautistic
This interview was conducted as part of a video project on the conversation around who is "allowed" to "speak for" non-speaking autistic people. You can find the overall video here: youtu.be/Gep2opzHyG8
00:20 - Do you feel understood and represented by speaking or lower support needs autistic advocates who tend to dominate autistic spaces?
01:52 - At any point in life, have you felt it was accurate to say that a parent, family member, or autistic advocate was your voice?
02:43 - What are your thoughts and feelings regarding autism parents and autistic advocates?
04:04 - What do you think about the conversation around who gets to speak or advocate for non-speaking autistic people?
04:33 - Do you have any other thoughts that you'd like to share?
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![Will better regulation for RBTs fix ABA?
Were going to be going over a recent article by Spectrum News that starts out as though it were a critique of some issues in ABA (applied behavior analysis) and basically ends up suggesting that all bad ABA is because of undertrained or bad RBTs (registered behavior technicians), and if they were better regulated with more oversight, there would be a great reduction in bad ABA, and that its these poorly trained RBTs giving ABA a bad name.
This video contains a lot of my emotions and opinions. Its quite a bit more sassy and opinionated than my average video, and if youd prefer to learn about the ABA situation from a much, much less biased standpoint, you can check out the research video I did.
A much fairer and well-researched video about ABA from its beginnings to now: https://youtu.be/tuRZrto-ZwE
References:
Spectrum News Article: https://www.spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/low-standards-corrode-quality-popular-autism-therapy/?fbclid=IwAR2QBvO9IAMR5nuSyMo6UEg9VJXnXbBG3Y_iHA0FLpBtWE-MzfokTmlaCTA
Terra Vance Correction Article: https://neuroclastic.com/2020/10/28/spectrum-news-interviewed-me-for-what-seemed-like-a-deep-dive-into-aba-i-was-very-disappointed-with-the-version-published-heres-what-i-actually-told-them/?fbclid=IwAR3GP2LZ-Ofm1i9caUvrFDB8Vk_1qv_yS37chO3jv_QpfwQtX38WDm-KjWs
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![I watched a pro-ABA podcast... | January Livestream
Were back with the livestream on the last Thursday of the month! Hope you can come hang out with us at 6pm CST :)
Sorry for the ranting but thank you all for hanging out!
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![An Autistics Thoughts on Fathering Autism
Because some people get confused, I titled my video An Autistics Thoughts on Fathering Autism to help random people who dont know me know that I am autistic. HOWEVER, as it should be understood about ALL of my videos, this is my PERSONAL perspective. Im not implying that my views = the views of every autistic.
Anyway, this is just a video talking about some of my thoughts and a few concerns regarding their channel, mostly centered on the ABA thing because it was a motivator for getting my long video out. However, this is not a hate video, and I do enjoy the Maass family and think that, as people, they are wonderful and do a lot of important work. Please dont be rude or hateful in the comments.
Fathering Autisms channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/FatheringAutism
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![R is for Respect | Whats in a Word?
This topic was quite important to the one who suggested it, Kaishawna, and I think it may help shed some light on the reason why people call it the r-word or regard it as a slur.
References/Further Reading:
https://www.specialeducationguide.com/blog/the-r-word-a-history-of-the-term-which-states-still-use-it/
https://www.spreadtheword.global/about
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3299349/
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