Uploaded July 2020 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago

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Music & Lyrics by Ben Visini
Recording & Editing by Ben Visini
Mastered with Cloudbounce

Don't

I'll buy a bed frame when y'all stop calling me this

THE PLAN:
This is part of a project I'm doing called "7-Day Songs"! I'm challenging myself to write, record, and edit a new original song/video each week, every Tuesday. Planning to do this until the shelter-in-place/lockdown ends, might extend this past that!
I'm mainly a piano player & songwriter, not so much a recorder/mixer at all, so please bear with me as I try to improve these upcoming weeks!

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LYRICS:

Verse 1
Pause, stop, if you were a friend
You'd know when to end it
Just a nickname, I should calm down
What I feel wasn't intended
At this point, I'd settle for nothing at all
Let me fall

Chorus
Your way of calling me fat
I'm not falling for that
I'll say it again so listen this time
Don't call me big guy

Verse 2
Large in charge, big man in town
Doesn't matter, it's all the same
I thought that everything would change
But they still latch on to my name
Clock tower, they ring that stupid bell
Welcome to my hell

Chorus
Your way of calling me fat
I'm not falling for that
I'll say it again so listen this time
Don't call me big guy

Bridge
A friendly interaction, gesture
To say a large-ass fat shit for sure
I've tried and tried, my will to fight has died
Nowadays we
Don't insult so directly
It's covered with respect, we
Want to look like we're still on the right side

Verse 3
You say "why you getting mad? It's just a simple phrase?"
You could say what you're trying to say in a thousand different ways
At this point, you're not trying to hide
What you feel inside

Chorus
Your way of calling me fat
I'm not falling for that
I'll say it again so listen this time
Don't call me big guy

Outro
-You find it so annoying; the pain is overjoying
-It was just a joke - Can't you let it go now? Can't you let it go now? Just let go
-Not a friend; oh I see. Take your anger out on me
-Look at the big guy, look at the big guy