Uploaded August 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
If you long for an intimate partner, can you apply the non-dual teachings in a practical way to avoid ending up in a mere transactional relationship? If you struggle with insecurity, shame and fear, how can you build an authentic, conscious relationship?
Rupert says: ‘According to the non-dual teaching, you are not the insecure, shameful, fearful self. You are the self behind that, so to speak, that lacks nothing, doesn’t need approval, is not ashamed and is quietly confident.
‘The more you stand as that, the more you’ll act from that in relationships. You still long to have a relationship, but that longing doesn’t come from a sense of lack. It comes from a kind of overflowing of peace and love.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mandali, 5–12 April 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
▸ UK rupertspira.com/event/location/united-kingdom
▸ EU rupertspira.com/event/location/italy
▸ US rupertspira.com/event/location/united-states
0:00 Yearning for a Relationship
0:53 Shared Being
2:05 Standing as Your True Self
4:24 Starting from Fullness
6:27 Quiet Confidence
7:56 A Good Foundation for Relationships
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If you long for an intimate partner, can you apply the non-dual teachings in a practical way to avoid ending up in a mere transactional relationship? If you struggle with insecurity, shame and fear, how can you build an authentic, conscious relationship?
Rupert says: ‘According to the non-dual teaching, you are not the insecure, shameful, fearful self. You are the self behind that, so to speak, that lacks nothing, doesn’t need approval, is not ashamed and is quietly confident.
‘The more you stand as that, the more you’ll act from that in relationships. You still long to have a relationship, but that longing doesn’t come from a sense of lack. It comes from a kind of overflowing of peace and love.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at Mandali, 5–12 April 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
▸ UK rupertspira.com/event/location/united-kingdom
▸ EU rupertspira.com/event/location/italy
▸ US rupertspira.com/event/location/united-states
0:00 Yearning for a Relationship
0:53 Shared Being
2:05 Standing as Your True Self
4:24 Starting from Fullness
6:27 Quiet Confidence
7:56 A Good Foundation for Relationships
––
ACCESS FULL VIDEO ARCHIVE
You can watch or listen to 1000s of hours of teachings, guided meditations and answers in Rupert's full video archive here:
▸ rupertspira.com/subscriptions
––
RETREATS (Weekend, 5-day, 7-day)
Rupert holds regular retreats, roughly once per month, either in-person and online. Many in-person retreats can also be attended from the comfort of your home via livestream.
ONLINE RETREAT SCHEDULE
▸ rupertspira.com/events/retreat-at-home
IN-PERSON RETREATS SCHEDULE (Also Available to Join Online via Live Stream)
▸ UK rupertspira.com/event/location/united-kingdom
▸ EU rupertspira.com/event/location/italy
▸ US rupertspira.com/event/location/united-states
––
WEEKLY WEBINARS (2 hours)
Rupert's webinars take place on Wednesday evenings, from 4pm UK time. In the first twenty to thirty minutes, Rupert leads a spontaneous meditation. The remaining time is open for attendees to discuss their questions with Rupert.
WEEKLY WEBINAR SCHEDULE
▸ rupertspira.com/events/webinar
––
BROWSE RUPERT’S BOOKS
▸ rupertspira.com/store
––
LISTEN TO RUPERT’S PODCAST
▸ iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rupert-spira-podcast
▸ Libsyn: rupertspira.libsyn.com
▸ Spotify: open.spotify.com/artist/6z1GNgC1js30g9RLSfBB4M
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JOIN RUPERT’S FACEBOOK GROUP
▸ facebook.com/groups/rupertspiracommunity
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SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS
▸ Website: rupertspira.com
▸ Instagram: instagram.com/rupertspira_
▸ Facebook: facebook.com/rupertspira
▸ Twitter: twitter.com/rupertspira
▸ Tiktok: tiktok.com/@rupertspira_
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FOLLOW RUPERT ON MEDIUM
medium.com/@rupert_spira
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SUBSCRIBE TO RUPERT’S YOUTUBE FOR NEW VIDEO ALERTS
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#rupertspira #nonduality #happiness #natureofreality #consciousness #awareness #meditation #guidedmeditation
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